How many guys that read GC actually change their life?

[uForia]

I took a hiatus from all this because I realized I have too much schoolwork in my university. I found myself spending 80 hours a week on schoolwork and such so women took a backseat in my life. And women here don't turn me on (Yes, it's that bad considering I'm 20 and I should get a boner for any girl). I will tell you that whenever I do get a chance to platonically talk to a girl though, some of them do give signs of attraction, so there is definitely a change there. It's me that is not too attracted so I just don't really feel like escalating or anything. My career in the future is too important to me. And here's also the thing with life in general.

Men tend to want women during their 20s and want money during their 30s. However, the best time to accumulate money is during your 20s (Due to compound interesting) and you'll get more bang for the buck for women in your 30s since you naturally look more mature and have more money to spend (wisely) in the sexual marketplace. I'm just doing the logical thing on focusing on my career now and start focusing more on women once I get out of this miserable university.

ya, and I guess that's another reason why it is argued that men are more attractive in their 30's than they were in their 20's on average, because since they don't want women as much, it's a strange annoying paradox but it's like when you don't want a woman, they tend to be interested in you more, it's a paradox since us guys are expected to do the pursuing actively, it feels like damned if you do, damned if you don't.

You may want to change that mindset of the paradox since it's gonna get you nowhere. Desires change over time and yeah it is understandably frustrating to see how you do better with women when you want them less, but desperation isn't the only variable in the function of how attractive you are. You're simply more attractive when you're 30 since you don't look like a kid anymore. Approaching and interacting with a woman is more of a dance and tradeoffs involving your level of attainability are involved, which is what engineers like myself (Well I'm working on comp engineering) try to optimize, which has very little to do with the fact that you need to approach a woman (Because when you approach a woman, you display interest, not neediness. There's a difference).

 

[FeelIWastedMyYouth]

I took a hiatus from all this because I realized I have too much schoolwork in my university. I found myself spending 80 hours a week on schoolwork and such so women took a backseat in my life. And women here don't turn me on (Yes, it's that bad considering I'm 20 and I should get a boner for any girl). I will tell you that whenever I do get a chance to platonically talk to a girl though, some of them do give signs of attraction, so there is definitely a change there. It's me that is not too attracted so I just don't really feel like escalating or anything. My career in the future is too important to me. And here's also the thing with life in general.

Men tend to want women during their 20s and want money during their 30s. However, the best time to accumulate money is during your 20s (Due to compound interesting) and you'll get more bang for the buck for women in your 30s since you naturally look more mature and have more money to spend (wisely) in the sexual marketplace. I'm just doing the logical thing on focusing on my career now and start focusing more on women once I get out of this miserable university.

ya, and I guess that's another reason why it is argued that men are more attractive in their 30's than they were in their 20's on average, because since they don't want women as much, it's a strange annoying paradox but it's like when you don't want a woman, they tend to be interested in you more, it's a paradox since us guys are expected to do the pursuing actively, it feels like damned if you do, damned if you don't.

You may want to change that mindset of the paradox since it's gonna get you nowhere. Desires change over time and yeah it is understandably frustrating to see how you do better with women when you want them less, but desperation isn't the only variable in the function of how attractive you are. You're simply more attractive when you're 30 since you don't look like a kid anymore. Approaching and interacting with a woman is more of a dance and tradeoffs involving your level of attainability are involved, which is what engineers like myself (Well I'm working on comp engineering) try to optimize, which has very little to do with the fact that you need to approach a woman (Because when you approach a woman, you display interest, not neediness. There's a difference).

ya, people are entitled to their opinion but I like to feel it is easier for women to enjoy their youth than it is for men with less effort

 

[Lotus]

ya, people are entitled to their opinion but I like to feel it is easier for women to enjoy their youth than it is for men with less effort

Why do you feel it is easier?

Because i disagree entirely.

 

[FeelIWastedMyYouth]

ya, people are entitled to their opinion but I like to feel it is easier for women to enjoy their youth than it is for men with less effort

Why do you feel it is easier?

Because i disagree entirely.

because Women are generally on the receiving end of sexual attention, requests for dating and relationships while men are on the projecting end. It is easier for a woman to date more than men, because as long as she is willing to date among the men that approach her, ask her out, she can date or have a relationship if she wants to.

