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tl;dr: I’m going to a pre-party with two targets and I don’t want any of them to go into auto-rejection
Hi i’ve been reading you guys since 2014 when I was only 16 (I’m 23 now), I always try to read all the posts guys like @Skills and many others make because I find them useful and entertaining.
So next Saturday it’s Halloween and thanks to being kinda famous in my country I became friends with the owner/organizer of a big party (5k+ people) who happens to be a big fan of what I do.
I know this is a numbers game so I invited a couple of girls to a pre-party (for no more than 15-20 people) which is in a friend’s house, really close to the big party. I assumed not all of them would end up coming
A girl I kissed closed has confirmed she will come with a girl friend and two male guys (totally inoffensive, they are fans of mine as well, they just use them for the ride to the party and back home..). This girl said that if i wasn’t cool with the dudes she could come with her girl friend just the two of them. But I said no, why? Because if I can’t find someone for her girl friend, she could cock block me. However, if their friends go, the friend could leave with the other two guys and leave me alone with my target. So I invited the guys as well.
By the way, I only saw my target in two parties, one she invited me to, and another one I invited her to. I was never able to take her home, but she texts me every - single - night out. I believe she’s too young and doesn’t feel comfortable coming to my place yet, but she told me she wants to go to the movies with me to watch one specific movie, so I think she just wants to go on a couple of nights out / dates before finally sleeping with me. She seems like LTR material so I’m fine with it. So far, so good.
But another girl has told me today she would come to the pre party. This girl is young as well. I saw her only once, she was in her house with a friend and I was in a club with a friend. Initially we were going on a double-date, but her friend fell asleep, so it was only me and my girl. I picked her up at 3 am and almost all bars were closed, so I ended up taking her home directly, we smoked a bit and had sex. I fucked up when i came, because I took off my condom and came on her belly, and she thought I wasn’t wearing one.. it took me a while to find where i threw it so she had her doubts.
Anyway she really enjoyed our time despite this and got really interested (she even said she was in love lol). But then i fucked up again following her on instagram… because my ex saw it (I broke up 2 months ago..) and she started texting this girl shit about me. That’s when i blocked my ex for good, and told this girl that we could talk in person if she had any questions. This was like 18 days ago, we continued texting, etc but never met again.. she became more flaky but said she wanted to go to a party with me for halloween (she even mentioned we could match our costumes, but no way lol).
Earlier this morning she texted me and said she got blood tested and she was clean (i don’t know if she got tested for STDs though or for something related to anorexia, she’s too skinny..) and she confirmed she would come to the pre party (i thought she would flake again lol, anyway she COULD still flake, but she seemed really hooked so it was probably my ex getting into her head + doubts about the condom, probably she’s fine now that she got tested). This girl is coming with two girl friends and she even told me “i’m coming with two friends, so find a couple of guys for them too..”. Her friends are really good looking so my friends will be happy lol
Anyway my question is:
How can I escalate with both of my targets without any of them going into auto-rejection? I know for sure the first one won’t try to kiss me in front of other people unless I make a move, but I don’t know about the second one…
Another thing is - in the big party I will probably go on stage with the dj (not for a show, just behind him with 15~ other VIPs).. i could take one girl with me there, but of course not both, at least at the same time. It will be a demonstration of high value though so i want to do it, maybe i should go with one first and with the other one later.. hoping they don’t see me or something
I’m 80% sure the first one will not want to come home after the big party, and the second one will.. but i still want to escalate with both, so I can go on a date with the first one later.. and well of course I have to escalate on the one I want to sleep later that night..
I could be just friendly with both of them in the pre-party and not kiss unless I isolate them, or just to be sure not escalate at all and leave it for the big party where I can isolate them better..
Another thing I thought about is not escalating at all with any of them, and just doing verbals + eye contact.. i remember on nextasf there was a guy called ijjji or something like that, who said he just let the tension raise and then escalated in the bedroom.. I can do that for the girl I want to take home, but I still have to at least kiss the other one or I will probably not get a date later..
