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Q: Is it possible to permanently get a bigger dick?
A: Yes, contrary to what everyone tells you, ChatGPT, Google, men's health books, porn stars and even "sexperts," it's possible to permanently grow your dick, both your girth and length.
Q: How come I haven't heard of this? Are you going to ask for my credit card, install virus on my computer.... are you going to steal my organs?
A: Relax. No. I get it, ever since the dawn of man, guys have been wanting to get a bigger dick. Same with seducing women. Just because so few people know how to actually pick up girls, doesn't mean it's not real.
Q: By how much can you increase your dick?
A: Realistically, I'd say you can reap 1.5 - 2.5 cm in length (0.59 - 0.98 inches) and 0.75 - 1.75 cm in girth (0.30 - 0.69 inches) and from newbie gains alone, that would be, within around a year. The gains is much like bodybuilding as there is a period of newbie gains the first 6-12 months, and from there, diminishing returns.
Of course, it's possible to go beyond that, and some people with enough determination has added twice that and more.
Q: I'm skeptical. This has to be dangerous.
A: As you should. So let me tell you what convinced me.
I first came across this by reading Stirling Coopers "How I grew my Penis and Other Porn Industry Secrets."
Stirling has been a working porn actor for some years, and he started out with a 13 cm length, and at the time of writing the book, over the course of some years, he had gained 3 cm to his dick. What was convincing was that this documented as his dick could be seen in a porn video at 13 cm at some point, and 16 cm at another.
I later discussed this with a close friend of mine, and coincidentally, he told me that he had recently started it and he told me he had seen gains in a short period of time and better erection quality. He told me about his friend who had been doing it for years and had gained size as well.
Now I was really interested and I ordered my first penis pump --- the bathmate.
I searched online for information and found that Derek from More Plates more Dates had made a video and articles about penis pumps, claiming they worked. Further, there are online communities dedicated to penis enlargement, the one I recommend is: https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/ where the most up to date methods are recommended. The admin of the forum has made videos and revealed his face, showing proof he has increased the length of his dick from 16cm to 20cm+, and obviously massive girth gains.
Finally, I can say from personal experience that my dick has grown in size, most notably girth, but also length. Erection quality and the feeling during sex has become better --- I experience having stronger orgasms too now during sex, which is probably due to this (though I started kegels during the same time, so I might be confusing what to credit).
Q: Are the gains truly permanent?
A: If you stop completely, expect to keep 70% of all your gains permanently. The common trope is that it requires 1x session a week to maintain what you have.
Q: How do I do it?
A: There are many tools and methods to do it, depending on what you prioritize, whether it's size, girth, E.Q, etc.
The simplest way to get started is to buy yourself a penis pump -- I chose Bathmate, simply because it's the brand Stirling Cooper, my friend and Derek used and thus a safe choice. Bathmate is sort of hushed in the /r/gettingbiger community because the Bathmate company ruined the objectivity of earlier communities by paying people to promote it.
Buy the smallest penis pump that will fit you dick, like the HydroMax 5 or 7, and when you eventually get comfortable using a penis pump and get advanced, you can move on to Hydro7Extreme for greater pressure and potential for growth.
To use a penis pump, the first couple of months is just getting a feel for it. Enter semi-erect or flacid and try pumping, when in doubt, always maintain less pressure than more. When you start to get comfortable using it, you can start entering it sometimes fully erect, but it will be easy to apply too much pressure .The no pain, no gain mentality should be thrown off the window. There's no glory in hurting your dick. Those who go far are those who tread slowly.
The standard recommended routine is 3 sets of 5 minutes with 3 minutes of rest in between. Don't pump more than 15 minutes a day.
I usually do maybe 1 set or 2 sets of slightly longer than 5 minutes out of sheer laziness. I keep it on after I shower while I do my bathroom routine.
Expect pain and not working well in the beginning. This was unusually a long time, but I didn't really get much out of my bathmate for a couple months of regular use -- I thought i was doing it wrong, but I just needed to adapt.
Bonus tip: I really like penis pumps because they are uniquely useful in that they improve both birth, length and erection quality and possibly even orgasm quality. And right after use it makes your penis much bigger, sort of like a post-workout pump, which is motivating to continue. It's also amazing to use pre-sex.
