How common is peach fuzz and how much of a turn-off it is for you

[empath]

I have noticed... little hairs on upper lips of girls and mostly they clean it but I can't just get that image out of my head. This affect me in LTR.

I am wondering if it is very common or I can find a girl without it?

Does it bother guys here or should I just over look it.

Maybe I'm shallow but it bothers me.

Also, any difference in girls with no peach fuzz or with it?

 

[DArtagnan]

For the first couple of years of my relationship with my ex, she had hairs on her upper lips, or more precisely between her outer and inner upper lips. They were kind of hidden under her outer lips. They were relatively long though, definitely longer than peach fuzz., maybe because my ex had a thick, curly hair. Is this what you are talking about?

You bet this annoyed me, a lot! And for sure I preferred my first girlfriend's pussy. without any fuzz inside the lips (I don't mind some hair outside).

The worst part was that she prided herself very much on being well groomed, shaved, well-dressed, with make-up, etc. Yet she was forgetting to shave those damn hairs. Everything else around was shaved, but then you would part those lips, and find those little thick hairs coming out from their hideout lol

One day I told her and she was pretty pragmatic about it, and started shaving it without any grudges. She just hadn't realized they existed before.

 

[empath]

For the first couple of years of my relationship with my ex, she had hairs on her upper lips, or more precisely between her outer and inner upper lips. They were kind of hidden under her outer lips. They were relatively long though, definitely longer than peach fuzz., maybe because my ex had a thick, curly hair. Is this what you are talking about?

You bet this annoyed me, a lot! And for sure I preferred my first girlfriend's pussy. without any fuzz inside the lips (I don't mind some hair outside).

The worst part was that she prided herself very much on being well groomed, shaved, well-dressed, with make-up, etc. Yet she was forgetting to shave those damn hairs. Everything else around was shaved, but then you would part those lips, and find those little thick hairs coming out from their hideout lol

One day I told her and she was pretty pragmatic about it, and started shaving it without any grudges. She just hadn't realized they existed before.

I mean on face. Like moustache but very light.

 

[topcat]

I mean on face. Like moustache but very light.

lol no racism but that might be an India thing.

 

[empath]

lol no racism but that might be an India thing.

Sucks man

 

[DArtagnan]

I mean on face. Like moustache but very light.

Oh
I haven't thought twice about it, for me it was clear you were talking about below lol

 

[average_daygamer]

I have noticed... little hairs on upper lips of girls and mostly they clean it but I can't just get that image out of my head. This affect me in LTR.

I am wondering if it is very common or I can find a girl without it?

Does it bother guys here or should I just over look it.

Maybe I'm shallow but it bothers me.

Also, any difference in girls with no peach fuzz or with it?

Wtf lol.

The difference between the have's and the have not's.

I remember this being a thing as a teenager, I found it really attractive when the girls got that. Firstly, it looked cute and secondly, it showed, on a primal level, that they had achieved sexual maturity.

I can't believe how fussy some men are!

 

[empath]

Wtf lol.

The difference between the have's and the have not's.

I remember this being a thing as a teenager, I found it really attractive when the girls got that. Firstly, it looked cute and secondly, it showed, on a primal level, that they had achieved sexual maturity.

I can't believe how fussy some men are!

Cute?

 

[OldGuy]

The peach fuz on upper lip shows high T and higher sex drive.

 

[empath]

The peach fuz on upper lip shows high T and higher sex drive.

What to do with her sex drive if I don't find her face attractive due to this?

 

[average_daygamer]

What to do with her sex drive if I don't find her face attractive due to this?

You just sound like a pussy tbh.

 

[topcat]

You just sound like a pussy tbh.

 

[Chase]

This thread is hilarious.

@empath, seems to be pretty common among Indian women.

I just assumed Indian men liked hairy women? Or maybe it's because of all the arranged marriages. No opportunity for sexual selection to weed out the hirsute brides!

Anyway:

The peach fuz on upper lip shows high T and higher sex drive.

This is dead-on.

I had a high-T girlfriend who confessed she used to have some upper lip hair and even forearm hair until she had it lasered off.

She was meticulous about always shaving her legs and armpits because she didn't want the hair coming through.

I'm a bush man, too, but when that girl grew out her pubic hair it was like having sex with a Brillo pad. She had some THICK hair!

Empath, if you don't like the lip hair, just buy her some Nair.

Chase

 

[average_daygamer]

Now that is going too far!

I remember though, when I was a teenager, seeing the girls get this.

Even blondes got it. I thought it looked cute/hot as it is an obvious sign something is on.

Threads like this annoy me, because there are those of us that can't even get laid.

 

[topcat]

Threads like this annoy me, because there are those of us that can't even get laid.

That’s a you problem

 

[empath]

This thread is hilarious.

@empath, seems to be pretty common among Indian women.

I just assumed Indian men liked hairy women? Or maybe it's because of all the arranged marriages. No opportunity for sexual selection to weed out the hirsute brides!

Anyway:



This is dead-on.

I had a high-T girlfriend who confessed she used to have some upper lip hair and even forearm hair until she had it lasered off.

She was meticulous about always shaving her legs and armpits because she didn't want the hair coming through.

I'm a bush man, too, but when that girl grew out her pubic hair it was like having sex with a Brillo pad. She had some THICK hair!

Empath, if you don't like the lip hair, just buy her some Nair.

Chase

Well I agree with High-T part.

I guess you guys are right I guess its Indian women problem.

And girls I meet are ambitious and career oriented kind so I guess their peach fuzz is more noticeable due to that high-T.

But worst part is during first few meet/dates these girls come after doing their upper lips.

So I don't notice it.

But once they get comfy they let it grow.

Idk how to tell them to keep it clean regularly. I tried telling my ex about it.. so she grew insecure, though I am shallow. So I let that argument slide.

Once hooking up phase is over and I start liking their personality so I want to see them more but then thought of LTR gives me ick. Its the most annoying things I have found on girls. I can do with bush heck even armpit hairs but this peach fuzz gives me ick.

Pssst.

 

[Chase]

But worst part is during first few meet/dates these girls come after doing their upper lips.

So I don't notice it.

But once they get comfy they let it grow.

Idk how to tell them to keep it clean regularly. I tried telling my ex about it.. so she grew insecure, though I am shallow. So I let that argument slide.

lmao

Women.

"I'd better shave this lip hair so he doesn't think I'm disgusting..." LATER... "OMG, he doesn't like my lip hair? How shallow!"

Anyway, if she doesn't have it when you met her, it's on her to keep not having it and not "let herself go" once she's with you.

You need to be able to communicate this to women.

Use tact -- but be firm.

-C