I want to knw exactly what women feel/think when they see an attractive guy. For us men we usually feel a desire to make that girl ours, have sex with her, kiss her, we get a bit shy etc and sometimes we go home still thinkin about that attractive girl, seein an attractive girls triggers very powerful emotions in us men. But for girls am not sure what exactly it is they feel or think upon first impression of seein an attractive guy? Do they feel desire to have sex with him? Kiss him? Or maybe make him theres? Am really confused. Are attraction feelings equal for both genders? Do we feel the same way when we meet someone attractive? Thanks
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90% of the women I've slept with knew pretty fast if they wanted to sleep with me or not. Some girls said they knew instantly, others said they knew within a few minutes of talking to me but the initial attraction was there.
Hell lol, I was talking to my mom the other day and she made the comment that she still finds initial attraction or "the spark" in some guys her age and feels it right away.
Men and women don't think all that differently about things like this; thoughts are one thing, actions are another. Women see some men and immediately want to be fucked but there are social expectations placed on them and they know they cannot actively pursue it whereas guys are encouraged oftentimes to pursue it when they feel that same thing for women. Basically, we kind of think the same but men can pursue it in a socially acceptable way and women cannot lest they be labeled and stigmatized.
-Richard
Hell lol, I was talking to my mom the other day and she made the comment that she still finds initial attraction or "the spark" in some guys her age and feels it right away.
Men and women don't think all that differently about things like this; thoughts are one thing, actions are another. Women see some men and immediately want to be fucked but there are social expectations placed on them and they know they cannot actively pursue it whereas guys are encouraged oftentimes to pursue it when they feel that same thing for women. Basically, we kind of think the same but men can pursue it in a socially acceptable way and women cannot lest they be labeled and stigmatized.
-Richard
I've found the same as Richard. Women know right away or within a few minutes if they're on the fence. They're not looking at this analytically...they're going on their feelings (their subconscious is taking care of the analytical stuff)...so they "feel" that you're the right kind of guy for them. And when they know they want you and you pussyfoot around they get really really angry at you (though they rarely show it and may in fact be quite nice regardless...but don't be fooled...you fucked up). That's why it's so important to take action right away, and particularly to move them asap. Moving them is like a stoplight. If they move with you it's game on green light go for all the marbles don't hesitate one bit. 90+% of the time you're home free as long as you game her right and don't fuck things up. If she won't move, persist in a socially savvy way, and if she still won't move after a few solid tries then red light move on to a girl who won't waste your time.
Don't waste your time screwing around with the emotions of liking a girl. Be a man and go for it balls to the wall. She'll thank you for it. You can deal with the emotions later if she chooses to chase you for a relationship. Never try to "own" a woman by "making her yours". She's her own person and most women hate it when men want to "own" them. You should always aim to be a positive to her life, and in turn she'll do the same for you (and if she doesn't ditch the bitch). That's what creates a good healthy relationship.
Don't waste your time screwing around with the emotions of liking a girl. Be a man and go for it balls to the wall. She'll thank you for it. You can deal with the emotions later if she chooses to chase you for a relationship. Never try to "own" a woman by "making her yours". She's her own person and most women hate it when men want to "own" them. You should always aim to be a positive to her life, and in turn she'll do the same for you (and if she doesn't ditch the bitch). That's what creates a good healthy relationship.