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Well, another semester down and my virginity is still in tact, no luck losing it. I have about 2 more semesters left (an extra one because I decided to minor in something). Just for background information, I go to a large state university with tons of undergrads, a well known basketball program along with a decent football program. Greek Life is very active here and runs the campus to the point that some jobs in the nightlife scene are reserved just for those in Greek Life.
Before I tell you about the situation, lets get to the good stuff!
1. I am certain that there are some above average girls at my college that are into me. Some have given me IOIs like looking at my direction and smiling or being very warm when speaking to me. I was not used to this reception in past semesters and this semester I am just getting used to it.
2. I have managed to get somewhat of a better social life now than I had before. Social life consists of cool male friends, some of them are even in fraternities and cool guys to hang out with. The quality of my male friends has certain increased.
I have decided to take time out to see some of the things I have done wrong and where I stand right now. For one, I noticed that this past semester, some girls are somewhat interested in me and give me IOIs but I was not aggressive enough to ask for the number or escalate.
Here are some problems I keep running into and the situation as it is right now
1. THE BIGGEST ONE. I do not have the logistics working in my favor, don't live on campus or in a dorm. I live like 2 miles off campus and there are mostly college kids in my apartments but they are upperclassmen and hardly a sense of community here. I cannot get myself to be alone in a room with a girl to where I can escalate and have sex with her.
2. If number 1 was not bad enough, college girls are very flaky! I can have so much interest from the girl in class, get the #, but rarely will that be converted into a date. I have read somewhere that dates are not that efficient when you are a college kid either and they rarely turn into lays. Have even had a girl flake on me for date night this past semester, even after she gave me her number and said yes when I asked her out.
3. I don't have much status on the college campus, too late for me to get a bid for a decent fraternity at this point and build much of a status anyways. From the readings I have done, the "social hierarchy" is powerful on a lot of college campuses and determines who gets the hottest girls. My status is either non-existent or that of the creepy guy.
4. Outside of my university, the college town I am in is mostly crap when it comes to women. Like the college girls here are just gorgeous but outside of the university it is mostly fat, ugly, and trashy women.
The past me was all for whining about stuff like race and other bullshit, the new me is about finding the solution. My question is, given what my situation is right now, how can I make the best of it and stop myself from finishing my college years as a virgin?
My university also has a pretty good nightlife scene and I was wondering if college bar game would work for me. Seems like you need to have some sort of status or be a part of a certain crowd in order to hook up with girls from there but I have thought of going to a college bar and just cold approaching PUA style.
Before I tell you about the situation, lets get to the good stuff!
1. I am certain that there are some above average girls at my college that are into me. Some have given me IOIs like looking at my direction and smiling or being very warm when speaking to me. I was not used to this reception in past semesters and this semester I am just getting used to it.
2. I have managed to get somewhat of a better social life now than I had before. Social life consists of cool male friends, some of them are even in fraternities and cool guys to hang out with. The quality of my male friends has certain increased.
I have decided to take time out to see some of the things I have done wrong and where I stand right now. For one, I noticed that this past semester, some girls are somewhat interested in me and give me IOIs but I was not aggressive enough to ask for the number or escalate.
Here are some problems I keep running into and the situation as it is right now
1. THE BIGGEST ONE. I do not have the logistics working in my favor, don't live on campus or in a dorm. I live like 2 miles off campus and there are mostly college kids in my apartments but they are upperclassmen and hardly a sense of community here. I cannot get myself to be alone in a room with a girl to where I can escalate and have sex with her.
2. If number 1 was not bad enough, college girls are very flaky! I can have so much interest from the girl in class, get the #, but rarely will that be converted into a date. I have read somewhere that dates are not that efficient when you are a college kid either and they rarely turn into lays. Have even had a girl flake on me for date night this past semester, even after she gave me her number and said yes when I asked her out.
3. I don't have much status on the college campus, too late for me to get a bid for a decent fraternity at this point and build much of a status anyways. From the readings I have done, the "social hierarchy" is powerful on a lot of college campuses and determines who gets the hottest girls. My status is either non-existent or that of the creepy guy.
4. Outside of my university, the college town I am in is mostly crap when it comes to women. Like the college girls here are just gorgeous but outside of the university it is mostly fat, ugly, and trashy women.
The past me was all for whining about stuff like race and other bullshit, the new me is about finding the solution. My question is, given what my situation is right now, how can I make the best of it and stop myself from finishing my college years as a virgin?
My university also has a pretty good nightlife scene and I was wondering if college bar game would work for me. Seems like you need to have some sort of status or be a part of a certain crowd in order to hook up with girls from there but I have thought of going to a college bar and just cold approaching PUA style.
