- Joined
- Dec 17, 2018
- Messages
- 780
Dudes! I know this would change on every breakup, I have some ex-girlfriends a never talk to but I never see them. There’s others where we still get on an we talk whenever we run into each other. I always go no contact with ex’s as soon as we break up and they always make contact at some point. I had a bit of a messy break up just after valentine’s day an I’ve not seen her since we run into each other a couple weeks after. We both go to the same clubs so at some point we will possibly run into each other.
I was reading a post on the forum about how to deal with a girl ya previously slept with at a party where fuck this replied that he should casually say hi as it would take more effort to ignore her. Completely ignoring them as if they don’t exist could also be taken as an emotional response that ya affected by it. A have no interest in this girl and flat out ignoring her was going to be how I handled it and if she talked to me I was going to be cold, blunt an aloof. Now am wondering if this would be seen as high effort and maybe casually saying hi and then leaving it would be the more social savvy way to handle it? Any thoughts? Thanks dudes!
I was reading a post on the forum about how to deal with a girl ya previously slept with at a party where fuck this replied that he should casually say hi as it would take more effort to ignore her. Completely ignoring them as if they don’t exist could also be taken as an emotional response that ya affected by it. A have no interest in this girl and flat out ignoring her was going to be how I handled it and if she talked to me I was going to be cold, blunt an aloof. Now am wondering if this would be seen as high effort and maybe casually saying hi and then leaving it would be the more social savvy way to handle it? Any thoughts? Thanks dudes!