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How a girl creeps me out

happynanako

Space Monkey
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I think creepiness applies to everyone regardless of gender.

Note: I give every girl who put in the effort a chance (need to pass through the filter of likeability, she does not need to be a top model just pleasant for me to see)

I was using a dating app and I matched this girl. Her looks were below average but her figure was still acceptable. She claimed to have done some form of psychology courses which triggered my interest. She is very responsive with her text, which made up for her looks.

We set up a meeting to know more about her interest and her specialisation. She seems to be a goal-oriented person and seeking an immediate relationship.
1st Meetup: I cannot find any reason to click with her, she cannot understand my jokes apparently which turns me off. (I tend to be able to make most girls laugh, maybe she's using her psychology to play mind games with me). She also told me she has a number of candidates (I give her the benefit of doubt).

2nd Meetup: I decided to give her another chance as maybe the first meetup might not be a good indicator. I was still unable to find a reason to click with her and when the topic of marriage came. She asked about my views and I gave a casual answer and she raged! She told me off indicating that I do not seem to be serious and we went awkward in a cafe for 30 minutes (I just want to go home and not meet her ever again).

I last seen her and ignore her lame text the day after.

She texted me weeks later asking about my day and eventually last seen me (I gave her short replies). Probably wants to get back at me for last seen her. Which was fine because I dodge a bullet.
 

ph40

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Man, girls can be even more creepy than guys a lot of the time.

I've met plenty of girls that I would deem "creepy"...
 

DarkKnight

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Hmm. Usually I have found girls creepy when they do not seem to get hints. Usually with hardcore attention whores who are overly persistent and it all becomes weird. When there is this super superficial vibe if you get what I mean.
 

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Don't want to be a downer.

Offline and online, there seems to be a disconnect between production and distribution and the style. People today seems to be only at 'style level'. And production (reality) and distribution (vehicle) is a disconnect.

If it's not dating, it's how we communicate as well

TLDR:

Females want the greatest guy with the greatest dick, with the greatest car with the greatest feminine skills yet masculine frame.
I say it first. Good luck with that. And why should he marry your ass......

Men and women, need to work on themselves. You gotta have something going on in your life. No two ways about it.

z@c+
 
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