Hot latina wanted me to go less rough and animalistic

[killerman]

So I cold approached this hot Columbian latina on the streets 2 years ago. Huge fake tits. Really sexy. On the second date she came back to my place and we had sex. Now she was hot but the sex was kind of disappointing. Usually girls let me fuck the shit out of them. But this one wanted me to fuck her gently. I was going hard and she wanted me to be more gentle. I gave in to her. It was annoying. Didn't see her again afterwards. So I'm thinking, was it a shit test? Should I have just ignored her and just said "you just need to relax baby, let me take control and I'll make you cum real hard" and carried on fucking the shit out of her?

 

[TestY]

 

[Warped Mindless]

Trying to get advice for any one particular woman after the fact is useless. Any one woman can be some weird outlier against the norm so it’s kinda pointless to worry about.

Now if the next 6 outta 10 women you sleep with don’t want to have dominant sex then you have a pattern and it’s worth looking into.

 

[heat]

I think the country you come from influences your expectations. If you know enough Spanish and know how to talk really dirty in Spanish she will be really into it but I'm no expert. Maybe if you ask nicely I'll look up my ex and ask her to write a guide for us as to what's hot in Spanish and why... But if you sleep with her a few times the sex gets better as you each understand each other more, and that's true with all girls

 

[Will_V]

Some girls have a thing where they want it to start off a bit more chill, maybe so they don't feel so 'dirty'. Is it a shit test? Probably a bit of both, in any case the usual approach is to agree, move a little bit in the direction she wants you to go, and then talk up the thing you want to do while moving toward it again and making sure she enjoys herself along the way.