How Can I Speed Up My Learning Curve?

[Edd--19]

Hey, so some of you may know me from having my journal on this site and I've been having a little success here and there but mostly struggling to get what I want. So I want to figure out what the best ways to improve are. I'm currently trying the "go for broke and try everything" approach which tosses up some interesting results here and there but nothing substantial. It might be worth for me to let you know that I find that I get good responses some of the time and then I blow the interaction within a few moments. This is really starting to get to me so I appreciate any help if anyone's had the same issue.

I've read lots of Chase's articles, gone through other sites and tried different things but I keep hitting a roadblock here. I know it's not me being unattractive; Nearly all girls are checking me out when I walk down the street (looking through my peripherals). Am I doing something subtle that makes me destroy all my work on my fundamentals? I've looked at my body language, tried tweaking my vibe, even tried some unusual things and they work... for a bit. What has helped people speed up there learning, 'cause I know I'm missing something pretty big here. Thanks, Edd.

 

[Franco]

Edd--19,

I would recommend copy/pasting some of your journal posts where you interacted with women and posting them on the Field Reports board. Journals are mostly a log to keep track of your own progress (although occasionally other members will be kind enough to comment), but if you want feedback on what you may be doing wrong (or even what you're doing right), then the Field Reports board is the way to go.

I don't check the Field Reports too often, so forgive me if you've been doing this. If you feel like you aren't getting enough responses, make sure to re-read your reports before you post them and be sure that they are very clear, concise, and well-written. There are lots of reports on the board, so people will only take the time to give feedback on the ones that have both a detailed description of the interaction as well as clear questions to go along with it.

- Franco

 

[Edd--19]

Thanks Franco, I haven't been doing this so I'll start doing it, I'm planning on going out tonight so I plan on posting tonight, I'll post it in field reports as well. I'll keep in mind what you've said, I haven't been using this site as resourcefully as I thought I had been. Thanks for the swift reply.
Edd

 

[Edd--19]

Well thought out post, I haven't been putting in as much effort as I could have been... maybe phoning it in a bit. I'm still here however and that means something. I have neglected the writing up part and I want to catch it up. I've read yours and ray posts and they are very content filled and in depth. They're great examples to use and follow.

Imo, there's no shortcuts, but if you wanna get good the fastest there's one word that comes the mind.

immersion

I like this a lot.

I've been putting myself through some immersion and the experience and change in me I've noticed which is great. I feel like I can get more and now I have a strong enough mindset and enough reference points to push myself even more. What you're saying really hits home... Cool advice.

 

[Man-O]

I've been doing this for a year (night game 3xweek + various social gatherings and stuff). I was virgin before I started out and my nudge count is increasing by each week now suddenly + I got 3 fbs. I guess I'm having some nice weeks with great ups. For me it feels like I'm about to really break a wall and finally learned that you can't spend that many hours with girls as you simply don't have time for it when you got work and friends.

So what in generel speeds up learning curve for me and others?

1. Be disciplined and have goals with this. Your motivation won't always be there and then you rely on discipline and goals. And so you won't have gaps where you aren't gaming.

2. Mentor, these can really help. Never had one but I'm pretty sure I'd had learned faster, but the good side about not having a mentor is you're more prone to make your own unique style of gaming/social awareness/vibe but your learning curve is most likely slower.

3. Fundraiser. My new job is fundraising on the street. I can daygame while I work. I learn to take rejections with a grain of salt as we get a LOT rejections while we improve our social awareness to attain more memberships for our organization. Even some of the methods we use are pretty much what is written here, instead of girls it's people in generel. But even these methods I've learned can be used for gaming girls as well