To focus on length, you can use static stretchers, like SizeGenetics, that basically hold the penis in a stretched position for a long period of time, several hours a day. You also have manual exercises such as modified jelqing, which includes stretching the penis creating micro tears. You also have clamps for girth. The way clamps work is that they restrict bloodflower to the penis, and any tissue that "experiences'' lack of blood flow, will increase vascularity in adaption, to hold more blood in case it experiences lack of blood flow again, at least, that's the leading theory.
In all of these, I want to emphasize that penis enlargement is a marathon not a sprint, and it's never a good idea to use a "no pain no gain'' mentality here. Always be careful and aim for steady slow progress. Jelqing in particular is notorious for being hurtful, there's something called modified jelqing that addresses the health concerns and is considered the new norm. I always recommend beginner trainees at the gym to start off with machines, because the focus is on getting newbie gains and don't get intimated by the overwhelming techniques of free weights, which might be hurtful if done incorrectly. The most important thing is to get a routine going same principle with penis enlargement, thus, I think a penis pump is a perfect place to start. When you delve into the internet, you can get overwhelmed and you read guides that have you buy hundreds of different things from eBay and amazon and then in a massive DYI torture chamber project as if you're in a Home Alone movie, create crazy looking contractions. So, don't be scared away from it, start with a commercial product, and customize as needed after a while.
Q: Penis size doesn't matter!
A: It's not really a question, more like a knee-jerk reaction. But ok. If you're happy with your penis size and or cringe at the idea of ordering male enhancement tools in your mailbox and strapping a pump toy onto your cock in the shower, I'd still recommend doing it because the penis pump can increase sensitivity of the penis gland, thus more pleasure during sex, and also improve orgasms. The way penis pump works is that it works the inner tissue strength of the penis, increasing your erection quality and your penis just feels better. If you just want a bigger dick for vain and glory, that's fine too.
As for the women...
If you read the testimonials of guys who have increased the size of their dicks, they all write things like "My wife screams now during sex, she haven't done that before." etc.
My personal opinion is that size does matter, but it's trivial compared to the psychology of sex. Talking to girlfriends, girls I've dated, and friend girls, I've come from a strong impression that size matters. A friendzone girl told me she dumped a guy because of his dick size, and she was telling me about this one guy's dick who she loved so much, she even showed me a picture of it. lol.
Having said that, the saying "it's how you use it that matters'' is sort of valid, but doesn't address the core issue, because it implies what matters in sex is the physical stimulation. I would say that a man with an average size dick who masters the psychological aspects of sex will out-fuck any guy with a Herculean dick who has only mastered the art of using it physically.
If you have a small penis now you could still be better than most guys in bed because what sex boils down to is the psychological. If penis size makes you self conscious and insecure during sex, and if getting a bigger one means you'll be more at ease, I'd say it will definitely improve sexual enjoyment for both of you. In some cases changing your appearance does change your confidence, but other times the self esteem issues are more deeper seated. And with deep seated self esteem issues, fixing one part of your body dysmorphia is just playing whack-a-mole with your deeper insecurities. Focusing too much on your dick size might even make it worse, because you're taking yourself too seriously, whereas learning to not take yourself seriously is a far better route, to be able to laugh during sex and have fun, because to enjoy yourself, which means having fun, is really what sex is primarily about.
Penis enlargement is just an interesting mini-hobby for me - and shouldn't be taken so seriously. If you think dick size is the alpha-omega of sex you're seriously confused - BUT! it gives you an edge for sexual pleasure - personally I love getting compliments for my equipment - I enjoy sex more - I like the dominating feeling she think it's going in too deep, etc. - and it's pretty fun to see progress, especially on something everyone believes isn't possible.
Q: What is the ideal penis size?
A: Normally, 15 cm (5.9 inches)in length would be enough to hit all the "spots", depending on your compatibility of both of your anatomies. Having said that, clever use of positioning can bypass the anatomical difficulties from size. For example, if you want to hit her cervix with a 15 cm (5.9 inches), doing it from doggy style and her anteriorly tilting her pelvic, will allow you to go much deeper.
While women say that prefer larger than that, up to 19cm (7.5 inches), I believe this reflects their preference for a high-testosterone male, not necessarily the raw physical pleasure that a very long dick tend to offer to the vagina. Again, if you're a confident, virile, high-testosterone male, you're satisfying their desire for when they say they prefer a spear.
