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Bboy100

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Hey guys, I just have a quick question: How do I approach women on the streets. Do I just walk up to then and say (insert direct opener here)? Do I let them pass me and turn around? Should I move with them if they don't stop?

Basically, as much detail as possible on the exact mechanics of initially getting her attention would be greatly appreciated.

Also, if there is an article specifically tailored to street day game please link. As I'm sure it exists, I just can't seem to find it.
 

Bounded

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Bboy100,

Yeah, I think you're right...don't know if I've seen an actual article on it! I think Chase's advice for the approach is detailed more in his book How To Make Girl's Chase.

You're approach is more of an art rather than a science, but if I just jotted down a couple reliable rules-of-thumb:
  • Don't touch her before the opening (I usually start off by walking next to them, then saying "excuse me" to grab they're attention)
  • If you're initially walking with her during the opening, gradually slow down your walking to a halt for the conversation
  • If they don't slow down with you, they're not interested
  • Have your body initially facing on an angle from a girl (as opposed to having your complete body toward her, which can be intimidating)
  • Go direct if it's a walking approach
  • Letting them pass you and turn around is a solid idea

Hope that helps, dude :)

-Bounded
 
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ray_zorse

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See this post: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=8728
Any other input or feedback appreciated. I have heard it said that the best way to approach is to walk directly into her path and cut her off, but this is pretty ballsy and I'd be keen to hear any detailed advice for making it work. My current system is outlined in above post although I must say I've been getting a bit sloppy lately with my sexual smile, facial expressions and eye contact timing (pre opener), just finding it hard to get in state and make it flow on demand. And paying the price. But I know I did it before, therefore it can be done. Gonna hit daygame hard again from Thursday. I also have a date lined up for Saturday (details to be arranged closer to the time) and I want to do some hardcore approaching first to get any neediness out of my system and rediscover my IDGAF vibe.
-Ray
 

Bboy100

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Thanks for the input guys. Its very much appreciated.

Ray, I would give you some feedback, but I haven't yet tried it, so I don't want to be talking out of my ass.
 
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