I run into this situation quite often. It can be from approaches to dates. Girls string me along in an approach and waste anywhere from 10 mins to a couple of hours talking to me and eventually not letting me escalate. It can be because she has a BF or because she is moving to another city or she's just traveling in my city for a short time etc. They enjoy my company and give a hell lot of IOIs and I assume attraction but I either can't escalate because I'll be with them in a crowded place or they'll not let me escalate. Sometimes they come on dates also but won't comply when I try to bounce to another location or to my place but are happy to sit and talk with me for 3-4 hours. It's just a waste of time and I can rather go do something else or go approach other girls. This is a big sticking point to me. I have had 2 girls telling me they really liked me but one of them had a BF after 2 dates and one of them told she is going to leave the city after one date. I get very angry on them but I'm good at not showing off my emotions and come across as needy
Try being a little more polarizing in your early interactions. Call their bluff. You are being like their gay best friend if they come up with a boyfriend on a second date.
The one leaving the city is begging for a one night stand.
"I'm moving the day after tomorrow"
"then we don't have much time. Let's make this a night you will never forget."
"I wouldn't want you to think I'm that kind of girl"
"I think you can do what ever you want to with your body and no one should judge you. I sure don't."
The one leaving the city is begging for a one night stand.
"I'm moving the day after tomorrow"
"then we don't have much time. Let's make this a night you will never forget."
"I wouldn't want you to think I'm that kind of girl"
"I think you can do what ever you want to with your body and no one should judge you. I sure don't."