Okay let me say that i've always hated texting people without a specific reason, I like texting to arrange things.
I've started doing lots of daygame this year and managed to get 15 dates in about a 4 month time span all from daygame. I've really been struggling to get 2nd dates. I'm thinking maybe part of the problem is my text game.
Here's 2 different scenarios that have happened to me recently
First girl
I went on a date with her last week and it seemed to go great. I was having fun the whole time. We made out a couple times and held our amrs around each other, held hands. I did at one point ask her if she wanted to come with to my place to watch netflix, she had ealier said she loved netflix. She declined saying she had things to do later.
At the end of the date I thanked her for the goodnight and i hugged her and kissed her goodbye. She told me she'd text me after she got home. It went something like this
Her: Heyy I'm back home! Thanks for tonight. I had a great time.
Me: No problem, so did I
Glad you made it home safe!
Her: Thanks, I'm glad you had a good time too.
Me: Yeah it was fun! Don't stay up too late
(inside joke from what we talked about on the date)
Her: Haha oh i deff won't. You either! Even though 3 a.m isn't too late for you lol
Me: Yeah i'll try not to stay up much later than that!
Her: Lol oh good. Oh and that show i was telling you about is American Horror Story. Just so you don't forget the name of it.
Me: Okay cool thanks! Now i won't forget
Her: Oh good!
I'm gonna go to bed now, but ill talk to you later! GoodnightZ
Me: Okay sounds good, Goodnight
I then texted her the next day, on a wednesday,
Me: Hey ____, I had a lot of fun with you yesterday. Hope you're having a good day, we should hang out again soon, what are you up to for the rest of this week?
Her: Hey! I just got off work! I hope your day is going good as well! I'm busy the rest of this week with working for Maxwell street days but maybe next week?
Me: Okay yeah that's cool, next week should work. Good luck with work and have a great weekend!
Her: Thank you, I hope you do as well
That was on wedesday of last week, then i didn't text her again until yesterday, sunday afternoon.
Me: Hey Amanda! Hope your weekend is going great!
Idk if you've been busy working, my weekend's been pretty chill but cool! We should hang out again this week, when are you free?
She still hasn't responded to this. Think she started feeling cold towards me because i didn't text her enough? She seemed so warm to me on the date and in her texts right after, i find this so strange for her to be completely ignoring me now.
2nd girl
A couple weeks ago i slept with a girl on the first date at my place. It went very well i thought, here's the lay report if you want to read it.
rsdnation(dot)com/node/533275/forum
At around noon on the day after we slept together I texted her,
Me: "Hey ____, I had a great time last night, hope you're not too tired today
"
Her: "I had a great time too! And no i actually was fine, thanks for checkin in
"
I didn't respond to that text she sent me and then 2 days later I texted her again
Me: Hey ____, hope you had a great weekend! I'm preparing to cook you a delicious dinner feast this week, which day works for you?"
She didn't respond to that so three days after that text i decided to text her again.
Me: Hey ____, hope you're week is going great! Let's hang out again soon, when are you free?
Her: Hey dylan!!! I'm super Sry I haven't responded!!!! I've been super busy!! Well this week won't work cuz I have a lot of studying, but hit me up next week?
Me: Okay thats cool, good luck with school and have a great weekend!
Her: Thanx u too Dylan
Then after the weekend on sunday, yesterday, i texted her again
Me: Hey ____! Hope your weekend was awesome
, lets get together and eat some food sometime this week, when are you free?
No response from her after this. I even called her tonight at around 9:45, she usually has school till 7. She didn't pick up though.
Do you guys think my texting game is bad or that these girls just don't like me even when we have so much fun together in person?
Also any ideas on what to do in either one of these situations that im in right now? Give up? Or try texting or calling them again?
I've started doing lots of daygame this year and managed to get 15 dates in about a 4 month time span all from daygame. I've really been struggling to get 2nd dates. I'm thinking maybe part of the problem is my text game.
Here's 2 different scenarios that have happened to me recently
First girl
I went on a date with her last week and it seemed to go great. I was having fun the whole time. We made out a couple times and held our amrs around each other, held hands. I did at one point ask her if she wanted to come with to my place to watch netflix, she had ealier said she loved netflix. She declined saying she had things to do later.
At the end of the date I thanked her for the goodnight and i hugged her and kissed her goodbye. She told me she'd text me after she got home. It went something like this
Her: Heyy I'm back home! Thanks for tonight. I had a great time.
Me: No problem, so did I
Her: Thanks, I'm glad you had a good time too.
Me: Yeah it was fun! Don't stay up too late
Her: Haha oh i deff won't. You either! Even though 3 a.m isn't too late for you lol
Me: Yeah i'll try not to stay up much later than that!
Her: Lol oh good. Oh and that show i was telling you about is American Horror Story. Just so you don't forget the name of it.
Me: Okay cool thanks! Now i won't forget
Her: Oh good!
Me: Okay sounds good, Goodnight
I then texted her the next day, on a wednesday,
Me: Hey ____, I had a lot of fun with you yesterday. Hope you're having a good day, we should hang out again soon, what are you up to for the rest of this week?
Her: Hey! I just got off work! I hope your day is going good as well! I'm busy the rest of this week with working for Maxwell street days but maybe next week?
Me: Okay yeah that's cool, next week should work. Good luck with work and have a great weekend!
Her: Thank you, I hope you do as well
That was on wedesday of last week, then i didn't text her again until yesterday, sunday afternoon.
Me: Hey Amanda! Hope your weekend is going great!
She still hasn't responded to this. Think she started feeling cold towards me because i didn't text her enough? She seemed so warm to me on the date and in her texts right after, i find this so strange for her to be completely ignoring me now.
2nd girl
A couple weeks ago i slept with a girl on the first date at my place. It went very well i thought, here's the lay report if you want to read it.
rsdnation(dot)com/node/533275/forum
At around noon on the day after we slept together I texted her,
Me: "Hey ____, I had a great time last night, hope you're not too tired today
Her: "I had a great time too! And no i actually was fine, thanks for checkin in
I didn't respond to that text she sent me and then 2 days later I texted her again
Me: Hey ____, hope you had a great weekend! I'm preparing to cook you a delicious dinner feast this week, which day works for you?"
She didn't respond to that so three days after that text i decided to text her again.
Me: Hey ____, hope you're week is going great! Let's hang out again soon, when are you free?
Her: Hey dylan!!! I'm super Sry I haven't responded!!!! I've been super busy!! Well this week won't work cuz I have a lot of studying, but hit me up next week?
Me: Okay thats cool, good luck with school and have a great weekend!
Her: Thanx u too Dylan
Then after the weekend on sunday, yesterday, i texted her again
Me: Hey ____! Hope your weekend was awesome
No response from her after this. I even called her tonight at around 9:45, she usually has school till 7. She didn't pick up though.
Do you guys think my texting game is bad or that these girls just don't like me even when we have so much fun together in person?
Also any ideas on what to do in either one of these situations that im in right now? Give up? Or try texting or calling them again?