How to bed this girl now ?

[johnydones]

Hey guys i will try to make this short , i need an advice on how to bed this girl i met few weeks ago. We met at the club and kissed on first night , after that we were at my place but nothing happened except few kisses , we mostly talked. Soon after she started sending messages with hearts and kisses , i guess she is in love and what not, but now that im getting it all together with approaching girls i don't want a serious relationship now. We will meet tomorrow or day after tomorrow so i was thinking if you guys can give me any advice. Can i get her in bed fast now that im in boyfriend category , i would appreciate any advice you can give me.

thanks

John

 

[Franco]

JD,

It doesn't sound like you're in the boyfriend category to me... yet. You've only been together once, and it was the night you met. You haven't taken her on a date yet, so there's still room to take her on a date and then invite her back to your place. Or, since she's already been to your place, you can invite her over to your place directly. If you're very intent on not having a relationship with this girl, the latter would probably be preferred so that you know that she's okay with moving things directly toward sex.

So, invite her out or over to your place and try to seal the deal. If she gives you heavy resistance this time around, then it probably means she is trying to boyfriend zone you.

- Franco

 

[johnydones]

Thanks for fast reply Franco , i will do my best , but if she really wants to put me in boyfriend category , should i tell her that i am not interested in serious relationship , or do something else ?