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We had sex on the 4th date, but things first got sexual on the 3rd date, so I'm labeling this as LR-.
You can just skip to the 3rd or 4th date if you want to read about the exciting bits.
Date 1
Lets call her Zhu. Matched on tinder, messaged a bit back and forth etc...I meet her outside the library and I tell her we'll do some cooking at my place. She wanted to meet very early(4pm) because she was afraid of being out too late at night. We start chatting at the bus stop and I see she's very fidgety but eventually she starts to become more relaxed. We pick up groceries and then walk back to my apartment to make dinner. I'm using incidental touch, by directing her occasionally or "accidentally" brushing my hand against hers when passing through a door. She still seemed shy. When we're cooking, we compare palm sizes because we were talking about instruments that we each played, and when our palms touched, she became very fidgety again and I could feel the sexual tension between us.
While eating dinner, I talk about how marriage is "unnatural" and that if a man and a woman were stranded on an island, they'd just fuck--they wouldn't get married. We related over how people can be very judgemental about sexually promiscuous lifestyles and that family members just wouldn't understand them. She told me some very personal stories about her past love life.
Then we take our wine glasses to the living room to talk a bit more. She is sitting on the couch opposite from me, so I tell her to come over and sit next to me, because she is too far away, but she says "no, I'm fine". I persist a bit more and she says "really, I'm fine". So I drop it, but I need to figure out how to get close, so I tell her I'll give her a tour of the apartment and we go to my room where I sit on my bed, assuming she'll join me, but she leans against the wall all the way by the door. Again, I tell her to come over and she refuses and we go back and forth for a while, because it looks really awkward for her to be standing so far away. She tells me she's not looking to hookup, and I deflect saying "who said anything about a hookup
" and she asks what I'm looking for on tinder...Can't remember how I responded to that but I deflected somehow. I eventually convince her to sit at a chair by my desk. We have very deep conversation(don't remember what, but just usual deep diving that went deep).
Around 10pm, she asks if she can go home, because it is getting late. I don't really know what to do at this point as I feel like I was already being very persistent with her so I said sure, but when she's at the door, I tell her to come give me a hug before she leaves(not sure why I even said that, as it's rewarding resistance) she panics and asks if she can just shake hands. I'm surprised since I wasn't expecting her to say no to a hug...so I just think "whatever" and take her outstretched hand to shake, except she feels bad and doesn't really shake. As I show her out and close the door, I hear her say "wait!' I open the door. she says "I'll give you a hug!" Okay then...
so I hug her and she leaves.
When she gets home, she sends me a message apologizing profusely for acting awkward about the hug, saying it has been a while and that she was not used to it and that she panicked. So I'm relieved and I know this girl likes me, but she's just nervous.
Date 2
I message her again to hang out next week and keep the ball rolling. This time it's to watch a movie together. She wants to go on an insanely long walk, which I refuse so we make some compromise to explore a nearby area first. I have her hold my hands occasionally under the excuse that "my fingers are freezing, feel them!"
Then we grab dinner at a restaurant nearby and go back to the apartment to watch the movie. She is asking me why I want to watch the movie together and why I don't just send her a link to it instead, and I just pretend to be confused and she drops the subject. I also told her that I'd accompany her back home so she shouldn't worry about leaving early(she lives downtown, which is fairly close via bus). I know it seems I'm investing a lot by doing that, but I felt it was worth it if it means I have more time. And she was the one taking the bus to meet me in the first place so it evens out, in a way.
We get back to my room and watch the movie. I put my arm around her occasionally and she seems to be pretty comfortable(unlike last week). When the movie ends, I pull her chin towards mine to kiss her, but she says "no it's okay". I do it again, but she says "no it's okay" so I just change the subject, and move my arm away(which was previously around her). We talk some more, and since it is late, we decide to head to the bus stop to take her back home.
