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In my previous report, I mentioned that I had made 7 approaches as part of the Approach 4 Girls A Day Challenge.
While I admit that I stopped the challenge after that (too busy), I'm happy to say that one of the girls I approached that day turned into a lay.
It was the seventh approach.
The Approach
I get in Burger King after 6 successful cold approaches and decide to reward myself with a burger.
As I take a seat, I notice a hot girl in a tight dress with an ass to die for leaving the place.
I spring to my feet and exit the Burger King, calling her from behind.
ME: Excuse me...
HER: (turns and finds me jogging towards her) Uhm yes? (confused look)
ME: (slow down my pace and big smile) Hey... yeah, didnt mean to startle you, I actually saw you walking out of Burger King and... I mean, you looked so freaking good in that dress (gesture to her dress)
HER: Ohhhh thanks! (wides smile)
ME: Yeah, the way you so elegantly walked out...I couldn't help myself, had to come over.
HER: Hahaha thanks, I bought it yesterday.
ME: Well, perfect timing. (pause and smile) What's your name btw?
HER: Serena. And yours?
ME: James. Nice to meet you.
We shake hands.
ME: So... Oh, are you in a rush? (I see her checking her watch)
HER: Yes! I have to be at a meeting at 16h30.
ME: What? On a Sunday?
HER: I know right!
ME: Well, let's start walking so we can save some time.
HER: Sure!
We start walking.
HER: Where are you from? You have an interesting accent!
(If I had a dollar for every time a chick asked me that, I would drop everything and travel the world for the rest of my life)
ME: Can you guess?
HER: Hmmm (thinks about for 10 seconds) No idea!
ME: I'm from (COUNTRY)
HER: Oooohh, is it far from here?
ME: Quite far, yeah.
HER: (Whips out her phone and Googles the country) Wow I wanna go there!
ME: You should... In December, it's peak summer...I can picture you sitting on the beach in your bikini, coconut in hand, tanning the whole day... altho, I wonder, are you the kind of girl who goes to the beach, takes a bunch of selfies but never goes in the ocean?
HER: Never! I love the ocean!
ME: Good... Then we're gonna get along. You'll get the full beach experience, you're gonna love it.
HER: I'm sure I will!
ME: (noticing her taking her metro card out) Alright, hey, I'm thrilled to have met you... how about we get together for a coffee or drink in the coming week?
HER: Coffee sounds great. Maybe I give you my number?
ME: Sure (hands her my phone)
HER: See you!
ME: Bye!
Texting
Not much to say here cuz she's not much of a texter. We exchanged a couple voice messages throughout the week and agreed to meet at a cafe not far from my place on Saturday.
The Date
I fucking forget about the date.
I went to my math tutoring job and on the way back, I receive a voice message from her saying she'll see me soon.
Fuck.
I'm wearing a basic ass polo shirt and my glasses.
No time to pass by my apartment.
I decide, fuck it, Imma show up like that and lead the dance.
And lead the dance I did.
I reach our meeting point and she hugs me. She mentions my glasses, saying they make me look smart. I reply that it's precisely why I wear them because in fact, I'm an idiot undercover.
She laughs at that.
I start building compliance immediately.
We reach cafe and I count like 15 small compliance points.
Things seem to be going well.
I'll spare you the details of the conversation, partly because I can't remember word for word, but basically I deep dived her and found out that her dream is to become a writer. We bond on that because I'm already in the process of writing my novel (in french). At some point, I transition into sex talk and deliver the good lover's gambit, which she EATS up.
I can sense something changing in her after I deliver the bit on making girls feel allowed.
She heartily agrees.
We talk a bit more after that, her eyes a bit more focussed on me.
I decide it's time to pull.
The Pull
ME: I printed the first couple chapters of my book. I wanna show them to you.
HER: Sure!
My Place
Unlike the previous girl, she actually goes through the chapters, albeit not understanding a word.
HER: I think it's so cool that you went ahead and actually wrote your book.
ME: Thanks... yeah, to be honest, I too suffer from perfectionism (something she mentioned earlier) but decided to take the plunge anyway. And to be fair, I'm far from happy with my work. I don't wanna write some basic stuff like 50 shades of grey, altho the sex scenes are great, but the writing is horrible. That might sound exagerated but I wanna be closer to people like Victor Hugo or Alexandre Dumas.
