How do late bloomers happily live life and stop thinking about the lost time

[metomeya]

I wanted to follow up with a message after reading Chase's.

I feel depression comes from opportunity lost (and angry is from opportunity stolen). Really the only way to solve this and stop feeling depressed is to create opportunities in the present. Do you feel depressed when you are chatting up a friendly, talkative 10 (sorry, I know we aren't suppose to use numbers but you know what I mean)? Heck no!

So if you feel depressed then create an opportunity (be it sexual, fun, or both) and it will go away. You just have to create the right opportunity you are missing in life. Talking to a girl, finding a new cool website to browse, creating something, earning money, high score on your video game, etc.

Chase pretty much already said this, but I wanted to reword in the way I've been thinking about it lately.

I've been planning on writing a blog article about it in the future, but thought I should mention it now.

 

[Drck]

Anatman: I decided to stop being a fucking faggot.

Amen to that. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop analyzing your past, just let it go. No one really cares about your past - or my past, or anybody else's past. People read it, spent couple of minutes thinking about it, say wow - and then they forget you. All the misery, feeling sorry for yourself and being a victim is only in your head, in real world it doesn't really exist.

Start doing, meet more girls, setup dates, push for sex, learn to take it easy/funny, and one day it will happen. Who cares if you have sex at 21, 23 or 30? If it is before college, during or after you finish? No one, again, it is only in your head. With little luck and good genes you gonna be here another 70 years.

World is not perfect, suck it up. World is not fair, suck it up. You will get rejected, the more women you meet the more rejections you will face. Suck it up. No need to become asshole, bitter or depressed about it, it is just what it is. Accept it, embrace it, move on.

Stop reading and analyzing, start doing. Walk your own way, use GC only as a supplement. You need actions first, knowledge will come as side effect...

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I just looked back and saw Anatman's link. OP if you are still around and reading it, DO NOT CLICK! I heard of that site months ago and decided to look around on it to see what was up and I have not read a more negative and malicious blog in my time on the internet. I am talking articles from a guy telling girls to get eating disorders and another article about top colleges in North America for getting laid from a guy who doesn't even seem to live in America. People here may have other opinions but I can see a site like that mentally fucking up a guy as insecure and inexperienced as the OP.