How frequently should we be having sex?

[LionWolf]

I took my girlfriend of 2 months virginity about a week ago. The reason it took so long was because of logistics. Where both in HighSchool she's a sophore with strict parents and I'm a senior with no car or place. We had sex in the baseball field and we had to be quiet about it since it was broad daylight in public.

I'm going away for two weeks for college stuff. She's always saying she wants to spent more time with me but I'm really busy and to be honest when we are together all I want is hard, rough, dirty sex. Something I can't do in a public field in broad daylight. And I can tell she wants the same.

I'm not afraid of her cheating knowing I'm the most sexiest/ dominant man she has ever had and how I also took her virginity. Plus I made peace with the fact that no girl is 100% mine and if she does cheat I can find myself a better girl, but I don't think that's gonna happen since I'm not providing her with any reason to cheat on me unless...

is having sex as a very rare acassion lead to an unhealthy relationship?

I really care for this girl and she has proven through her actions that she loves and cares about me.

Will the lack of my ability to make sex a common occurrence due to our horrible logistic lead to her leaving?

Who knows...

Gents what do you think?

 

[Inbocca]

It's partly based on her experience. Right now, you're the only guy she's slept with so you've still got a special place in her heart (and likely always will). And at the age you're both at, infrequent sex isn't uncommon. Unless they live with parents who give fewer than zero shits or have access to a secluded place at will (or just happen to have good timing on the reg), very very few people in high school are having sex on a super frequent basis - as in more than a couple times a week at most. So if she's got nothing to compare it to, I doubt you have anything to worry about.

That all changes after graduation. People go off to college or they enter the workforce, start making enough money to move out and once that freedom is available, sex starts to become a regular thing. As an adult, infrequent sex is bad for a relationship. In high school, sex is typically what makes a relationship different from all the ones before it; in other words, the more you have it the more special your thing is. If you don't have it as much, so long as you're still having it it's still special.

But just to familiarize yourself with the way things work as an adult, and also to make your penis happy, I suggest and encourage having it as much as possible

 

[LionWolf]

As an adult, infrequent sex is bad for a relationship. In high school, sex is typically what makes a relationship different from all the ones before it; in other words, the more you have it the more special your thing is. If you don't have it as much, so long as you're still having it it's still special.

Your right I don't know anybody who's having sex on a frequent basis in highschool unless it's with diffirent girls or they have a car. She knows that if we get the chance I'll pass through all of her LMR and do the deed.

Here's fighting everyday for better logistics. Thanks for great insight on this!