How to Counter Fears of Being Falsely Accused?

[bigfoot]

With all this shit going on like the #metoo movement etc how do you deal with the fear of being falsely accused by the woman for rape if she gets mad at you?

 

[Warped Mindless]

Much less common than most guys think.

The biggest thing you can is to not sleep with extremely drunk women.

Also be sure to save ALL forms of communication between you two.

 

[ulrich]

With all this shit going on like the #metoo movement etc how do you deal with the fear of being falsely accused by the woman for rape if she gets mad at you?

I think Chase did a pretty good article about that… or was it an e-mail?

The bottom line was:
- Don’t have sex with drunk women (like @Warped Mindless mentions)
- Avoid gaming in universities, particularly liberal ones
- Don’t have sex with women from work if possible

Hope it helps.

 

[trashKENNUT]

I like to add more.

I am sure that the guys here who download TikTok, has seen this.
(Deleting TikTok will not make the problems disappear).

The issue here is that the internet, technology and essentially feminism has literally 'uncompartmentalize' everything.

The world today is 'uncompartmentalize'.

While Girlschase members or any guy here might not be afraid of false rape accusations because you are innocent, the TikTok idiots creates the assumption that a narrative is the prevalent narrative. Thus you are guilty...

The situation will be more nuance.

I will be in heated discussions with the guys about this sooner or later, because this questions will popup. I'm pretty confident that Chase will be dragged into this. All of us will be dragged into this.

z@c+

 

[Starboy]

This creeps up on my mind too even though i'm not currently seeing any girls. Just another fear that i've developed from being exposed to the pickup commumity that I didn't have before. I've read scenarios where even if you didn't sleep with a drunk girl the guy got accused or at least threatened.

Chase wrote something on worrying about this matter

Meeting Girls While Staying Safe in a Paranoid Dating Society

It's grown trickier and trickier for bachelor men to navigate the dating world… without getting snared by a scorned woman's revenge. Here's how to stay safe out there. "Every man is a potential rapist." Contents 1. How Bad Is It for Men Today? The Risk Factor for Men 2. Flip Side: Paranoia the...

www.girlschase.com

 

[Will_V]

This stuff is very rare, but tbh I don't find it surprising at all that women resort to this stuff when drunk. If she hardly remembers who you are or what happened, women being suggestible and quick to backward rationalize, she's going to easily get swayed into believing she was taken advantage of. Sex is something nobody should do in an unconscious or semiconscious state, it's a complete bypass of all the parts of her mind that would validate an encounter that she desired and wanted, and is therefore leaving an empty space for any perception to take hold afterward.

The fact that she allowed herself to be in that kind of position is unfortunate, but honestly I think most guys have enough sense to know making a move on such women is entering a situation that is already out of control.

For me personally, what makes me confident of not having to deal with false accusations is the fact that she has consciously bought into my reality and moved forward with me every step of the way through the seduction, and it has rewarded her continuously. The more someone consciously invests in something, the more they see themselves getting what they want from it, the more loyal they are to it and the more they defend it from negative perceptions. I lead her by the hand, I give her a great time, I cuddle and kiss her and talk to her afterward and send a nice parting text, I never pop the bubble we created together so that she feels able to continue to validate herself in it, and in defending it from outsiders.

 

[Skills]

With all this shit going on like the #metoo movement etc how do you deal with the fear of being falsely accused by the woman for rape if she gets mad at you?

- don't sleep with drunk women
- treat her nice after sex (don't kick them out, or make them feel used) this is the main reason.... Text her after "3 emojis that was hot" no matter what...
- save all convos in google voice/wassup etc... and don't delete them....
- ring camara....
-don't let her find your lay and field reports, youtube etc... (this happened to me)

 

[Chase]

I think Chase did a pretty good article about that… or was it an e-mail?

Here's the article in question:

How to Avoid and Deal with False Rape Accusations

So you met a girl at a party. Both of you had been drinking, but not so much that either of you was stumbling around, slurring your speech, or anything. The attraction between the two of you was palpable; sparks flew through the air like electric currents, and one thing very quickly led to...

www.girlschase.com

Chase wrote something on worrying about this matter

Meeting Girls While Staying Safe in a Paranoid Dating Society

It's grown trickier and trickier for bachelor men to navigate the dating world… without getting snared by a scorned woman's revenge. Here's how to stay safe out there. "Every man is a potential rapist." Contents 1. How Bad Is It for Men Today? The Risk Factor for Men 2. Flip Side: Paranoia the...

www.girlschase.com

Yes, that's another one on-topic here. That one more on not letting the paranoia get to you too bad...

Chase

 

[Teevster]

With all this shit going on like the #metoo movement etc how do you deal with the fear of being falsely accused by the woman for rape if she gets mad at you?

Learning proper pick up, being calibrate, and stay away from this "neo" direct game. Never had any issues.

 

[Regal Tiger]

With all this shit going on like the #metoo movement etc how do you deal with the fear of being falsely accused by the woman for rape if she gets mad at you?

Save all communications (one of the biggest reasons I started using Google Voice so that I can archive to keep things out of my face while also still keeping it)

Hidden recordings whenever I'm alone with a woman (check the legality because in most states it is completely legal but not all)