Not sure if this is the right section for this but I'd like to share this personal experience with you folks. Would be interesting if you had your own stories to tell.
Anyway, I'd describe myself as a nice guy. And in the past, about 10-11 months ago I was heartbroken by a girl, felt played etc. It completely messed me up. And ever since, I've decided to not get attached and focus on a single person anymore. So I've been messing around this summer a little bit, had a girl as a Main and another as a Second.
Second was a virgin before I deflowered her and at times was acting kinda weird.. I couldn't read her, and while everything was going alright she suddenly stops texting.
So I take a selfie and at the very bottom write a text reading "Secondary, why aint ya answeriinnn..!!" or something and share it as an instagram story for my close friends only (ie., just Secondary, smh she was checking all my stories out but ignoring messages..???? )
So anyway a day or two later that same picture I send to my Main girl while we were chatting. The edited text on the picture wasnt visible on the 'picture menu', at the gallery (as it was at the very bottom of the picture on 9x16, while the pics are probably shown in 1x1 resolution in the gallery), so I thought it was all good. I didn't check the picture after sending it as I was in a hurry and later went to sleep. Next day at noon I wake up to see no new messages from Main. Weird, so I check the messages carefully, then the picture. And I see it. The picture that's meant to go for Secondary, and Secondary only, as it's got her name on it, was sent to Main. And I'm dying of laughter. Then felt bad, like a massive asshole, that was really uncool but it was an honest mistake. Note that I had cleared myself out to both girls that I could be probably messing around with other ladies aswell but I wouldn't speak about it ever to avoid the inevitable jealously.
Anyway I tell Main that that was a shitty mistake, my bad. (Didn't exactly apologize to her with a 'sorry' as mentioned on some article) and she seems cold over text, I'm like "whatever, she'll get over it."
One or two days later she wants to meet up, we do. Drive her up to our secluded spot as I was horny and wanted to tap her but well turns out she's still pissed off. And then we have 'the talk'.
She tells me I killed her inside, devastated her, (apparently she didn't get the message that I was fucking other girls too), she's been feeling terrible, had lost her apetite for food etc. So now she's telling me that she wants exclusivity. I tell her that can't be done, it's impossible and we've had this conversation before. I'm solid as a rock on my stance and don't back down one bit. Ask her if she'd rather we broke this apart completely and she tells me no, she likes me but wants exclusivity.
And I swear the things and the way she's telling them to me reminds me of myself 10-11 months ago when I was having this chat with youngmilf who had messed me up. And the tables have turned, I was now in youngmilf's shoes and Main was in mine. And I'm honestly feeling shit, cause I didn't want to hurt this girl. Didn't wanna make her feel like I had felt back then. And I get all emotional as I felt like a massive asshole, didn't wanna be like youngmilf, wanted to be right.. and I get teary eyes.
I think she appreciated that cause she tells me "Maybe you're also pretty attached with me." ....... little did she know that I had another girl in my mind and not her.. like damn. How fucked up is that?
So anyways I drive her back home. On the way there she asks me
"So what do we do now?"
"I'm taking you home."
"No.. the two of us, what are we gonna do?" she says..
So I'm like "Well I've made myself clear. You size things up with yourself and decide on what you wanna do."
One or two days later she wants to hang.
Was a casual FWB again til I got bored and felt she was too attached so I stopped hanging with her when the 2nd lockdown hit. Probs best for all.
TLDR; I became a massive asshole by sending by mistake a selfie that had my second girl's name to my primary girl. She's super mad n devastated, about 2 days later we meet up. She wants exclusivity but CHAD moment: I'm not having any of that, no thanks. Didn't really care about losing her either so I stand my ground and ask her if it'd be better to just break up. About two days later she's still happy with being a casual FWB whilst I'm fucking other girls and she knows it.
Anyway, I'd describe myself as a nice guy. And in the past, about 10-11 months ago I was heartbroken by a girl, felt played etc. It completely messed me up. And ever since, I've decided to not get attached and focus on a single person anymore. So I've been messing around this summer a little bit, had a girl as a Main and another as a Second.
Second was a virgin before I deflowered her and at times was acting kinda weird.. I couldn't read her, and while everything was going alright she suddenly stops texting.
So I take a selfie and at the very bottom write a text reading "Secondary, why aint ya answeriinnn..!!" or something and share it as an instagram story for my close friends only (ie., just Secondary, smh she was checking all my stories out but ignoring messages..???? )
So anyway a day or two later that same picture I send to my Main girl while we were chatting. The edited text on the picture wasnt visible on the 'picture menu', at the gallery (as it was at the very bottom of the picture on 9x16, while the pics are probably shown in 1x1 resolution in the gallery), so I thought it was all good. I didn't check the picture after sending it as I was in a hurry and later went to sleep. Next day at noon I wake up to see no new messages from Main. Weird, so I check the messages carefully, then the picture. And I see it. The picture that's meant to go for Secondary, and Secondary only, as it's got her name on it, was sent to Main. And I'm dying of laughter. Then felt bad, like a massive asshole, that was really uncool but it was an honest mistake. Note that I had cleared myself out to both girls that I could be probably messing around with other ladies aswell but I wouldn't speak about it ever to avoid the inevitable jealously.
Anyway I tell Main that that was a shitty mistake, my bad. (Didn't exactly apologize to her with a 'sorry' as mentioned on some article) and she seems cold over text, I'm like "whatever, she'll get over it."
One or two days later she wants to meet up, we do. Drive her up to our secluded spot as I was horny and wanted to tap her but well turns out she's still pissed off. And then we have 'the talk'.
She tells me I killed her inside, devastated her, (apparently she didn't get the message that I was fucking other girls too), she's been feeling terrible, had lost her apetite for food etc. So now she's telling me that she wants exclusivity. I tell her that can't be done, it's impossible and we've had this conversation before. I'm solid as a rock on my stance and don't back down one bit. Ask her if she'd rather we broke this apart completely and she tells me no, she likes me but wants exclusivity.
And I swear the things and the way she's telling them to me reminds me of myself 10-11 months ago when I was having this chat with youngmilf who had messed me up. And the tables have turned, I was now in youngmilf's shoes and Main was in mine. And I'm honestly feeling shit, cause I didn't want to hurt this girl. Didn't wanna make her feel like I had felt back then. And I get all emotional as I felt like a massive asshole, didn't wanna be like youngmilf, wanted to be right.. and I get teary eyes.
I think she appreciated that cause she tells me "Maybe you're also pretty attached with me." ....... little did she know that I had another girl in my mind and not her.. like damn. How fucked up is that?
So anyways I drive her back home. On the way there she asks me
"So what do we do now?"
"I'm taking you home."
"No.. the two of us, what are we gonna do?" she says..
So I'm like "Well I've made myself clear. You size things up with yourself and decide on what you wanna do."
One or two days later she wants to hang.
Was a casual FWB again til I got bored and felt she was too attached so I stopped hanging with her when the 2nd lockdown hit. Probs best for all.
TLDR; I became a massive asshole by sending by mistake a selfie that had my second girl's name to my primary girl. She's super mad n devastated, about 2 days later we meet up. She wants exclusivity but CHAD moment: I'm not having any of that, no thanks. Didn't really care about losing her either so I stand my ground and ask her if it'd be better to just break up. About two days later she's still happy with being a casual FWB whilst I'm fucking other girls and she knows it.