At the bus stop, she asks me again what I'm on tinder for and I say
Then she tells me that I'm a bit young for her and that her life mentor, who is this 50 year old dude with a lay count of 100+ women, would be disappointed because he had advised her to date older guys, and here she was dating a younger guy again. So I tease her about being a Granny, and asking her how life is like in the assisted living center. She had this shy smile on her face which seemed to say "stop it, can't you see I'm falling in love with you". She tells me she reminds me of her ex crush, and apparently we are the same age and have the same personality.
The bus finally arrives and when we're sitting together, I have her feel my hands again, but this time, I hold on to her hand while we're talking. I'm sporting a rock hard boner because she has really dainty fingers and smooth skin. She has a blissful smile and we just sit in silence as I hold her hand. Eventually I drop her off at her house and go back home. She texts me that night:
Date 3
I realize this girl really really likes me and I should've just manhandle kissed her, that or just been more persistent with the kiss, because she was disappointed in herself for not kissing me last time. This time, she comes over to cook and we watch a movie again, but the cuddling is more intimate, and we're rubbing eachother's hands. I can't really focus on the movie, because her hands are so soft. After the movie is over, I lean in to kiss her, but she turns away. I laugh and go in to kiss her again but she puts her chin down so that I can't reach her mouth even if I wanted to. I just treat it very playfully and lick her ear and kiss her neck. She giggles too and asks why people kiss. She asks me to teach her how to kiss, but then whenver I'd go in for it, she'd just move her chin away. I'm cuddling her and I decide to just keep escalate as usual, so I start rubbing her back from under her shirt and while I'm unfastening her bra I just continue normal conversation with her. I start playing with her nipples from under her shirt but I'm still having boring conversation with her(she likes when I play with her nipples but wont kiss funnily enough). She starts a student teacher roleplaying going on and asks if I'll write her a good recommendation letter if she is a good student. (she wants me to teach her all about sex and relationships apparently) Everytime she resists, I just smile and continue cuddling her. Sometimes she'd cover her face and stop as if to signal she was getting overwhelmed, at which point I'd hold her in my arms and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Basically, I just followed the stuff in this article to a tee: https://www.girlschase.com/content/shatt ... on-passion Thanks Hector!
Eventually she takes her shirt off, and eventually the most of the clothes come off and I teach her how to suck on my dick. I finger her and she gets so wet her panties are soaked and she has to take them off too. I insert a finger inside of her to help her get stretched but the pain is unbearable for her. I show her what some sex positions are like, and she enjoys it when I'm humping her but she gets antsy about any penetration and doesn't want to do that. We check the time and realize that we had been going at it for 5 hours and at this point I am extremely exhausted and do not have the mental energy to persist more and get inside of her. Also, my crotch feels extremely sore from all the inadvertent pummeling it probably received so I have a hard time even when I tried to jack off. We decide to just go to bed and she has to wake up in 2 hrs to get back to her apartment and let her roommate in. In the morning, she holds me very tightly while waiting for the bus to come and then we part.
Date 4
I'm a bit worried that I suffered a failed escalation with her, so I know this time, I gotta seal the deal. After dinner and the movie, she is oddly enough resisting when I try to kiss her but I lay on my usual kind of persistence (hard to explain, but usually just involves gently holding her close to me, or wispering in her ear how much she's turning me on, or laughing when she moves away, etc...basically following the mindset in Hector's article)
She keeps saying "go to sleep, I'll watch you!" I honestly dont know where that joke came from. But I suspect she's on her period, theres really no other reason for why she could be resisting like that. She confirms that she is on her period. So I suggest we go to the shower. I use the hard push a couple times. An hour later, we're somehow in the shower(honestly just took a lot of persistence, but in the middle I had her change into another t-shirt because "it was too hot") She takes a long time to finally get inside the bathroom, and finally shower with me and in the meantime she'd make many excuses like "its too cold in the hallway, lets just go back to your room" and I'd say "once the hot water is running, it'll be fine" and she was spent a lot of time sitting and thinking on the toilet seat before she finally took all her clothes off. Even in the shower, it took her a while before she was okay with me facing her. We washed each other and I helped her shave her pussy. Then I started fingering her, but it was too painful. No blood came out though. She said she had brought a waterproof blanket so we could just try it on the bed, actually. (Well why didn't you just say so in the first place, honey)
