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How do you guys personally bid a girl you just laid farewell?

Mr.Rob

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I.e. Your dropping her off at her car/apartment or she's about to leave your house and with the assumption you would be interested to see her again.

What is yalls go to?
Kiss on the lips?
No kiss and instead a knowing sexual eye contact exchange with a wink?
Tell her to get on her knees and blow you?

Something I've always been curious to know how yall personally handle.

When I first got into game I thought you were supposed to give her a kiss goodbye to make sure she didn't feel used but I had this backfire a few times and it looked needy/incongruent to how she saw me.

My go to before I took a hiatus from game was to snag her number, tell her I enjoyed being with her, and if she looked expecting/hopeful of a kiss I would tell them "come give me a kiss goodbye" and I'd get her to lean over and give me a peck on the lips... This yielded me much better results obeying the LoLE.

One girl right before I went on my hiatus I instructed her to give me a kiss and as soon as she did for fun I added "now get the fuck out of my car ho" with a devilish smile and she ate it up.

-Rob
 

andersen09

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Mr.Rob said:
I.e. Your dropping her off at her car/apartment or she's about to leave your house and with the assumption you would be interested to see her again.

What is yalls go to?
Kiss on the lips?
No kiss and instead a knowing sexual eye contact exchange with a wink?
Tell her to get on her knees and blow you?

Something I've always been curious to know how yall personally handle.

When I first got into game I thought you were supposed to give her a kiss goodbye to make sure she didn't feel used but I had this backfire a few times and it looked needy/incongruent to how she saw me.

My go to before I took a hiatus from game was to snag her number, tell her I enjoyed being with her, and if she looked expecting/hopeful of a kiss I would tell them "come give me a kiss goodbye" and I'd get her to lean over and give me a peck on the lips... This yielded me much better results obeying the LoLE.

One girl right before I went on my hiatus I instructed her to give me a kiss and as soon as she did for fun I added "now get the fuck out of my car ho" with a devilish smile and she ate it up.

-Rob

My go to is
Build the tension up again and make her leave or I leave.

1. Me: Come here
Her: She comes.
Me: Closer
Her: She comes and stares.
Me: Close your eyes
Her: Complies (Think I'm gonna kiss her)
Me: Grab her ass instead.
Her: She opens her eyes and hits me.
Me: I lean in acting like I'm gonna kiss her
Her: She leans forward
Me; What are you doing? You've had enough for the day. Get out :p
Her: ASDKJALKJDSALKJSD
Her: She tries to force a kiss out of me
Me: Nope. See ya!

And I text her the next day, and she still wants to see me.
 

Regal Tiger

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Guess I'm sentimental, I just give them a hug and a 'see ya next time'.
 

Smurf

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I usually give them a hug, a passionate kiss and tell them to text me when they get home. Lets them know I care about their safety and wouldn't mind seeing them again. Also gives me a basis to judge what they're thinking from what they send me back when they text.

Jake.
 

Hue

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Usually walk her to the door, then a passionate kiss pulling her close. Then pull off first, and slowly back off smiling. Most times the girl will be looking deeply at me then mirror my smile. Once I back up enough they'll usually say "I'll see you later!" and I'll say something like "drive home / get home safe, [girl]" maybe with a little wave or my arm hung up on the door.

Connect with them intensely, then sliiide away, leaving them wondering if they'll see you again. Girls love mixed signals.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Mr.Rob

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Nice. Interesting seeing everyone's different style.

Regal Tiger said:
Guess I'm sentimental, I just give them a hug and a 'see ya next time'.

Jake D. said:
I usually give them a hug, a passionate kiss and tell them to text me when they get home.

Hue said:
Connect with them intensely, then sliiide away, leaving them wondering if they'll see you again. Girls love mixed signals.

andersen09 said:
Her: She tries to force a kiss out of me
Me: Nope. See ya!

And I text her the next day, and she still wants to see me.

Seems a primary factor here is not so much what you choose but more so going with a parting take that is congruent to your style and context of yalls interaction (i.e. your more badboy player attitude might go with Andersen or Hues take or if your more lovable and connecting better off going with RT or Jake's take). On the other hand there is an equally important factor of being decisive and not hesitating with whatever you decide to do since her last emotion with you will be the taste left in her mouth as she leaves.

I've had girls I've had otherwise amazing interactions and sex with but had an awkward or unsure moment right as we were parting ways and that was all she wrote.

Always better to end strong on a weak interaction rather than end weak on a strong interaction.
 

Regal Tiger

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Mr.Rob said:
Seems a primary factor here is not so much what you choose but more so going with a parting take that is congruent to your style and context of yalls interaction (i.e. your more badboy player attitude might go with Andersen or Hues take or if your more lovable and connecting better off going with RT or Jake's take). On the other hand there is an equally important factor of being decisive and not hesitating with whatever you decide to do since her last emotion with you will be the taste left in her mouth as she leaves.

Pretty much this. Chase had a good article just today that goes a little into stuff like this
 
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