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How long should I talk to a girl before I fuck? (highschool)

Dimes

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Ok schools coming up soon and I've read chases class pickup article. But it say by the fourth day in should have already asked her out... Is that for college or HS?

Because I've seen guys take way longer than 4 days to date and fuck. But I've also seen a lot of guys fuck a girl in less than a week.

Is there 2 diffrent ways to go about this? Is moving fast in HS ideal?


Also since I'm gonna be in class... Does that mean I approach all girl indirectly?

For girls alone after school is ok if go direct? Honestly I'd rather go direct than indirect in any situation but it could turn out really awkward if things don't work out.

HS girls will act awkard for sure if they don't like my direct approach.
 

Smith

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For girls in your class, just strike up a conversation while making sure you qualify her in some ways (showing your intent).

Being direct is an attitude, not just an opener.

There's no hard rules about how fast you shld go (e.g. how many days it shld take u to get her out...etc). Just as fast as possible while making the girl feel comfortable.

I've talked to HS girls while being direct. Most of them don't act awkward. (unless you're awkward). It's the same for all the other women you meet.
 

Dimes

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Smith said:
For girls in your class, just strike up a conversation while making sure you qualify her in some ways (showing your intent).

Being direct is an attitude, not just an opener.

There's no hard rules about how fast you shld go (e.g. how many days it shld take u to get her out...etc). Just as fast as possible while making the girl feel comfortable.

I've talked to HS girls while being direct. Most of them don't act awkward. (unless you're awkward). It's the same for all the other women you meet

Thanks. So should I just ignore that article?

By awkward I meant if the girl for some reason rejects my direct opener.. I will see her everyday. And lot of girls don't know how to act after.
 

Smith

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Follow it to the exact detailif you want. There's just more than one way of doing things and every situation is different. but generally you wanna move fast.

By awkward I meant if the girl for some reason rejects my direct opener.. I will see her everyday. And lot of girls don't know how to act after.

be friendly and warm. It's not a big deal
 
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