So we try some more fingering back in my room, but it just hurts too much. I try sliding my cock inside of her but it doesnt work either because it is too dark, and I can't fit it in, and I'm getting soft quickly. So I decide to cum on her butt instead. I shoot a huge load and it goes everywhere, all over her back because I had forgotten that I hadn't masturbated in 4 days. so I toss the sheets in the washer and we nap on the bed while waiting for them to get clean. Then we go to sleep. In the morning, I'm hard so I finger her a bit and she's able to take two fingers so I tell her to get a condom from my desk and we go to pound town, baby! My cock fits inside of her and I try doggystyle and missionary, and I decide I dont want to risk going soft again so I just continue so that I can cum. I have an earthshattering orgasm and we just hold each other really tightly for a few minutes. There was a little bit of blood on the condom and a little on my thigh but the period didn't seem to affect the sex too much because she said it was already nearing the end anyways. She's very cuddly and affectionate, resting her head on my chest, etc...Although, I'll be honest, I think it was a lot more fun for me than it was for her because I don't think I had the energy to make her orgasm. When I was fingering her in the morning, I found this really spongy spot in her vagina which I'm guessing was the g-spot, but I got tired and couldn't stimulate it properly with my hands. I think it would take a long time. She said sex felt strange for her and she still needed to get used to it. This is only the second time she had sex and her first time was when she had gotten raped actually :0 Afterwards, we got lunch and she even made me sandwiches for my flight back home that evening
Finishing Thoughts: Thank you so much, Chase! This wouldn't have been possible if it weren't for girlschase. I owe it all to you guys and the community for answering my questions and giving me lots of feedback. I'm very happy with my progress these past few years, especially this past year. If you're curious, this was me a year ago: viewtopic.php?f=2&t=12355&hilit=shuaige and the girl was kind of similar to this one. I have no idea how things will play out with Zhu, but I look forward to more exciting adventures ahead!
Edit: I just realized this was my 69th post. Fitting...
You can just skip to the 3rd or 4th date if you want to read about the exciting bits.
Date 1
Lets call her Zhu. Matched on tinder, messaged a bit back and forth etc...I meet her outside the library and I tell her we'll do some cooking at my place. She wanted to meet very early(4pm) because she was afraid of being out too late at night. We start chatting at the bus stop and I see she's very fidgety but eventually she starts to become more relaxed. We pick up groceries and then walk back to my apartment to make dinner. I'm using incidental touch, by directing her occasionally or "accidentally" brushing my hand against hers when passing through a door. She still seemed shy. When we're cooking, we compare palm sizes because we were talking about instruments that we each played, and when our palms touched, she became very fidgety again and I could feel the sexual tension between us.
While eating dinner, I talk about how marriage is "unnatural" and that if a man and a woman were stranded on an island, they'd just fuck--they wouldn't get married. We related over how people can be very judgemental about sexually promiscuous lifestyles and that family members just wouldn't understand them. She told me some very personal stories about her past love life.
Then we take our wine glasses to the living room to talk a bit more. She is sitting on the couch opposite from me, so I tell her to come over and sit next to me, because she is too far away, but she says "no, I'm fine". I persist a bit more and she says "really, I'm fine". So I drop it, but I need to figure out how to get close, so I tell her I'll give her a tour of the apartment and we go to my room where I sit on my bed, assuming she'll join me, but she leans against the wall all the way by the door. Again, I tell her to come over and she refuses and we go back and forth for a while, because it looks really awkward for her to be standing so far away. She tells me she's not looking to hookup, and I deflect saying "who said anything about a hookup
" and she asks what I'm looking for on tinder...Can't remember how I responded to that but I deflected somehow. I eventually convince her to sit at a chair by my desk. We have very deep conversation(don't remember what, but just usual deep diving that went deep).Around 10pm, she asks if she can go home, because it is getting late. I don't really know what to do at this point as I feel like I was already being very persistent with her so I said sure, but when she's at the door, I tell her to come give me a hug before she leaves(not sure why I even said that, as it's rewarding resistance) she panics and asks if she can just shake hands. I'm surprised since I wasn't expecting her to say no to a hug...so I just think "whatever" and take her outstretched hand to shake, except she feels bad and doesn't really shake. As I show her out and close the door, I hear her say "wait!' I open the door. she says "I'll give you a hug!" Okay then...
so I hug her and she leaves.
