How can I make a move on these women?

[Kuro]

I'm terrible at making moves on women or asking them out. I've read numerous articles on this website, yet I still feel like I'm not entirely understanding.

Since each situation seems different, I'll just list the girls I'm interested in right now. I don't know whether I should take a different approach to them or not.

Girl 1 - Has a boyfriend, but I suspect they're going to break up. We've been talking for about 6 months now and during that time she's told me a bit about herself, including some pretty personal stuff. We touch each other quite a bit and she lightly hits me sometimes, usually in response to a perverted remark.

I don't think I'm friend zoned yet, but I feel like I need to make a move soon or I will be.

Girl 2 - We've only had one one-on-one conversation, but we do touch quite a bit. For some reason she has bitten me twice now too.

I did manage to get her phone number today, so I feel like I've made a little progress.

Girl 3 - I see her around occasionally, but bumping into her is kind of rare and we've barely talked. I haven't touched her yet and I won't have a lot of opportunities to make a move.

Girl 4 - I've known her for years now. I suspect I am friend zoned, so she could be a waste of my time. She did agree to give me a chance if things don't work out with her boyfriend, but I don't know whether to believe that or not.

 

[Thedoctor]

Kuro,

It can be a little over-bearing at first trying to take in all the new info and remembering everything. I'd probably say the two most important things for beginners (after getting your fundamentals solid) is move fast and get investment

All the above situations you mentioned are lacking these two things on your part.

If you haven't read these articles yet, I'd recommend you do:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/secre ... ove-faster

https://www.girlschase.com/content/its-n ... s-hers-you

https://www.girlschase.com/content/tacti ... move-girls

Read these three articles and you should have a good idea how to proceed. Ask these girls on a date. If you can get even one out, 1 out of 4 really ain't bad.

-Doc

 

[Good Vibes]

Girl 1 - Has a boyfriend, but I suspect they're going to break up. We've been talking for about 6 months now and during that time she's told me a bit about herself, including some pretty personal stuff. We touch each other quite a bit and she lightly hits me sometimes, usually in response to a perverted remark.

I don't think I'm friend zoned yet, but I feel like I need to make a move soon or I will be.

If she thinks you're waiting for your chance with her then she's got you under control, it doesn't mean you have no chance to be her back up plan nice-guy boyfriend but it does sound like you have been friend zoned.

 

[Kuro]

Thanks for the links, TheDoctor. Moving women seems to be the problem I'm having. I think I'm pretty good at using touch to flirt, but I suppose that's not going to get me anywhere if I can't get the girl alone.

Girl 1 - Has a boyfriend, but I suspect they're going to break up. We've been talking for about 6 months now and during that time she's told me a bit about herself, including some pretty personal stuff. We touch each other quite a bit and she lightly hits me sometimes, usually in response to a perverted remark.

I don't think I'm friend zoned yet, but I feel like I need to make a move soon or I will be.

If she thinks you're waiting for your chance with her then she's got you under control, it doesn't mean you have no chance to be her back up plan nice-guy boyfriend but it does sound like you have been friend zoned.

I'm actually not sure if I'm friend zoned or not. Main reason I'm not sure is because I've not made a move in six months. Apart from that, though, I've not been overly nice, following her around, or anything like that.

I am pretty sure girl #4 has me friend zoned, though. Unfortunately I've known her since before I considered my approach to girls is the problem.