HER: Dumas... He wrote The Count of Monte Cristo right?
ME: Yes, Le Comte de Monte Cristo, and Les Trois Mousquetaires
HER: I love when you speak french.
There is a pause. She is staring at me. As much as I wanna keep ranting about Dumas, I shut the fuck up.
Priorities first.
I kiss her.
She kisses back but pulls away.
HER: I don't want you to think I'm easy.
ME: I would never think that.
HER: Really?
ME: Really (my voice softer) You know what I think of you?
HER: What? (looking at my right eye, then left eye and right again very fast)
ME: I think... come closer, I have to whisper it...
HER: (laughs) There's no one here!
ME: Still, it's a secret... come closer... (she comes closer) What I think of you is....come even closer, I have to whisper it...(she laughs and puts her ear really close to my mouth) So, yes, where was I?
HER: You were about to say what you think of me!
ME: Oh yes... so... what I think of you is... that you'll become one of the most revered authors ever! (her dream, which she mentioned during the deep dive)
HER: (laughs loudly) You're crazy!
ME: (pulls her in and kisses her pasionately)
I break the kiss and look at her.
ME: We're having such a good time together, aren't we?
HER: Yes we are.
I caress her hair a bit and go for the kiss.
This time she loses herself in the kiss.
The rest, as they say, is history.
A note:
Cold approach, i.e. the ability to meet a woman almost anywhere and end up having sex her with her, is one of the most rewarding things I have ever learnt.
I credit Chase for teaching such a wonderful skill.
My coaching session with Alek, where he demonstrates how to use sex talk and lays out the nuances of escalation and compliance, is one of the best (maybe the best?) investments I have ever made with regards to seduction.
(I have a couple lays pulling girls from bars with sex talk but I never got around to posting them, not being active on the forum back then)
I'm writing this right after walking this girl back to the metro and I must say, I feel free.
Beyond just having sex with a cute girl, the real happiness comes from the freedom this skill gives me.
I'm still not where I want to be...
But I'm getting glimpses of what my ultimate destination looks like and I must say...
I'm pretty hyped.
Cheers everyone!
In my previous report, I mentioned that I had made 7 approaches as part of the Approach 4 Girls A Day Challenge.
While I admit that I stopped the challenge after that (too busy), I'm happy to say that one of the girls I approached that day turned into a lay.
It was the seventh approach.
The Approach
I get in Burger King after 6 successful cold approaches and decide to reward myself with a burger.
As I take a seat, I notice a hot girl in a tight dress with an ass to die for leaving the place.
I spring to my feet and exit the Burger King, calling her from behind.
ME: Excuse me...
HER: (turns and finds me jogging towards her) Uhm yes? (confused look)
ME: (slow down my pace and big smile) Hey... yeah, didnt mean to startle you, I actually saw you walking out of Burger King and... I mean, you looked so freaking good in that dress (gesture to her dress)
HER: Ohhhh thanks! (wides smile)
ME: Yeah, the way you so elegantly walked out...I couldn't help myself, had to come over.
HER: Hahaha thanks, I bought it yesterday.
ME: Well, perfect timing. (pause and smile) What's your name btw?
HER: Serena. And yours?
ME: James. Nice to meet you.
We shake hands.
ME: So... Oh, are you in a rush? (I see her checking her watch)
HER: Yes! I have to be at a meeting at 16h30.
ME: What? On a Sunday?
HER: I know right!
ME: Well, let's start walking so we can save some time.
HER: Sure!
We start walking.
HER: Where are you from? You have an interesting accent!
(If I had a dollar for every time a chick asked me that, I would drop everything and travel the world for the rest of my life)
ME: Can you guess?
HER: Hmmm (thinks about for 10 seconds) No idea!
ME: I'm from (COUNTRY)
HER: Oooohh, is it far from here?
ME: Quite far, yeah.
HER: (Whips out her phone and Googles the country) Wow I wanna go there!
ME: You should... In December, it's peak summer...I can picture you sitting on the beach in your bikini, coconut in hand, tanning the whole day... altho, I wonder, are you the kind of girl who goes to the beach, takes a bunch of selfies but never goes in the ocean?
HER: Never! I love the ocean!
ME: Good... Then we're gonna get along. You'll get the full beach experience, you're gonna love it.
