Long-Term How do you make a girl chase in a relationship?
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Z Vaunswa,
Sure man.
What I meant was how do you make her invest.
I read the investment articles from chase so I now understand in relationships the important thing is investment not chasing. Though they're both interconnected, investment on a person leads to chasing. So, I must say, if you want to continue the topic I will follow up with no problem
Amaze
Sure man.
What I meant was how do you make her invest.
I read the investment articles from chase so I now understand in relationships the important thing is investment not chasing. Though they're both interconnected, investment on a person leads to chasing. So, I must say, if you want to continue the topic I will follow up with no problem
Amaze
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Gotcha,
For me, the dynamics of picking up women or even socializing with women, is a lot different than maintaining a relationship. The techniques used to attract a woman aren't the same as keeping her attracted.
There's a lot more to keeping a girl interested than just investment, but since you're asking about investment, I'll write about it
Investment, in relationships, isn't necessarily about getting her to do things for you, but it's more about not giving in to every demand she makes. Like "Honey, can you get me a glass of water?" Don't get up and get it for her, have her do it for herself, but if you're already up to get water, then do so for her as well. That way she's investing her time into something that you could have done for her anyway.
As a result, she's putting in more effort than you are, and is associating that effort with her feelings for you (A little cynical but it works)
Now, if you're trying to keep a girl interested and attracted, then make it known, or rather shown that other girls are interested in you. If she knows you have other options, she'll invest a lot more time and effort into you to keep your attention, and to get you to keep your eyes on her and not other women.
Pre-selection, and other options in relationships is the ultimate form of getting investment
For me, the dynamics of picking up women or even socializing with women, is a lot different than maintaining a relationship. The techniques used to attract a woman aren't the same as keeping her attracted.
There's a lot more to keeping a girl interested than just investment, but since you're asking about investment, I'll write about it
Investment, in relationships, isn't necessarily about getting her to do things for you, but it's more about not giving in to every demand she makes. Like "Honey, can you get me a glass of water?" Don't get up and get it for her, have her do it for herself, but if you're already up to get water, then do so for her as well. That way she's investing her time into something that you could have done for her anyway.
As a result, she's putting in more effort than you are, and is associating that effort with her feelings for you
(A little cynical but it works)Now, if you're trying to keep a girl interested and attracted, then make it known, or rather shown that other girls are interested in you. If she knows you have other options, she'll invest a lot more time and effort into you to keep your attention, and to get you to keep your eyes on her and not other women.
Pre-selection, and other options in relationships is the ultimate form of getting investment
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Along with what Z has stated . . . it's fairly simple to make a girl chase in a relationship.
Keep her guessing and always have something new and exciting planned!
*Don't see them everyday
*Don't talk to them all day
*Let her do the missing and what not
Think of it like this, you're the hero off to battle and she's the woman sitting and lounging around and thinking of what you could be doing. This goes along with . . .
*Not buying her things constantly
*Having sex with her each time ya hangout, unless there was a fight that day
*Reward her for good behavior
The list can truly go on, now one thing to keep in mind is you don't want to blow her off. Be there for her but let her know that you have your own life. Don't put her on a pedestal, and constantly be doing something to improve yourself. Recently, I joined a fraternity and my girl went crazy over that. The list can truly go on for making a girl chase in a relationship.
Big things
*Get the girl to initiate sex and expect sex from you
*Get her to come over your place
*Have her be in your house naked when shes over, *I'm not drunk and it's relatively easy to accomplish
Another time
Dave
Keep her guessing and always have something new and exciting planned!
*Don't see them everyday
*Don't talk to them all day
*Let her do the missing and what not
Think of it like this, you're the hero off to battle and she's the woman sitting and lounging around and thinking of what you could be doing. This goes along with . . .
*Not buying her things constantly
*Having sex with her each time ya hangout, unless there was a fight that day
*Reward her for good behavior
The list can truly go on, now one thing to keep in mind is you don't want to blow her off. Be there for her but let her know that you have your own life. Don't put her on a pedestal, and constantly be doing something to improve yourself. Recently, I joined a fraternity and my girl went crazy over that. The list can truly go on for making a girl chase in a relationship.
Big things
*Get the girl to initiate sex and expect sex from you
*Get her to come over your place
*Have her be in your house naked when shes over, *I'm not drunk and it's relatively easy to accomplish
Another time
Dave
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im having this problem as well:
its not so much like, what have you done for me lately? :its more like, why doesnt she even bother/offer? Its almost like its taken for granted. And you know whats going to happen as soon as I stop buying random presents, initiating conversations/sex
its not so much like, what have you done for me lately? :its more like, why doesnt she even bother/offer? Its almost like its taken for granted. And you know whats going to happen as soon as I stop buying random presents, initiating conversations/sex
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I'm having the same problems with initiating sex and her expecting me to buy everything while she pays for nothing. Any advice for what plan of action to take???
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Whizzy said:
Precedents gentleman, one of the things I do when getting intimate with girls is say things like. "I love when you randomly kiss me." or "I think it's really sexy when you let me know how bad you want me." Basically you vocally communicate what you want the girl to do. Then you reward her when she actually does those things for you. In this case it would be initiating sex.
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