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There's a hot blonde girl in my research lab who I know is into me. Unfortunately we don't have the same shifts very often, but I use this to my advantage. We've lightly flirted the few times we've had the same shifts, and our last interaction was me suggesting she buy me a shot if she wants me to go to this bar she's always at.
I was out with some friends last night and happened to see her at the bar. She was dancing on a stage and signaled me over, so I gave her the "come here" motion with my finger and smiled. She jumped off the stage and we meet walking up to the bar. We started flirting a bit until the T.A. from the lab rolls up, looking quite unhappy to see me. I remained friendly and re-geared conversation back towards the blonde. She bought me a shot and we keep flirting until the T.A. interjects and accusingly says, "You know you've only seen each other like twice right?". I was pretty confused with the statement, shrugged it off, and continued to push forward. Only moments later the T.A. roadblocks the convo again, and a group of dudes that know the blonde start chatting her up. This happened simultaneously and put me in a weird position. I had absolutely no interest in talking with the T.A. because of her attitude, and didn't see any point in fighting for the blonde's attention.
I went back to my friends, and they told me the blonde looked really into me, what happened? I felt I was underhandedly cock blocked. Alotta times girls get really defensive when they go out, perceive other people as a threat to their good time, and I think I just witnessed it first hand.
So, how do you disarm her cock blocking friends? What do you communicate to them so that they chill the fuck out and let you do your thing?
G.A.
I was out with some friends last night and happened to see her at the bar. She was dancing on a stage and signaled me over, so I gave her the "come here" motion with my finger and smiled. She jumped off the stage and we meet walking up to the bar. We started flirting a bit until the T.A. from the lab rolls up, looking quite unhappy to see me. I remained friendly and re-geared conversation back towards the blonde. She bought me a shot and we keep flirting until the T.A. interjects and accusingly says, "You know you've only seen each other like twice right?". I was pretty confused with the statement, shrugged it off, and continued to push forward. Only moments later the T.A. roadblocks the convo again, and a group of dudes that know the blonde start chatting her up. This happened simultaneously and put me in a weird position. I had absolutely no interest in talking with the T.A. because of her attitude, and didn't see any point in fighting for the blonde's attention.
I went back to my friends, and they told me the blonde looked really into me, what happened? I felt I was underhandedly cock blocked. Alotta times girls get really defensive when they go out, perceive other people as a threat to their good time, and I think I just witnessed it first hand.
So, how do you disarm her cock blocking friends? What do you communicate to them so that they chill the fuck out and let you do your thing?
G.A.

