Hi guys and girls,
In the endless quest for self-improvement, have you ever reached a point where you weren't sure what to work on next? Not because you think you're perfect or even maxed-out -- hardly. Just because you want to know what aspects of yourself will result in the highest "return on investment" so to speak from attention and development.
When someone is a beginner, the first challenge is to learn the fundamentals, and for a long time, it's very obvious where the weaknesses are. If you start strength training or body building for the first time in your life, you first have to learn the basics of diet, form, mechanics, etc, and for the first year or two it's very obvious what the weakest areas are, and they usually respond to training the best. Or when you learn a new instrument, once you get the basic fundamentals down, it takes a while to be able to play a wide range of basic sounds/techniques proficiently.
But eventually you reach a point where it's not so obvious. One day you look at yourself in the mirror or listen to yourself play and you know you have plenty of room for improvement, but you're not exactly sure what to train or practice.
Today I want to get your suggestions for ways to address this question in regards to overall attractiveness/appeal to women, including male fundamentals, personality/mindsets, game, lifestyle/logistics, etc. In my mind, the question has three components:
Let me know what you all think.
In the endless quest for self-improvement, have you ever reached a point where you weren't sure what to work on next? Not because you think you're perfect or even maxed-out -- hardly. Just because you want to know what aspects of yourself will result in the highest "return on investment" so to speak from attention and development.
When someone is a beginner, the first challenge is to learn the fundamentals, and for a long time, it's very obvious where the weaknesses are. If you start strength training or body building for the first time in your life, you first have to learn the basics of diet, form, mechanics, etc, and for the first year or two it's very obvious what the weakest areas are, and they usually respond to training the best. Or when you learn a new instrument, once you get the basic fundamentals down, it takes a while to be able to play a wide range of basic sounds/techniques proficiently.
But eventually you reach a point where it's not so obvious. One day you look at yourself in the mirror or listen to yourself play and you know you have plenty of room for improvement, but you're not exactly sure what to train or practice.
Today I want to get your suggestions for ways to address this question in regards to overall attractiveness/appeal to women, including male fundamentals, personality/mindsets, game, lifestyle/logistics, etc. In my mind, the question has three components:
- Understanding what the short term + long term goals are with women and what women want (or what is most likely to achieve those goals)
- Objectively evaluating one's own position, strengths, and weaknesses, and identifying where the bottlenecks / weak links are in relation to the goals
- Taking those bottlenecks / weak links and figuring out which are most likely to respond to training / development
Let me know what you all think.