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What’s up guys! I have been absent from the boards for a while because I have either been very busy lately or when I had the time couldn’t get myself to sit down and write. I have a lot of things to post so I’m hoping I can get caught up this week. Anyway, to my question.
This hasn’t really been an issue for me in the past because I never went on dates, but now that I’ve had 2 in the past two weeks and have another planned for tomorrow (all different girls) This has all come from some recent decisions I’ve made (I’ll make a separate post on this) Through these first dates, I’m trying to come up with a routine like I’ve heard I think maybe Ricardus talk about? Where there are three designated locations u should have planned out meeting location, transition/ buffer location, and sex location. My terminology probably isn’t spot on there but that’s the general idea and I’m not 100% sure who I heard that from but it was part of the bc team. This Idea definitely makes sense to me.
However, being a 16 year old in high school, I can’t really afford my own place yet, and my mother is most certainly not okay with me bringing girls to the house for sex (especially if it’s a different girl every three days.) and it seems like most of the advice on here is centered around pulling a girl home. So since my home is not an option a large proportion of the time, it would seem beneficial for me to find an alternate sex location. Does anybody have anything they’ve used. I feel like a car might work, but like isn’t that illegal. Also how do you actually have sex in a car, do u lay down in the back seats or is it more in seated positions. I feel like there’s probably some obvious ones that I’m missing here, but i also feel like there’s no perfect solution. Especially during the daytime.
I’m trying to come up with a way I can get an apartment off the books bc I don’t think I can legally own one at the moment. Or if I could just get access to a house or appartement that no one uses. So far it seems like my only lays will come from sneaking out and taking my parents car to pick up girls and bring them to my house. Which is very risky and also it’s difficult to find a girl who is both willing to gon on that direct style of a date, and who is willing to take the risk of sneaking out. I really wan t solid date routine for the summer with defined locations to move to so I can work fast with clear places to move towards as I escalate. Being able to drive now definitely helps.
I don’t know if this is a question that can be easily answered or not but if someone could at least encourage me to look harder or point me in a general direction. That would be fantastic. Posting my first Lr soon.
Cheers!
Young
This hasn’t really been an issue for me in the past because I never went on dates, but now that I’ve had 2 in the past two weeks and have another planned for tomorrow (all different girls) This has all come from some recent decisions I’ve made (I’ll make a separate post on this) Through these first dates, I’m trying to come up with a routine like I’ve heard I think maybe Ricardus talk about? Where there are three designated locations u should have planned out meeting location, transition/ buffer location, and sex location. My terminology probably isn’t spot on there but that’s the general idea and I’m not 100% sure who I heard that from but it was part of the bc team. This Idea definitely makes sense to me.
However, being a 16 year old in high school, I can’t really afford my own place yet, and my mother is most certainly not okay with me bringing girls to the house for sex (especially if it’s a different girl every three days.) and it seems like most of the advice on here is centered around pulling a girl home. So since my home is not an option a large proportion of the time, it would seem beneficial for me to find an alternate sex location. Does anybody have anything they’ve used. I feel like a car might work, but like isn’t that illegal. Also how do you actually have sex in a car, do u lay down in the back seats or is it more in seated positions. I feel like there’s probably some obvious ones that I’m missing here, but i also feel like there’s no perfect solution. Especially during the daytime.
I’m trying to come up with a way I can get an apartment off the books bc I don’t think I can legally own one at the moment. Or if I could just get access to a house or appartement that no one uses. So far it seems like my only lays will come from sneaking out and taking my parents car to pick up girls and bring them to my house. Which is very risky and also it’s difficult to find a girl who is both willing to gon on that direct style of a date, and who is willing to take the risk of sneaking out. I really wan t solid date routine for the summer with defined locations to move to so I can work fast with clear places to move towards as I escalate. Being able to drive now definitely helps.
I don’t know if this is a question that can be easily answered or not but if someone could at least encourage me to look harder or point me in a general direction. That would be fantastic. Posting my first Lr soon.
Cheers!
Young
