How do I make the first move?

[Kuro]

I know I need to move faster, but I just don't know how to make that first move on a girl.

I think this is my biggest problem too, because just today I was next to this really cute girl I think is interested and I didn't know what to do. I just sat there the entire time, wondering if I should put an arm around her or put my hand on hers... or if I should ask her to be my GF before doing anything like that. I don't even know if I should ask a girl that question at all.

I ended up waiting so long she left before I could do anything. :/

 

[ocantu1987]

break the touch barrier as soon as you can, this is surprisingly strong. I don't mean grabbing her ass, touch her hand to make a point or my favorite, ask her if she works out (most girls say yes) and say let me see *touch her bicep* never fails haha.

If you haven't asked her out and got a phone number then you should definitely get that out of the way

 

[Verisimilitude]

Kuro, I don't think you have to worry about that. If you want to break the touch barrier, touch the small of her back as you guide her. Also, if you look up sexual tension and when to kiss a girl, that should help a ton.

 

[Doctor]

Just start a conversation with her and if it is going well then ask "do you fancy hanging out sometime?" then suggest you go for a drink or chill out and watch a movie sometime.

That's my go-to way of getting a girl out on a date these days.

It really doesn't have to be any more nuanced than that if you are a beginner imo.