When she gets home, she sends me a message apologizing profusely for acting awkward about the hug, saying it has been a while and that she was not used to it and that she panicked. So I'm relieved and I know this girl likes me, but she's just nervous.
Date 2
I message her again to hang out next week and keep the ball rolling. This time it's to watch a movie together. She wants to go on an insanely long walk, which I refuse so we make some compromise to explore a nearby area first. I have her hold my hands occasionally under the excuse that "my fingers are freezing, feel them!"
Then we grab dinner at a restaurant nearby and go back to the apartment to watch the movie. She is asking me why I want to watch the movie together and why I don't just send her a link to it instead, and I just pretend to be confused and she drops the subject. I also told her that I'd accompany her back home so she shouldn't worry about leaving early(she lives downtown, which is fairly close via bus). I know it seems I'm investing a lot by doing that, but I felt it was worth it if it means I have more time. And she was the one taking the bus to meet me in the first place so it evens out, in a way.
We get back to my room and watch the movie. I put my arm around her occasionally and she seems to be pretty comfortable(unlike last week). When the movie ends, I pull her chin towards mine to kiss her, but she says "no it's okay". I do it again, but she says "no it's okay" so I just change the subject, and move my arm away(which was previously around her). We talk some more, and since it is late, we decide to head to the bus stop to take her back home.
At the bus stop, she asks me again what I'm on tinder for and I say
After a few minutes, I tell her "yeah I'm glad you have a sense of humor, some people get very offended by that joke."Me: it's to expand my professional network on LinkdIn, of course
Her: Maybe we should exchange business cards then
Me: I'm on it to get dates, duh!
Then she tells me that I'm a bit young for her and that her life mentor, who is this 50 year old dude with a lay count of 100+ women, would be disappointed because he had advised her to date older guys, and here she was dating a younger guy again. So I tease her about being a Granny, and asking her how life is like in the assisted living center. She had this shy smile on her face which seemed to say "stop it, can't you see I'm falling in love with you". She tells me she reminds me of her ex crush, and apparently we are the same age and have the same personality.
The bus finally arrives and when we're sitting together, I have her feel my hands again, but this time, I hold on to her hand while we're talking. I'm sporting a rock hard boner because she has really dainty fingers and smooth skin. She has a blissful smile and we just sit in silence as I hold her hand. Eventually I drop her off at her house and go back home. She texts me that night:
Date 3
I realize this girl really really likes me and I should've just manhandle kissed her, that or just been more persistent with the kiss, because she was disappointed in herself for not kissing me last time. This time, she comes over to cook and we watch a movie again, but the cuddling is more intimate, and we're rubbing eachother's hands. I can't really focus on the movie, because her hands are so soft. After the movie is over, I lean in to kiss her, but she turns away. I laugh and go in to kiss her again but she puts her chin down so that I can't reach her mouth even if I wanted to. I just treat it very playfully and lick her ear and kiss her neck. She giggles too and asks why people kiss. She asks me to teach her how to kiss, but then whenver I'd go in for it, she'd just move her chin away. I'm cuddling her and I decide to just keep escalate as usual, so I start rubbing her back from under her shirt and while I'm unfastening her bra I just continue normal conversation with her. I start playing with her nipples from under her shirt but I'm still having boring conversation with her(she likes when I play with her nipples but wont kiss funnily enough). She starts a student teacher roleplaying going on and asks if I'll write her a good recommendation letter if she is a good student. (she wants me to teach her all about sex and relationships apparently) Everytime she resists, I just smile and continue cuddling her. Sometimes she'd cover her face and stop as if to signal she was getting overwhelmed, at which point I'd hold her in my arms and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Basically, I just followed the stuff in this article to a tee: https://www.girlschase.com/content/shatt ... on-passion Thanks Hector!
