How To Compete With A Girls Crush

[gameboy]

We always want what we can't have. Seems to be true for you, and for that girl as well.

 

[topcat]

An important tenet to keep in mind so you avoid things like this in future:

“Like what likes you” or “invest in what complies with you”

This girl doesn’t deserve your time of day..

She doesn’t like you, and you’re wracking up negative compliance.

Why doesn’t she like you but like him?
For a litany of reasons likely beyond your control -

doesn’t like the way you look
finds you cringe
you aren’t the right height
she finds you bland
you smell weird on a hormonal level
you remind her of a family member

who cares?
She doesn’t like you

move on

 

[Mr Mistah]

Thank you.

I overinvested.

Took me too long for such a basic truth to sink in

I will move on.