Actually, in reality, most women's ideal length is around 16 to 18 cm (6.3 - 7.1 inches), and the ideal girth is somewhere around 14 cm (5.5 inches). Problems usually arise beyond 18 cm, when you will start to crash into cervixes and cause pain, and thus, you have to start becoming far more conscious of how far you go in, with more warmup, and sometimes not even allowing yourself to go balls deep.
I'd take women's preferences with a grain of salt though. I believe the bigger you dick is, the more skillful you have to be to use it right. Especially taking your time for warm up properly. So when women say they don't like too large cocks, it might be because some guy wasn't warming up enough.
A girth above 14 cm (5.5 inches) can also cause discomfort for the woman, make anal hard or even impossible, and cause teethy blowjobs. Above 16 cm (6.2 inches) and you will enter a grey-zone where a woman might have to spend years just to avoid create tears and fractures. Having said that, larger penises (18 cm length +), skillfully used (knowing how to pace yourself, warm her up, move inside of her, etc.), can stimulate women in a positive way, and hit the anterior and posterior fornix zones reliably. The ability to hit a cervix is also useful because you can give a woman a orgasm through cervix stimulation, although this requires a long time of accommodation. Additionally, while it requires skill on your part on managing a big penis, women also become accommodated and their vaginas adjust to it over time, maximum a couple of months. The vagina is a muscle and it becomes more flexible over time. Don't worry about alpha-widowing her, she increased elasticity is temporary, though I think she will suffer some lack of stimulation from a smaller penis for some time (Though this will buy you some time in a break up situation where she's harder to please). As for the cervix, the woman can get used to cervix stimulation over time, and it can go from painful from pleasurable to inducing orgasms better than any she's ever had.
As for girth, the width of the penis shaft and head so to say, a wider penis adds to the total "area'' of that which is penetrated and adds to the total amount of physical stimulation inside the vagina. A wider penis does add to the physical pleasure a woman experience more reliably than an increase of length (above 15 cm / 5.9 inches), and can make a woman have more and stronger orgasms. I'd say ideal girth would be something around 80\% of the length.
Hope you found this useful.
Mr Variety
A: Yes, contrary to what everyone tells you, ChatGPT, Google, men's health books, porn stars and even "sexperts," it's possible to permanently grow your dick, both your girth and length.
Q: How come I haven't heard of this? Are you going to ask for my credit card, install virus on my computer.... are you going to steal my organs?
A: Relax. No. I get it, ever since the dawn of man, guys have been wanting to get a bigger dick. Same with seducing women. Just because so few people know how to actually pick up girls, doesn't mean it's not real.
Q: By how much can you increase your dick?
A: Realistically, I'd say you can reap 1.5 - 2.5 cm in length (0.59 - 0.98 inches) and 0.75 - 1.75 cm in girth (0.30 - 0.69 inches) and from newbie gains alone, that would be, within around a year. The gains is much like bodybuilding as there is a period of newbie gains the first 6-12 months, and from there, diminishing returns.
Of course, it's possible to go beyond that, and some people with enough determination has added twice that and more.
Q: I'm skeptical. This has to be dangerous.
A: As you should. So let me tell you what convinced me.
I first came across this by reading Stirling Coopers "How I grew my Penis and Other Porn Industry Secrets."
Stirling has been a working porn actor for some years, and he started out with a 13 cm length, and at the time of writing the book, over the course of some years, he had gained 3 cm to his dick. What was convincing was that this documented as his dick could be seen in a porn video at 13 cm at some point, and 16 cm at another.
I later discussed this with a close friend of mine, and coincidentally, he told me that he had recently started it and he told me he had seen gains in a short period of time and better erection quality. He told me about his friend who had been doing it for years and had gained size as well.
Now I was really interested and I ordered my first penis pump --- the bathmate.
I searched online for information and found that Derek from More Plates more Dates had made a video and articles about penis pumps, claiming they worked. Further, there are online communities dedicated to penis enlargement, the one I recommend is: https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/ where the most up to date methods are recommended. The admin of the forum has made videos and revealed his face, showing proof he has increased the length of his dick from 16cm to 20cm+, and obviously massive girth gains.
