I've had the same friends pretty much since I've been to college, but I feel like I'm really confined to them. I want to be able to text someone outside my immediate social circle and ask what parties are going on tonight or if they want to hang out etc. I really only hang out with my friends and to be honest they aren't really benefiting my in my journey with women and life in general. So how do I build a "cool" social circle? I know a good amount of people in general I feel where I fail is maintaining relationships, and making them deeper to the point where we are not just acquaintances. Also how do you make people seek you out and want to hang out with you?
How to connect more with people and build a "cool" social circle
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Social circles are built with shared experience.
Is there a school club that does outdoor trips? Time spent together in the outdoors seems to be my biggest bond with friends. Stories about weekend Rafting/hiking/ skiing trips are good conversation points with new people you meet.
Get on an intramural sports team. Who cares if you suck? Own it if you do.
Do you live on campus in a residence hall? Host a mixer with another hall.
Is there a professional club within your major at college? Join it.
Philanthropies? Doing a community service project with a group from school looks good on a resume and introduces you to new people.
Student Advisory committees. Many times these positions are run unopposed. Representatives from a wide background.
Campus tours. After a year at school you know enough to lead some campus tours for prospective students. Usually the school will train you as well. Makes you used to talking to new people.
The Greek System. If you find a group of guys you have a lot in common with and RESPECT, the Greek system can give you a social circle. Had I not joined the Fraternity I pledged in college I would not have been in a fraternity.
Part time jobs at social locations. Working the door at a dance club or bartending makes you a recognized individual.
Part time jobs on campus. Being a weight room monitor, or an intramural sports official exposes you to active fit people. Working the library gets you around good students.
Is there a school club that does outdoor trips? Time spent together in the outdoors seems to be my biggest bond with friends. Stories about weekend Rafting/hiking/ skiing trips are good conversation points with new people you meet.
Get on an intramural sports team. Who cares if you suck? Own it if you do.
Do you live on campus in a residence hall? Host a mixer with another hall.
Is there a professional club within your major at college? Join it.
Philanthropies? Doing a community service project with a group from school looks good on a resume and introduces you to new people.
Student Advisory committees. Many times these positions are run unopposed. Representatives from a wide background.
Campus tours. After a year at school you know enough to lead some campus tours for prospective students. Usually the school will train you as well. Makes you used to talking to new people.
The Greek System. If you find a group of guys you have a lot in common with and RESPECT, the Greek system can give you a social circle. Had I not joined the Fraternity I pledged in college I would not have been in a fraternity.
Part time jobs at social locations. Working the door at a dance club or bartending makes you a recognized individual.
Part time jobs on campus. Being a weight room monitor, or an intramural sports official exposes you to active fit people. Working the library gets you around good students.
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Love Systems came out with a product which talks all about this. I haven't actually tried their material out, so I can't say how credible it is. But its called "Social Circle Mastery". Feel free to check it out if you're interested.