How did i confirm Girls desire for shaft is stronger than my humanity

[trashKENNUT]

I never really understand. Never is, never was and never will.

So why do i want to share this post? I kind of feel reserved about it. It's pretty cheesy if you look at it at surface level but you find a deep understanding if you see this personally. Basically the idea is to get women to be pissed off.

How? By being the self assured quiet guy and then suddenly show them your child-like friendly enthusiasm, your child-like nature of happiness.

Most women will be pissed off by this. It is like imagining having sex with a 200 pound girl. That is what the faces of this girls look like. It is basically you waking up in the morning and your wife grows a fucking moustache. Their version of you just snap and they like "wow, i didn't expect that". Try this. This is more easier if you are more "child-like" like i am.

Women get mad. You will lose some women.

Zac

 

[Idle Billy]

I hate the way your posts have interesting titles, but are then a full of vague waffle. You've been on my ignore list for quite some time, but I only noticed the thread title and not your name. In this case I didn't read it, so apologies if it actually was good!!

I only drop drop by the GC website on arbitrary occasions, mainly out of boredom. Which makes it interesting to think that some people having been visiting here daily, for years... like ZacAdam. Kinda sad. I'm not even saying there's more to life than pussy, I'm just saying there's more to life than a silly website.

[MODERATOR'S NOTE: This member has been banned.]

 

[trashKENNUT]

idle Billy,

I hate the way your posts have interesting titles, but are then a full of vague waffle. You've been on my ignore list for quite some time, but I only noticed the thread title and not your name. In this case I didn't read it, so apologies if it actually was good!!

I guess when you developing yourself, it always look terrible while you're on the way there.

I only drop drop by the GC website on arbitrary occasions, mainly out of boredom. Which makes it interesting to think that some people having been visiting here daily, for years... like ZacAdam. Kinda sad. I'm not even saying there's more to life than pussy, I'm just saying there's more to life than a silly website.

I don't understand this part really. I have been busy for like a month and i just made another post, two post. I barely answer anybody. As to your note on there's more to life than a silly website.. I don't think this is a silly website. It's a good read, an excellent read, and i be spending more time here if Chase writes articles everyday. I guess when you're not on the field/be at low points in life/a natural curiousity for social interactions, i probably see why this is very difficult to grasp.

It's pretty ironic that if i visited here everyday for years, how do you know i am actually here? You did mention drop by on arbitrary occasions.

But anyway, do not answer that. It is non of my business but do consider this website seriously.

Zac

 

[Chase]

Sorry about this, Zac. Pretty sure that's the same guy who was hassling you before.

We banned him once, and I saw another member had flagged this post as "detrimental to the site", came in, read the thread, and banned him again. If he shows up a third time we'll ban him a third time, too.

For the record, your writing style is pretty similar to Cody's... when he posts (and it was the same back in the mASF days), a handful of guys would get plenty of value out of what he said, while everyone else would be scratching their heads thinking he was speaking in riddles.

As for your post, yeah. Anyone just tuning in, what Zac's saying is he found it a rather saddening realization to come to that the majority of women you'll meet are more interested in having you play whatever role they met you in and give them a hard cock in that role, than they are in discovering the full spectrum of "you": your personality, wants, likes, dislikes, etc.

However, @ Zac, there's another way of coming at this, and that's if you know you are the childish silly guy, build a seduction identity around that, and then the girls you hit it off with will be ones who are looking for that personality more. Or you can learn to "code switch"... inhabit whatever role is demanded of you in a given scenario.

e.g., if it's a wild party-like environment, I'll sometimes take on the wild guy partier role because it makes it easier to bounce around and get a lot of approaching in and fit better with the environment. That can be really fun, but you'll typically have to keep it up during the pull / escalation: all this needs to be fun too. If you try to switch from fun to serious it's incongruent and seems like you were "playing a role", which is also how girls read it if you switch from serious to silly. Congruency's important, partly because most people want to be able to stereotype you somewhat to know how to proceed with you. If she can't stereotype you as purely "mysterious stranger I just want to shag" or "silly guy who makes me laugh and I guess it could be fun to fool around with", but ends up confused trying to place you in both boxes, she's more likely to move onto a guy who makes it easier for her to understand who he is and what role she ought to put him in.

So, you CAN reach a point where you've developed a seduction style that is 100% congruent with your natural personality. I think that's usually best. It gives you the lowest mental load because you're not having to monitor your behavior so much and continually adjust responses and actions before you make them and take them, and attracts women to you who are probably your most naturally compatibly matches, too.

On the other hand, there's value in learning to play some of the different roles you can play: mysterious stranger, wild party guy, high status man, intensely sexual romantic, etc. You'll generally never be as good at these other roles as you will at your default, but they can add some dimension to your game and help you hook up with girls who ordinarily would be looking for a different sort of man than you are.

Chase

 

[Byron]

Intensely sexual romantic? Sounds awesome, but more for LTRs?

 

[Chase]

Intensely sexual romantic? Sounds awesome, but more for LTRs?

I watched Design for Living recently. Pretty amazing how much more closely Americans stood to one another in 1933 than they do in 2015. Anyway, Gary Cooper's character has roughly this style. He tells the female lead he loves her despite clearly not knowing her all that well (and she knows this), pulls her in and kisses her deeply and passionately, etc. Basically he's just throwing his emotions out there in a "who cares what the world thinks, this is us" way. Sylvester Stallone has this style in the first Rocky movie when he's putting the moves on Adrian as well.

It's basically just this sort of imposing, sort of intimidating vibe, where the guy has clear sexual intent, and he's clearly a strong, masculine dude, and could probably take her against her will if he wanted to and not feel bad about it (or may at least go a tad too far), and she senses this, and she's a little afraid of him, and also very excited by it.

An exaggerated version of this would be the aggressive Latin / Mediterranean lover making proclamations of love to a girl. These guys can be a little cheesy though... but sometimes cheesy can work! Just because she's laughing at the guy doesn't mean he isn't also triggering something in her loins. I've watched girls laugh and spurn these guys and laugh and spurn them for the longest time, until all of a sudden it's like a light switch goes off and they just turn and leave with him and go home and shag.

This is a pretty fun style to use, and this guy's more or less every woman's dream guy (case in point: 50 Shades of Grey), but you almost don't see it in the U.S. anymore, for practical (legal - not a very safe era to be a manly man in) reasons. If you can master the calibration it takes and do a fair job steering clear of the nutters it's a blast, though.

Chase

 

[Byron]

Beautiful. I've got a long ways to go but that will be my end goal.

 

[Drck]

Zac, another way to look at it is that girl's desire for shaft keeps our humanity alive. None of us would be here without it...

 

[trashKENNUT]

Thanks Chase.

Gotta to love it. I just wish I be more congruent. That's the key. Gah!!!

Drck,

Zac, another way to look at it is that girl's desire for shaft keeps our humanity alive. None of us would be here without it...

True, but many died too. Unfortunately, that's how it is. In today's context, people live unhappy lifes.

Zac