Anyway, how would you handle it?
Hi i’ve been reading you guys since 2014 when I was only 16 (I’m 23 now), I always try to read all the posts guys like @Skills and many others make because I find them useful and entertaining.
So next Saturday it’s Halloween and thanks to being kinda famous in my country I became friends with the owner/organizer of a big party (5k+ people) who happens to be a big fan of what I do.
I know this is a numbers game so I invited a couple of girls to a pre-party (for no more than 15-20 people) which is in a friend’s house, really close to the big party. I assumed not all of them would end up coming
A girl I kissed closed has confirmed she will come with a girl friend and two male guys (totally inoffensive, they are fans of mine as well, they just use them for the ride to the party and back home..). This girl said that if i wasn’t cool with the dudes she could come with her girl friend just the two of them. But I said no, why? Because if I can’t find someone for her girl friend, she could cock block me. However, if their friends go, the friend could leave with the other two guys and leave me alone with my target. So I invited the guys as well.
By the way, I only saw my target in two parties, one she invited me to, and another one I invited her to. I was never able to take her home, but she texts me every - single - night out. I believe she’s too young and doesn’t feel comfortable coming to my place yet, but she told me she wants to go to the movies with me to watch one specific movie, so I think she just wants to go on a couple of nights out / dates before finally sleeping with me. She seems like LTR material so I’m fine with it. So far, so good.
But another girl has told me today she would come to the pre party. This girl is young as well. I saw her only once, she was in her house with a friend and I was in a club with a friend. Initially we were going on a double-date, but her friend fell asleep, so it was only me and my girl. I picked her up at 3 am and almost all bars were closed, so I ended up taking her home directly, we smoked a bit and had sex. I fucked up when i came, because I took off my condom and came on her belly, and she thought I wasn’t wearing one.. it took me a while to find where i threw it so she had her doubts.
Anyway she really enjoyed our time despite this and got really interested (she even said she was in love lol). But then i fucked up again following her on instagram… because my ex saw it (I broke up 2 months ago..) and she started texting this girl shit about me. That’s when i blocked my ex for good, and told this girl that we could talk in person if she had any questions. This was like 18 days ago, we continued texting, etc but never met again.. she became more flaky but said she wanted to go to a party with me for halloween (she even mentioned we could match our costumes, but no way lol).
Earlier this morning she texted me and said she got blood tested and she was clean (i don’t know if she got tested for STDs though or for something related to anorexia, she’s too skinny..) and she confirmed she would come to the pre party (i thought she would flake again lol, anyway she COULD still flake, but she seemed really hooked so it was probably my ex getting into her head + doubts about the condom, probably she’s fine now that she got tested). This girl is coming with two girl friends and she even told me “i’m coming with two friends, so find a couple of guys for them too..”. Her friends are really good looking so my friends will be happy lol
Anyway my question is:
How can I escalate with both of my targets without any of them going into auto-rejection? I know for sure the first one won’t try to kiss me in front of other people unless I make a move, but I don’t know about the second one…
Another thing is - in the big party I will probably go on stage with the dj (not for a show, just behind him with 15~ other VIPs).. i could take one girl with me there, but of course not both, at least at the same time. It will be a demonstration of high value though so i want to do it, maybe i should go with one first and with the other one later.. hoping they don’t see me or something
I’m 80% sure the first one will not want to come home after the big party, and the second one will.. but i still want to escalate with both, so I can go on a date with the first one later.. and well of course I have to escalate on the one I want to sleep later that night..
I could be just friendly with both of them in the pre-party and not kiss unless I isolate them, or just to be sure not escalate at all and leave it for the big party where I can isolate them better..
Another thing I thought about is not escalating at all with any of them, and just doing verbals + eye contact.. i remember on nextasf there was a guy called ijjji or something like that, who said he just let the tension raise and then escalated in the bedroom.. I can do that for the girl I want to take home, but I still have to at least kiss the other one or I will probably not get a date later..
Anyway, how would you handle it?
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