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We have fines between 1 to 5k for not wearing masks. (So... We're wearing masks.)
I haven't converted a DG pull post corona so far due to many reasons but for opening and getting into a conversation any kind of opinion opener about Corona or masks have worked for me and one other guy who has a really strong opener game.
Yesterday I got into a really good conversation with a hottie that hooked very well: (I'm translating from another lang)
-> Hey, I need to ask you sth. (They stop, you speaking over the shoulder.) Do we have to wear these?
-> Yeah.
-> Really? I hate these masks. Is it mandatory? What happens if I don't want to?
-> (they explain to you the laws)
-> Oh damn. I haven't been paying attention to the news lately. It's been changing every day.
-> Yeah.
-> Isn't it crazy? What do you think about this, I think it's all one big hoax?! Do you think we should wear masks?
-> Yeah... Actually. Bla bla bla.
(Then you can disagree with her points, break rapport, cut the thread, change topics, make jokes, add more about yourself by telling a story, etc.) Almost everyone has strong opinions about Corona and masks, it's a good social hook point hack. Also a lot of instant commonalities. ("Hey I can't fucking talk in this mask and I feel weird." Guess who else feels that way and probably has 10 examples of it? The girl.) Transitioning into a real convo is very easy with a qualifier. (You're actually super cool/friendly, what's your name? / where are you from? / You're not from here, are you?, etc.)
This also gives you time to "relax in the pocket" and open up. As you open up you engage more, have better eye contact and project your voice better, in other words, you get out of your head WITHIN THE CONVERSATION, not before it. You don't have to be razor sharp from the get go. I often never am without social momentum.
I honestly think opinion openers and actually letting the girl carry the convo is the best solution to the "I'm in my head and don't have social momentum." problem. But sadly, it's a dying art at this point. My game is probably much more indirect than yours Skills so adjust accordingly. But how much you hate masks, how it puts you in your head is actually a good congruent opener IMO. But if you're used to opening super strong and intentful, yeah it's gonna throw you off.
(Do we have to wear masks?) -> (I hate it. What do you think about it?) (A variation of this will buy you 1 to 10 minutes which you can use to relax and open up.) Transition off it quickly though because it's not a very juicy topic and it goes nowhere/becomes dry quick if you don't.
Some other good Corona related questions that I've used.
- Hey I love your mask. Where did you get it?
- When do you think this will end?
- Do you think we'll ever get back to normal?
All hooked OK to well.
I haven't converted a DG pull post corona so far due to many reasons but for opening and getting into a conversation any kind of opinion opener about Corona or masks have worked for me and one other guy who has a really strong opener game.
Yesterday I got into a really good conversation with a hottie that hooked very well: (I'm translating from another lang)
-> Hey, I need to ask you sth. (They stop, you speaking over the shoulder.) Do we have to wear these?
-> Yeah.
-> Really? I hate these masks. Is it mandatory? What happens if I don't want to?
-> (they explain to you the laws)
-> Oh damn. I haven't been paying attention to the news lately. It's been changing every day.
-> Yeah.
-> Isn't it crazy? What do you think about this, I think it's all one big hoax?! Do you think we should wear masks?
-> Yeah... Actually. Bla bla bla.
(Then you can disagree with her points, break rapport, cut the thread, change topics, make jokes, add more about yourself by telling a story, etc.) Almost everyone has strong opinions about Corona and masks, it's a good social hook point hack. Also a lot of instant commonalities. ("Hey I can't fucking talk in this mask and I feel weird." Guess who else feels that way and probably has 10 examples of it? The girl.) Transitioning into a real convo is very easy with a qualifier. (You're actually super cool/friendly, what's your name? / where are you from? / You're not from here, are you?, etc.)
This also gives you time to "relax in the pocket" and open up. As you open up you engage more, have better eye contact and project your voice better, in other words, you get out of your head WITHIN THE CONVERSATION, not before it. You don't have to be razor sharp from the get go. I often never am without social momentum.
I honestly think opinion openers and actually letting the girl carry the convo is the best solution to the "I'm in my head and don't have social momentum." problem. But sadly, it's a dying art at this point. My game is probably much more indirect than yours Skills so adjust accordingly. But how much you hate masks, how it puts you in your head is actually a good congruent opener IMO. But if you're used to opening super strong and intentful, yeah it's gonna throw you off.
(Do we have to wear masks?) -> (I hate it. What do you think about it?) (A variation of this will buy you 1 to 10 minutes which you can use to relax and open up.) Transition off it quickly though because it's not a very juicy topic and it goes nowhere/becomes dry quick if you don't.
Some other good Corona related questions that I've used.
- Hey I love your mask. Where did you get it?
- When do you think this will end?
- Do you think we'll ever get back to normal?
All hooked OK to well.
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