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How I get girls to open me in daygame

DarkKnight

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I tried smiling and nodding 10 times right now.. gee didnt work. Perhaps I am some fat ugly guy (hint, I am not)
 

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I get it its not your thing. Doesn't bother me. anyways I am sure you could blow everyone away with your clever reframes for another week. I am already bored. I am out.
don't you understand that what ever you write about needs to be replicated if people try your suggestion... there is almost not replicable value in your technique and you trying to teach this to beginners make you more autistic, then when people question you respectfully you go into an angry rant 0 credibility, notice I am going to not hit you below the bell by not bringing up what happened to you in the past cold approaching..
 

Fuck This

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In order to get women to approach you you have to be outstanding at reading their signals and conveying that you are open to being approached. It is a social skill. Being a Wallflower alone will not get it done .

In a crowded bar I was there with a large group who interacted with each other. I demonstrated that I would engage with people who greeted me (social butterfly). When I left the group a woman came out in to the parking lot to ask me if I was married... Full field report here: https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...pproached-by-a-woman-outside-the-group.21408/
 

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Just to throw my two cents:

I have been approached by women giving IOIs, however it was usually whenever they had an excuse to open (i.e. warm approaches).

Ex. Sales attendant at mall (no she didn't want just the commission lol), girls at work happy hours. All girls giving IOIs too who I didn't know beforehand.

I'm not an intimidating figure though. And I was being a social butterfly in some cases (to echo Fuck This). Just some factors that could have influenced this. YMMV of course.
 

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Just to throw my two cents:

I have been approached by women giving IOIs, however it was usually whenever they had an excuse to open (i.e. warm approaches).

Ex. Sales attendant at mall (no she didn't want just the commission lol), girls at work happy hours. All girls giving IOIs too who I didn't know beforehand.

I'm not an intimidating figure though. And I was being a social butterfly in some cases (to echo Fuck This). Just some factors that could have influenced this. YMMV of course.
Most of us get open frequently, I dance I get open a million times context is day game standanding forcing ais she opens you
 

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Most of us get open frequently, I dance I get open a million times context is day game standanding forcing ais she opens you
Ah I see what you're saying; these venues were technically during the day but I see how happy hours kinda blends into night. These were also incidents by accident (not actively trying to induce AIs or opens).
 

Regal Tiger

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funny how guys go all brain dead evertime I open a thread....you morons can go fuck yourselfs LMAO

Bruh... people are giving you shit because of crap like this. You come at people with a condescending attitude that everybody picks up on.

Hell, I even tried to add to your original point by bringing up the only time I've seen a guy get approached somewhat consistently. But if you're going to talk about a technique, it's up to you to prove your point because:

1) You brought it up
2) Other guys will get curious about it/if it's true want to learn it
3) It's outside of established and somewhat common knowledge that women don't approach much (obviously it happens and has happened to me once that I can think of, possibly twice in the 7 or so years I've been doing this and other people have said that it's happened to them, but it's rare outside of nightgame/special circumstances)
 

Regal Tiger

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I've been approached a few times during the day... mostly by beggars, old people, someone looking for directions... I got approached by a gay guy earlier this year when I was walking with a girl, which was kind of funny. I don't think that counts though since he doesn't have a vagina.

One time I walked around with a "Free Hugs" sign and got a lot of attention. I didn't get laid from it though.

I think the dogs thing is possible. I wonder if you can rent dogs... maybe a shelter will do that? I'm sure someone here knows about this. Seems like a lot of work just to hope to get opened though.
I've tried it once, so this advice comes from a place of having only gone to a single shelter (so different ones may have different rules).

They wouldn't let you take the animal anywhere other than just around the building area. If there's lots of foot traffic or a park nearby it woulda been awesome, but they were kind of in a low foot traffic area.

Which makes sense after I thought about it, they don't want you stealing animals lol.

Just my 2cents
 
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Gay people approach me all the time in the streets.
Because they sense I have a BDE (Big Dick Energy).
They also compliment my ass.
I ignore them.

Women look at me.
I walk slowly and hold my gaze.
They look down and get by.

The only chicks who ever opened me were war pigs who get a bit excited if I look at their direction.
Either that or they are trying to sell/ask/beg for something.
 

samuraijack

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Daygame I've had 1 girl open me (not a fat ugly pig) which resulted in a lay. As far as I know, it never happened to anyone I know.

At a park during the night, yes but it was kind of party vibes there. She also isolated me.

Nightgame yeah plenty from my tattoos.
 

Fuck This

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A very common thread in when women approach me is when I am recently finished with a workout or run.

One of my most memorable. Just finished a 10 mile trail race in a county park . I'm sweating and steaming and trying to get my heartrate and breathing down. I make eye contact with this busty girl in a sports bra who is there just doing a walk . She walks up to me, breasts bouncing in time with her stride , and says "You're cute . What's your name?" From her voice she clearly had a hearing impairment . We chatted and she finally noticed my ring. I thanked her and went on my way.

Finished a run and changed my shirt outside my car as a couple women were walking towards me a couple hundred yards away. By the time I was in my drivers seat they reached the point on the sidewalk next to my car. One knocked on my window and as I rolled it down, said with disappointment, "Oh darn you are married."

My point is that the mindset you have after having a good bit of exertion and sweat gives off a VIBE and perhaps pheromones from the increase in testosterone that invite a self assured woman to approach you.

But it goes beyond that. I have had pictures of me after exertion (hiking, running, working out) that were rated HIGHER than those where I was rested. Those were the pictures in OLD that had women, messaging ME.
 

Swati

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Only in nightgame.

Never in daygame.
happens to me during day game maybe once every other month when I'm out consistently. night game is more of reoccurring thing. but in general, you get more blatant AIs than you would get direct openings.
 
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