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How Often Do You Sleep With A New Girl?

Hector Papi Castillo

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Hey boys,


I'm constantly making inner-game strides; right now I'm training my mind to see attraction as a numbers game. I recognize it as a statistical fact (an oxymoron, but you know what I mean), however, I'm still the idealist who thinks that "I will become good enough to attract any girl, anytime, anywhere." This is, of course, impossible.

So, to follow-up Colt's fantastic new article, let's poll the community!



1. How many new girls do you sleep with each month (listing the months you can recount)?

2. How many new girls do you sleep with each year?

3. How many new girls do you visualize your self sleeping with once you've attained mastery?



My responses

1. Since amplifying my natural game with GC material (post second break-up with my ex; my total lay count was 12 then), my stats are

November - 2

December - 2

January - 3

February - 1

March - 1


Bringing me to a grand total of 21. I have natural friends in the 30s and 40s, so I have some catching up to do!

2. I can't give an accurate number for this, since I've been in monogamous relationships most of college (was a virgin before college), but I estimate that I'll sleep with ~15-20 new women a year.


3. I want my yearly quota to be 30. If I propagate my current stats with the attempts it took to get the lays, I'd say that you have to do serious day game 2-3 times a week and throw in 1 or 2 night game sessions to sustain this lay number (assuming social circle game is mixed in your normal life; if it's not, you don't have enough friends).



I'm still probably being too generous and idealistic, but I set high standards for myself! I would love a slice of humble pie from my superiors if I'm being too unrealistic.



The point here is not to demoralize anyone; I want to help others and my myself break our destructive perspectives on realistic and idealistic love lives. If your count is low (I consider mine sub-par), don't be ashamed. Post your numbers and motivate yourself to improve!

See this as a Daruma Doll. Fill one eye at the start of your journey, and complete the second when you reach your goal!



May you all master yourselves,

Anatman
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

PrettyDecent

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So:

1. None before GC -

June 2013: 1

January 2014: 1

February 2014: 1

March 2014: 2

2. Impossible to tell! I have a feeling I'll be going 2 or so a month for about another 9 months to a year - at which point I'll have another breakthrough (true abundance mentality) and have the skill to sleep with many new women in a row. But I still have much to learn before that point :)

3. Hmm, not sure...I have a feeling after I've attained mastery (which I consider to be getting my absolute dream girl whenever I want) that I'll then go into some LTR's. The key seems to be not doing it beforehand ;).

Anatman said:
I want my yearly quota to be 30.

Oh, with your social calibration and ability to adroitly handle drawn out/difficult seductions, I'd say you can definitely do this. If you're pulling a new girl, on average, every 1.5 - 2 weeks you'll meet your goal.

~Nick
 

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Question 1
August - 5 (wasn't working)
September - 3
October - 3
November - 0 (only repeats)
December - 1
January - 2
February - 2
March - 4

Lifetime - 29

Most of these were actually from OkCupid / Tinder, but I've recently been forcing myself to approach girls and be more direct. I'm not a great opener but a really good closer, so online seems to work well for me since there's no awkward open. Once I get a girl on a date, it's probably about 60% FNL. I want to start opening more in person because there aren't too many bombshells online, and the ones that are tend not to respond since they are inundated with messages. I want to start nailing 9s and 10s.

Question 2
Can't say how many per year - only been doing it since last August, but I'm on pace for about 30/year.

Question 3
2-3 per week seems like a pretty good hit rate as I get better.
 
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