Finally, I can say from personal experience that my dick has grown in size, most notably girth, but also length. Erection quality and the feeling during sex has become better --- I experience having stronger orgasms too now during sex, which is probably due to this (though I started kegels during the same time, so I might be confusing what to credit).
Q: Are the gains truly permanent?
A: If you stop completely, expect to keep 70% of all your gains permanently. The common trope is that it requires 1x session a week to maintain what you have.
Q: How do I do it?
A: There are many tools and methods to do it, depending on what you prioritize, whether it's size, girth, E.Q, etc.
The simplest way to get started is to buy yourself a penis pump -- I chose Bathmate, simply because it's the brand Stirling Cooper, my friend and Derek used and thus a safe choice. Bathmate is sort of hushed in the /r/gettingbiger community because the Bathmate company ruined the objectivity of earlier communities by paying people to promote it.
Buy the smallest penis pump that will fit you dick, like the HydroMax 5 or 7, and when you eventually get comfortable using a penis pump and get advanced, you can move on to Hydro7Extreme for greater pressure and potential for growth.
To use a penis pump, the first couple of months is just getting a feel for it. Enter semi-erect or flacid and try pumping, when in doubt, always maintain less pressure than more. When you start to get comfortable using it, you can start entering it sometimes fully erect, but it will be easy to apply too much pressure .The no pain, no gain mentality should be thrown off the window. There's no glory in hurting your dick. Those who go far are those who tread slowly.
The standard recommended routine is 3 sets of 5 minutes with 3 minutes of rest in between. Don't pump more than 15 minutes a day.
I usually do maybe 1 set or 2 sets of slightly longer than 5 minutes out of sheer laziness. I keep it on after I shower while I do my bathroom routine.
Expect pain and not working well in the beginning. This was unusually a long time, but I didn't really get much out of my bathmate for a couple months of regular use -- I thought i was doing it wrong, but I just needed to adapt.
Bonus tip: I really like penis pumps because they are uniquely useful in that they improve both birth, length and erection quality and possibly even orgasm quality. And right after use it makes your penis much bigger, sort of like a post-workout pump, which is motivating to continue. It's also amazing to use pre-sex.
To focus on length, you can use static stretchers, like SizeGenetics, that basically hold the penis in a stretched position for a long period of time, several hours a day. You also have manual exercises such as modified jelqing, which includes stretching the penis creating micro tears. You also have clamps for girth. The way clamps work is that they restrict bloodflower to the penis, and any tissue that "experiences'' lack of blood flow, will increase vascularity in adaption, to hold more blood in case it experiences lack of blood flow again, at least, that's the leading theory.
In all of these, I want to emphasize that penis enlargement is a marathon not a sprint, and it's never a good idea to use a "no pain no gain'' mentality here. Always be careful and aim for steady slow progress. Jelqing in particular is notorious for being hurtful, there's something called modified jelqing that addresses the health concerns and is considered the new norm. I always recommend beginner trainees at the gym to start off with machines, because the focus is on getting newbie gains and don't get intimated by the overwhelming techniques of free weights, which might be hurtful if done incorrectly. The most important thing is to get a routine going same principle with penis enlargement, thus, I think a penis pump is a perfect place to start. When you delve into the internet, you can get overwhelmed and you read guides that have you buy hundreds of different things from eBay and amazon and then in a massive DYI torture chamber project as if you're in a Home Alone movie, create crazy looking contractions. So, don't be scared away from it, start with a commercial product, and customize as needed after a while.
Q: Penis size doesn't matter!
A: It's not really a question, more like a knee-jerk reaction. But ok. If you're happy with your penis size and or cringe at the idea of ordering male enhancement tools in your mailbox and strapping a pump toy onto your cock in the shower, I'd still recommend doing it because the penis pump can increase sensitivity of the penis gland, thus more pleasure during sex, and also improve orgasms. The way penis pump works is that it works the inner tissue strength of the penis, increasing your erection quality and your penis just feels better. If you just want a bigger dick for vain and glory, that's fine too.
As for the women...
If you read the testimonials of guys who have increased the size of their dicks, they all write things like "My wife screams now during sex, she haven't done that before." etc.
My personal opinion is that size does matter, but it's trivial compared to the psychology of sex. Talking to girlfriends, girls I've dated, and friend girls, I've come from a strong impression that size matters. A friendzone girl told me she dumped a guy because of his dick size, and she was telling me about this one guy's dick who she loved so much, she even showed me a picture of it. lol.