Eventually she takes her shirt off, and eventually the most of the clothes come off and I teach her how to suck on my dick. I finger her and she gets so wet her panties are soaked and she has to take them off too. I insert a finger inside of her to help her get stretched but the pain is unbearable for her. I show her what some sex positions are like, and she enjoys it when I'm humping her but she gets antsy about any penetration and doesn't want to do that. We check the time and realize that we had been going at it for 5 hours and at this point I am extremely exhausted and do not have the mental energy to persist more and get inside of her. Also, my crotch feels extremely sore from all the inadvertent pummeling it probably received so I have a hard time even when I tried to jack off. We decide to just go to bed and she has to wake up in 2 hrs to get back to her apartment and let her roommate in. In the morning, she holds me very tightly while waiting for the bus to come and then we part.
Date 4
I'm a bit worried that I suffered a failed escalation with her, so I know this time, I gotta seal the deal. After dinner and the movie, she is oddly enough resisting when I try to kiss her but I lay on my usual kind of persistence (hard to explain, but usually just involves gently holding her close to me, or wispering in her ear how much she's turning me on, or laughing when she moves away, etc...basically following the mindset in Hector's article)
She keeps saying "go to sleep, I'll watch you!
" I honestly dont know where that joke came from. But I suspect she's on her period, theres really no other reason for why she could be resisting like that. She confirms that she is on her period. So I suggest we go to the shower. I use the hard push a couple times. An hour later, we're somehow in the shower(honestly just took a lot of persistence, but in the middle I had her change into another t-shirt because "it was too hot") She takes a long time to finally get inside the bathroom, and finally shower with me and in the meantime she'd make many excuses like "its too cold in the hallway, lets just go back to your room" and I'd say "once the hot water is running, it'll be fine" and she was spent a lot of time sitting and thinking on the toilet seat before she finally took all her clothes off. Even in the shower, it took her a while before she was okay with me facing her. We washed each other and I helped her shave her pussy. Then I started fingering her, but it was too painful. No blood came out though. She said she had brought a waterproof blanket so we could just try it on the bed, actually. (Well why didn't you just say so in the first place, honey) So we try some more fingering back in my room, but it just hurts too much. I try sliding my cock inside of her but it doesnt work either because it is too dark, and I can't fit it in, and I'm getting soft quickly. So I decide to cum on her butt instead. I shoot a huge load and it goes everywhere, all over her back because I had forgotten that I hadn't masturbated in 4 days. so I toss the sheets in the washer and we nap on the bed while waiting for them to get clean. Then we go to sleep. In the morning, I'm hard so I finger her a bit and she's able to take two fingers so I tell her to get a condom from my desk and we go to pound town, baby! My cock fits inside of her and I try doggystyle and missionary, and I decide I dont want to risk going soft again so I just continue so that I can cum. I have an earthshattering orgasm and we just hold each other really tightly for a few minutes. There was a little bit of blood on the condom and a little on my thigh but the period didn't seem to affect the sex too much because she said it was already nearing the end anyways. She's very cuddly and affectionate, resting her head on my chest, etc...Although, I'll be honest, I think it was a lot more fun for me than it was for her because I don't think I had the energy to make her orgasm. When I was fingering her in the morning, I found this really spongy spot in her vagina which I'm guessing was the g-spot, but I got tired and couldn't stimulate it properly with my hands. I think it would take a long time. She said sex felt strange for her and she still needed to get used to it. This is only the second time she had sex and her first time was when she had gotten raped actually :0 Afterwards, we got lunch and she even made me sandwiches for my flight back home that evening
Finishing Thoughts: Thank you so much, Chase! This wouldn't have been possible if it weren't for girlschase. I owe it all to you guys and the community for answering my questions and giving me lots of feedback. I'm very happy with my progress these past few years, especially this past year. If you're curious, this was me a year ago: viewtopic.php?f=2&t=12355&hilit=shuaige and the girl was kind of similar to this one. I have no idea how things will play out with Zhu, but I look forward to more exciting adventures ahead!
Edit: I just realized this was my 69th post. Fitting...
