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I noticed that in my dance classes, the hottest girls are usually aloof. But all the other girls are very friendly with me as much as being flirty with me no problem. When I talk to the typical 'prettiest in class' girls, they're usually aloof and non-chalant with me.
For example, I was dancing salsa, and this one particular girl was very aloof last class. So I just assumed she wasn't interested. I waved hi to her and her friend today (just being friendly to everyone) and she waved back. When it was her and my turn to dance, she started a conversation "Did you seriously take an Uber for a 5 minute walk today? I saw you! )" to which I just kind of smiled as in 'oh you caught me' but kind of played it aloof. (She also caught me off-guard because I thought she'd be aloof again)
Then, as we're going in circle, I comeback to her. This time I was bit more fun and upbeat because of dancing with other partners and vibing with them. This time she was back to her being reserved and aloof again with minimal responses.
I was trying to leader in Bachata steps we learned and made a mistake in order to which she goes "Aren't we supposed to go side to side?" "Let's move side to side". A little cold and her femininity dissappearing.
Another example is that I was in a dance class and the teacher had us divide into groups of whether we were the oldest or the youngest. After sharing some stories, 'the queen beauty' type of girl says she has 4 sibling and one brother. Immediately I go 'oof, I feel the pain for your brother'. I can tell she wasn't used to being treated that way because she responded by just looking at me with a queen-no expression- type of look. But I stayed unfazed and just asked her 'hows your relationship with your bro' which she answered 'not that great'. Staying aloof but ill catch her observing me when I'm talking to other people in class.
It's also kind of weird, because I'll see them watching me and staring at me at times. And I'll see moments where they're curious.
This is just an example but I noticed this pattern with girls that are the hottest in other classes as well. They are very aloof with me which makes me think they're not interested or think they're better but at the same time I catch them looking at times or just observing me.
Any ideas?
For example, I was dancing salsa, and this one particular girl was very aloof last class. So I just assumed she wasn't interested. I waved hi to her and her friend today (just being friendly to everyone) and she waved back. When it was her and my turn to dance, she started a conversation "Did you seriously take an Uber for a 5 minute walk today? I saw you! )" to which I just kind of smiled as in 'oh you caught me' but kind of played it aloof. (She also caught me off-guard because I thought she'd be aloof again)
Then, as we're going in circle, I comeback to her. This time I was bit more fun and upbeat because of dancing with other partners and vibing with them. This time she was back to her being reserved and aloof again with minimal responses.
I was trying to leader in Bachata steps we learned and made a mistake in order to which she goes "Aren't we supposed to go side to side?" "Let's move side to side". A little cold and her femininity dissappearing.
Another example is that I was in a dance class and the teacher had us divide into groups of whether we were the oldest or the youngest. After sharing some stories, 'the queen beauty' type of girl says she has 4 sibling and one brother. Immediately I go 'oof, I feel the pain for your brother'. I can tell she wasn't used to being treated that way because she responded by just looking at me with a queen-no expression- type of look. But I stayed unfazed and just asked her 'hows your relationship with your bro' which she answered 'not that great'. Staying aloof but ill catch her observing me when I'm talking to other people in class.
It's also kind of weird, because I'll see them watching me and staring at me at times. And I'll see moments where they're curious.
This is just an example but I noticed this pattern with girls that are the hottest in other classes as well. They are very aloof with me which makes me think they're not interested or think they're better but at the same time I catch them looking at times or just observing me.
Any ideas?
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