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How to Balance Game and your Purpose?

themino

Space Monkey
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How do you rationalize practicing game and achieving your mission?
I haven't achieved much progress since finding girls chase and it's because I want to focus on my mission. I tried just focusing on girls but it makes me feel like i don't have a life purpose and I loose motivation/become depressed.
Chase advises putting your mission first and girls second , but then how do I make room for girls?

To drastically improve at pickup to where i can pull 8's and 9s i'll have to.
1. move to a more expensive and better seduction location.
2. invest more time into pick up.
both 1 and 2 will slow down my mission because it will drain my money and time.

I feel like I might have to focus on my purpose and be content with meager progress in pickup until I've achieved it.
I'm considering approaching during my commute and lunch break and setting up 1 date a week.

How do you Balance Pickup and your purpose?
How do you rationalize committing countless hours to pickup?

I know Hector has some Hindu/ Buddhist philosophy of enlightening women and men with sexual liberation or something.
I feel like even the PUA Gods have a misson, because most preach putting your mission first.
 

BigPapa

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just integrate girls into your life , and not actually putting minutes only in girls .

For example you can say , alright I am going to grab something to eat , but if i see a cute girl I will open her no matter what :)

Same thing for when going from place A to place B , or when feeling like grabbing a coffee , etc

This way you are doing whatever you have to do , hence following your purpose , but in the same time you are also making room for talking with girls
 

hotsauce

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i don't really have a purpose. i have obsessions. women are an obsession of mine. i figure it out.
 

Tank

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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There is no right answer to this and every man struggles with it. The best general principle is try to have seasons, as in for example the warm 6 months of the year work just enough and focus on your game and the cold 6 months of the year do the opposite.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
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