A man must pursue, initiate, escalate, and if he has any negative experiences that deter him, or if he is just very very shy, socially-awkward he could end up an adult male virgin very easily."

Most women don't have to actively pursue in order to end up in a relationship. Even a girl who is not particularly attractive, shy and depressed (worst case scenario) will get approached every now and then. On the other hand, a man who is unattractive, shy and depressed will not get approached by a woman in a million years.

and because of that, some guys don't learn how to master their approaching-skills until later in life, and since women don't have to approach, and they are valued for their youth more, they are far less likely to end up being a late bloomer.

 

[uForia]

ya, people are entitled to their opinion but I like to feel it is easier for women to enjoy their youth than it is for men with less effort

Why do you feel it is easier?

Because i disagree entirely.

Because for him, the main factor in enjoying youth is the availability and frequency of sex, in which sex is a women's market. You see the media overhyping sex, which makes virgins like him and me understandably feel like we're missing out on a lot, but then I take logic into account and note that men have other things to do than just have sex. Not only that, but women face social risk whenever she sleeps with a guy, which makes them less open to having sex thus skewing the market towards the women's favor even more. I know I will, however, have the last laugh when girls throw themselves at me for commitment.

 

[FeelIWastedMyYouth]

ya, people are entitled to their opinion but I like to feel it is easier for women to enjoy their youth than it is for men with less effort

Why do you feel it is easier?

Because i disagree entirely.

Because for him, the main factor in enjoying youth is the availability and frequency of sex, in which sex is a women's market. You see the media overhyping sex, which makes virgins like him and me understandably feel like we're missing out on a lot, but then I take logic into account and note that men have other things to do than just have sex. Not only that, but women face social risk whenever she sleeps with a guy, which makes them less open to having sex thus skewing the market towards the women's favor even more. I know I will, however, have the last laugh when girls throw themselves at me for commitment.

ya, which is why I often have that last laugh mentality, as when women get older, like particularly over 30, over age 35, when womens dating/mating market value takes a swan dive, I like to think of that as life, reality, giving women karma treatment for their lack of initiative towards guys they were attracted to, interested in, because since girls don't really have to come out of their shell since they don't have to make the first move, do the asking out, approaching, etc., and sadly, unfortuneately, some of us guys are guilty of finally coming out of our shell later in life, that's karma for women not having to deal with the pain, frustration of going through trial and error, being rejected, friend-zoned.

 

[Lotus]

Screw the media. The media only has power when you allow it to. Take a marketing class or spend some time doing research and once you realize how decetive and misleading the information and ideals. It will become laughable and lose it's sway.

So what? None of that makes it "easier", if anything thats better for us men. A man can continually increase his value throughout his life. Women cannot... for the most part. Don't you want to have the power to change your value offering continually?

What's wrong with being a late bloomer, it just means your more likely to have worked harder then someone who had it natually. Most of the people here are late bloomers, which is why we are here.

I know I will, however, have the last laugh when girls throw themselves at me for commitment.

that's karma for women not having to deal with the pain, frustration of going through trial and error, being rejected, friend-zoned.

Those are such diseased mindsets that nothing good will come out of. Revenge on women isn't going to make you feel better.

If anything you should feel sorry for them for having to deal so many weak men and then make it all better by being the strongest most passionate man they have ever laid.

 

[FeelIWastedMyYouth]

Screw the media. The media only has power when you allow it to. Take a marketing class or spend some time doing research and once you realize how decetive and misleading the information and ideals. It will become laughable and lose it's sway.

So what? None of that makes it "easier", if anything thats better for us men. A man can continually increase his value throughout his life. Women cannot... for the most part. Don't you want to have the power to change your value offering continually?

What's wrong with being a late bloomer, it just means your more likely to have worked harder then someone who had it natually. Most of the people here are late bloomers, which is why we are here.

I know I will, however, have the last laugh when girls throw themselves at me for commitment.

that's karma for women not having to deal with the pain, frustration of going through trial and error, being rejected, friend-zoned.

Those are such diseased mindsets that nothing good will come out of. Revenge on women isn't going to make you feel better.

If anything you should feel sorry for them for having to deal so many weak men and then make it all better by being the strongest most passionate man they have ever laid.

most people on GirlsChase are late bloomers? not really, most guys lose their virginity, have had a girlfriend before age 25.