HER: I'm sure I will!
ME: (noticing her taking her metro card out) Alright, hey, I'm thrilled to have met you... how about we get together for a coffee or drink in the coming week?
HER: Coffee sounds great. Maybe I give you my number?
ME: Sure (hands her my phone)
HER: See you!
ME: Bye!
Texting
Not much to say here cuz she's not much of a texter. We exchanged a couple voice messages throughout the week and agreed to meet at a cafe not far from my place on Saturday.
The Date
I fucking forget about the date.
I went to my math tutoring job and on the way back, I receive a voice message from her saying she'll see me soon.
Fuck.
I'm wearing a basic ass polo shirt and my glasses.
No time to pass by my apartment.
I decide, fuck it, Imma show up like that and lead the dance.
And lead the dance I did.
I reach our meeting point and she hugs me. She mentions my glasses, saying they make me look smart. I reply that it's precisely why I wear them because in fact, I'm an idiot undercover.
She laughs at that.
I start building compliance immediately.
We reach cafe and I count like 15 small compliance points.
Things seem to be going well.
I'll spare you the details of the conversation, partly because I can't remember word for word, but basically I deep dived her and found out that her dream is to become a writer. We bond on that because I'm already in the process of writing my novel (in french). At some point, I transition into sex talk and deliver the good lover's gambit, which she EATS up.
I can sense something changing in her after I deliver the bit on making girls feel allowed.
She heartily agrees.
We talk a bit more after that, her eyes a bit more focussed on me.
I decide it's time to pull.
The Pull
ME: I printed the first couple chapters of my book. I wanna show them to you.
HER: Sure!
My Place
Unlike the previous girl, she actually goes through the chapters, albeit not understanding a word.
HER: I think it's so cool that you went ahead and actually wrote your book.
ME: Thanks... yeah, to be honest, I too suffer from perfectionism (something she mentioned earlier) but decided to take the plunge anyway. And to be fair, I'm far from happy with my work. I don't wanna write some basic stuff like 50 shades of grey, altho the sex scenes are great, but the writing is horrible. That might sound exagerated but I wanna be closer to people like Victor Hugo or Alexandre Dumas.
HER: Dumas... He wrote The Count of Monte Cristo right?
ME: Yes, Le Comte de Monte Cristo, and Les Trois Mousquetaires
HER: I love when you speak french.
There is a pause. She is staring at me. As much as I wanna keep ranting about Dumas, I shut the fuck up.
Priorities first.
I kiss her.
She kisses back but pulls away.
HER: I don't want you to think I'm easy.
ME: I would never think that.
HER: Really?
ME: Really (my voice softer) You know what I think of you?
HER: What? (looking at my right eye, then left eye and right again very fast)
ME: I think... come closer, I have to whisper it...
HER: (laughs) There's no one here!
ME: Still, it's a secret... come closer... (she comes closer) What I think of you is....come even closer, I have to whisper it...(she laughs and puts her ear really close to my mouth) So, yes, where was I?
HER: You were about to say what you think of me!
ME: Oh yes... so... what I think of you is... that you'll become one of the most revered authors ever! (her dream, which she mentioned during the deep dive)
HER: (laughs loudly) You're crazy!
ME: (pulls her in and kisses her pasionately)
I break the kiss and look at her.
ME: We're having such a good time together, aren't we?
HER: Yes we are.
I caress her hair a bit and go for the kiss.
This time she loses herself in the kiss.
The rest, as they say, is history.
A note:
Cold approach, i.e. the ability to meet a woman almost anywhere and end up having sex her with her, is one of the most rewarding things I have ever learnt.
I credit Chase for teaching such a wonderful skill.
My coaching session with Alek, where he demonstrates how to use sex talk and lays out the nuances of escalation and compliance, is one of the best (maybe the best?) investments I have ever made with regards to seduction.
(I have a couple lays pulling girls from bars with sex talk but I never got around to posting them, not being active on the forum back then)
I'm writing this right after walking this girl back to the metro and I must say, I feel free.
Beyond just having sex with a cute girl, the real happiness comes from the freedom this skill gives me.
I'm still not where I want to be...
But I'm getting glimpses of what my ultimate destination looks like and I must say...
I'm pretty hyped.
Cheers everyone!