How often a hot girl gets approached?

[razir110]

Hi all! Been away for a while, a lot of work bla bla and not too much approaching lately! Shame on me, have to get back online asap..

This question should be asked to girls, but what do you guys think? How many times a good-looking girl gets approached? Like an 8+ girl?

I read a lot online and people say stuff such as "4 times a a year" I mean that's kinda low for a good looking girl isn't it?

What are your opinions on this?

 

[DarkKnight]

Sizing up the competition ?

It depends on what you call an approach. Most guys try to be "friends" anyway so I would not even count them. Also you can discount the guys with terrible fundamentals which is rather common. I think a hot girl being approach by a real lover type guy is not that super common, probably also depends on the venue. Less common during daygame more common during nightgame. In my experience most guys are rather timid or they "approach" but start entertaining and not moving things forward. If you put some effort into game and fundamentals you can blow the majority out of the water.

 

[razir110]

Haha about sizing up the competition, yes and no lol

I guess all of us think "she must be hit on all the time" but perhaps I am wrong to think about that and honestly I don't care much that other guys approach the girl, it's fine.

I just think that will Tinder stuff, etc guys approach less and less in person and most don't really know what they are doing. But it would be interesting to know about how girls are being approached nowadays.

 

[DarkKnight]

Well with your topic in mind I was out the entire day and I only saw one ballsy approach done by some 15 year old teenager. He was rejected but kept his composure like a champ. This was during the day. Otherwise I saw no approaches or openers happening. Only corny friendlylike opening, which makes me cringe.

Most guys are indeed on tinder or need social circle or wait for divine intervention. Or they chat up a girl and stay utterly platonic.

Most guys also do not assume attraction, but assume rejection. Putting girls onto pedestals and also take rejection way to personally. Those are all bumps in the roads for would be approachers, so expecting most to reach for the top of the summit (whatever their personal 10s are) is farfetched. Attainability is really important.

Ah well ..

 

[Big Daddy]

I think the pickup community greatly underestimates the number of times a girl is cold approached. I have a very close friend who's a 7-8 and I've seen her personally get approached almost every single time we went out, plus some cold approaches during the day when she was alone minding her business (she tells me when it happens afterward).

Not taking into consideration the sleazy approaches when in school, work, etc.

I'd say a 8+ girl is approached every single time they in a relatively social setting and if they walk everyday to work, groceries, etc then at least 1-2/week in a big city and at least once/week on her Instagram in any city.

 

[Fuck This]

Replace "Hot" with "attractive and friendly ".

Example 1. Skinny Idaho girl who calls all men "HUN"
Was staying at a female friend's house while a plumber was there. He fixed her dishwasher FOR NO CHARGE, gave her his card with his personal cell # on it and then asked about her plans for the night. She said WE were going out for drinks and dinner and then he offered to pick her (or us) up if we needed a ride. The guy was ballsy, I'll give him that....

Example 2. my 40-something "Hot Teacher" GF.
She worked as a drink cart girl on a golf course one summer a few years ago. She got hit on quite regularly. One guy tried to give her an unsolicited back rub and she chewed his ass. I know she flirted for better tips, shit I would....When I met her she did a lot of posting on " the book"

But a funny thing happened about 2.5 years ago...She bought a ring in a gift shop and started wearing it on her ring finger where a marriage band would go. She quit posting memes and selfies to FB. She made her profile picture of the two of us. Shit I'm her cover photo......The Male Orbiters quit commenting on her photos. The older Single guys like 60 yr old plus widowers still openly flirt with her, and she doesn't shut them down, just mentions her bf...She is frequently approached in airports by men when she travels to see me. She is really charismatic with women as well. Lots of guys mistake that for interest.

Example 3. My teenage daughters

Slender and athletic but with Resting Bitch Face.....They repel men....They are NOT looking for a guy and they intimidate all of them within 5 years of their age range.

So there is definitely a sliding scale based on the vibe each girl puts off...

 

[Rain]

I was seeing a woman a few years ago, and she turned up early and I turned up late to a shopping center. In the space of 1hr, maybe a bit longer, she got approached 12x times. That is like once every 5x mins.