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Ken

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So far in 2016, I was able to get a few numbers. Last year I couldn't even imagine that, but with hard work and determination, I was able to do it. Most of these numbers basically amounted to nothing. For most of the girls, I sent out the text that Chase suggests to send in his article after meeting a girl for the first time and waiting three hours. Most of the girls never responded. But two did. One turned out to be a fake number and it was a guy on the other side who goes to the same college as me. And the other one was one that I talked about in an earlier thread. I texted her, and she actually responded. She asked, "Can I see a picture of you lol?", and I took an impromptu selfie and sent it to her. Afterwards, she said that she was free Monday (that was sent on April 30). I set up a date after that, but changed it and told her to come to my house. She didn't respond.

What I am asking here is, are any of these numbers salvageable? And in the future, what can I do to make girls respond to my texts more? And a bonus, how to ask them for nudes?
 

MichaelGScott

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If a girl has to ask for a pic of you, unless you're Ryan Gosling, you shouldn't be attempting to get them to your house on a first date. Maybe after a first date somewhere public lol. I did manage to meet a girl after she'd forgotten who I was, and I didn't even need to send her a pic. This is my go to for trying to salvage lost contacts: "There's an app that records how many calories you burn while having sex". I'd say a 50% success rate for a response for lost contacts.

Chase has articles on both the questions you're asking. Don't try to be cute or funny in your texts, be straight forward and to the point. It took me a while to leave the incredibly Witty and funny interesting guy texting stage. A good rule of thumb, if it doesn't lead to advancing your relationship with her, you shouldn't be texting about it. Go read the article about nudes.
 
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