Having said that, the saying "it's how you use it that matters'' is sort of valid, but doesn't address the core issue, because it implies what matters in sex is the physical stimulation. I would say that a man with an average size dick who masters the psychological aspects of sex will out-fuck any guy with a Herculean dick who has only mastered the art of using it physically.
If you have a small penis now you could still be better than most guys in bed because what sex boils down to is the psychological. If penis size makes you self conscious and insecure during sex, and if getting a bigger one means you'll be more at ease, I'd say it will definitely improve sexual enjoyment for both of you. In some cases changing your appearance does change your confidence, but other times the self esteem issues are more deeper seated. And with deep seated self esteem issues, fixing one part of your body dysmorphia is just playing whack-a-mole with your deeper insecurities. Focusing too much on your dick size might even make it worse, because you're taking yourself too seriously, whereas learning to not take yourself seriously is a far better route, to be able to laugh during sex and have fun, because to enjoy yourself, which means having fun, is really what sex is primarily about.
Penis enlargement is just an interesting mini-hobby for me - and shouldn't be taken so seriously. If you think dick size is the alpha-omega of sex you're seriously confused - BUT! it gives you an edge for sexual pleasure - personally I love getting compliments for my equipment - I enjoy sex more - I like the dominating feeling she think it's going in too deep, etc. - and it's pretty fun to see progress, especially on something everyone believes isn't possible.
Q: What is the ideal penis size?
A: Normally, 15 cm (5.9 inches)in length would be enough to hit all the "spots", depending on your compatibility of both of your anatomies. Having said that, clever use of positioning can bypass the anatomical difficulties from size. For example, if you want to hit her cervix with a 15 cm (5.9 inches), doing it from doggy style and her anteriorly tilting her pelvic, will allow you to go much deeper.
While women say that prefer larger than that, up to 19cm (7.5 inches), I believe this reflects their preference for a high-testosterone male, not necessarily the raw physical pleasure that a very long dick tend to offer to the vagina. Again, if you're a confident, virile, high-testosterone male, you're satisfying their desire for when they say they prefer a spear.
Actually, in reality, most women's ideal length is around 16 to 18 cm (6.3 - 7.1 inches), and the ideal girth is somewhere around 14 cm (5.5 inches). Problems usually arise beyond 18 cm, when you will start to crash into cervixes and cause pain, and thus, you have to start becoming far more conscious of how far you go in, with more warmup, and sometimes not even allowing yourself to go balls deep.
I'd take women's preferences with a grain of salt though. I believe the bigger you dick is, the more skillful you have to be to use it right. Especially taking your time for warm up properly. So when women say they don't like too large cocks, it might be because some guy wasn't warming up enough.
A girth above 14 cm (5.5 inches) can also cause discomfort for the woman, make anal hard or even impossible, and cause teethy blowjobs. Above 16 cm (6.2 inches) and you will enter a grey-zone where a woman might have to spend years just to avoid create tears and fractures. Having said that, larger penises (18 cm length +), skillfully used (knowing how to pace yourself, warm her up, move inside of her, etc.), can stimulate women in a positive way, and hit the anterior and posterior fornix zones reliably. The ability to hit a cervix is also useful because you can give a woman a orgasm through cervix stimulation, although this requires a long time of accommodation. Additionally, while it requires skill on your part on managing a big penis, women also become accommodated and their vaginas adjust to it over time, maximum a couple of months. The vagina is a muscle and it becomes more flexible over time. Don't worry about alpha-widowing her, she increased elasticity is temporary, though I think she will suffer some lack of stimulation from a smaller penis for some time (Though this will buy you some time in a break up situation where she's harder to please). As for the cervix, the woman can get used to cervix stimulation over time, and it can go from painful from pleasurable to inducing orgasms better than any she's ever had.
As for girth, the width of the penis shaft and head so to say, a wider penis adds to the total "area'' of that which is penetrated and adds to the total amount of physical stimulation inside the vagina. A wider penis does add to the physical pleasure a woman experience more reliably than an increase of length (above 15 cm / 5.9 inches), and can make a woman have more and stronger orgasms. I'd say ideal girth would be something around 80\% of the length.
Hope you found this useful.
Mr Variety
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