I mentioned it several times before, seduction is overrated. A guy doesn't really need seduction skills to get a girl, but again, it just all depends on what you want.
To find a girl, a guy must go and talk to girls. There is just no other way. Once he talks to different girls there will always be some that he likes more than the others. The same from girl's stand point of view, if she talks to more guys there is always some guy that she will like more than others. That is it, they like each other, they go out, touch, kiss, go to the bedroom and have sex. Miracle is done, no seduction skills are needed... Its been working for millions of years like that, otherwise none of us would be here....
But it doesn't work for everyone. Guys are shy. They don't talk to girls. They have some problems, are too introverted, too anxious, too demanding, too sensitive... They just don't talk to different girls so the natural thing can't even happen.
Technology didn't help, today its much easier to jerk off to internet porn than go out and talk to girls and face rejections. So new skills are needed, what was natural for millions of years must be learned now...
Must approach and get number. There are certain techniques in approaching, must approach the right way otherwise she won't type in her number in my phone! Must call within 2 days, perhaps the same day. Or was it 5 days? So confusing. Must put seductive clothes on. Must put the right sexy smile on, must suggest sex by clever words, because she is just so stupid that she would never figure that one out. Oh, she wants sex, girls like sex, how come girls like sex - that is definitely a shocking discovery!
Must touch too, OMG, how difficult is to touch another human being, there are only certain touches that are attractive. Must be more attractive, the fact that I am a guy with a dick and she is a girl with pussy is definitely not good enough. More attraction is needed! And kiss, there are only certain techniques to kiss, otherwise kiss is not a kiss! Not even talking about fingers in her pussy.
Wait - Must pretend to be confident first, must pretend to be a winner in life! Well, jerking off with your left hand doesn't really increases you confidence much, and you didn't win porn price either....
So there you go, seducing a girl is too difficult, impossible, there is just so much stuff to know, so many things to do.... And there is also an obsession. One girls is not good enough. Must be 10 girls. No, 50. Hold on, if it is less than 200, all blonds 8/10, you really just have no clue what are you talking about...