- Joined
- Dec 1, 2019
- Messages
- 21
This particular topic on my mind as I just had a girl over an hour ago.
We fucked and I came twice. She getting dressed about to leave and she's talking about meeting again. Only thing on my mind is for her to leave so I can shower and brush my teeth. I dislike the smell/taste of sex after. She kept asking me if I enjoyed myself. It's happened before. I'm definitely giving off a cold vibe girls picking up on. Not just after sex but during sex too. I'm not sure how to "fix" that. I'm only genuinely interested when I'm horny. And once I've had sex with them already I don't get as turned on by them. I've already had them.
As such most girls auto-reject because I lack the desire to keep something going with them. Only the less needy and entitled that require little maintenance can keep me around. Eventually those girls start demanding more from me and I end it. The reason I bring this up is I don't understand why I'm like that. I see other men who can easily keep women around because they genuinely enjoy being around their girls so It's very natural for them. I start feeling claustrophobic when I'm around the same person more than a couple times or too often.
I've seen other men like me who manage to stay motivated with girls because they seem to enjoy the process of building a relationship. I can only stay motivated if I see something else they can provide for me like status in a social circle or if I see an opportunity for them to help me someway; like I had this girl give me her psychology books so I didn't have to buy them for school.
I sincerely doubt anyone can help me but I'm open and curious about any advice someone has for me. Eventually I want to have kids and I want them to have a mother I don't have to pretend to give 2 shits about.
Or, instead of trying to change should I instead find a woman who can work with someone like me? A girl like that is popping up in my head right now. That seems like an infinitely better idea. I can't believe I just thought about that now. Yeah. For long-term I need me a girl who won't demand anything from me and won't bitch when I exercise my freedom. I've had cute girls like that. Certainly not top-tier looks. I'm not sure I could find a girl with that personality and top-tier looks. Unless I can turn her over time. Give her children and slowly get her used to my increased disinterest and at that point she'll be too invested to do anything about it. A lot of marriages be like that don't they?
I'm just thinking out loud right now. I need a plan, though. I want offspring with good genes.
We fucked and I came twice. She getting dressed about to leave and she's talking about meeting again. Only thing on my mind is for her to leave so I can shower and brush my teeth. I dislike the smell/taste of sex after. She kept asking me if I enjoyed myself. It's happened before. I'm definitely giving off a cold vibe girls picking up on. Not just after sex but during sex too. I'm not sure how to "fix" that. I'm only genuinely interested when I'm horny. And once I've had sex with them already I don't get as turned on by them. I've already had them.
As such most girls auto-reject because I lack the desire to keep something going with them. Only the less needy and entitled that require little maintenance can keep me around. Eventually those girls start demanding more from me and I end it. The reason I bring this up is I don't understand why I'm like that. I see other men who can easily keep women around because they genuinely enjoy being around their girls so It's very natural for them. I start feeling claustrophobic when I'm around the same person more than a couple times or too often.
I've seen other men like me who manage to stay motivated with girls because they seem to enjoy the process of building a relationship. I can only stay motivated if I see something else they can provide for me like status in a social circle or if I see an opportunity for them to help me someway; like I had this girl give me her psychology books so I didn't have to buy them for school.
I sincerely doubt anyone can help me but I'm open and curious about any advice someone has for me. Eventually I want to have kids and I want them to have a mother I don't have to pretend to give 2 shits about.
Or, instead of trying to change should I instead find a woman who can work with someone like me? A girl like that is popping up in my head right now. That seems like an infinitely better idea. I can't believe I just thought about that now. Yeah. For long-term I need me a girl who won't demand anything from me and won't bitch when I exercise my freedom. I've had cute girls like that. Certainly not top-tier looks. I'm not sure I could find a girl with that personality and top-tier looks. Unless I can turn her over time. Give her children and slowly get her used to my increased disinterest and at that point she'll be too invested to do anything about it. A lot of marriages be like that don't they?
I'm just thinking out loud right now. I need a plan, though. I want offspring with good genes.
