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How long have you been actively cold approaching new women?
I've been in the game for a year and 9 months and am just now starting to see more consistency in turning numbers into dates.
I know two ways guaranteed to not have a girl flake on you:
1. Don't meet any new women
2. Go on an instant date and fuck her the same day you meet her (most of my lays have been this route thus far)
Most of the time when guys get a number, when they start out, it's like the girls just giving you a little "dog treat" out of pity, or to get you to fuck off, or because she liked that you were confident but doesn't want to fuck you so its easier to just give the # out and flake.
Don't take it personally just keep meeting new women the results will come when they come.
-Rob
I've been in the game for a year and 9 months and am just now starting to see more consistency in turning numbers into dates.
I know two ways guaranteed to not have a girl flake on you:
1. Don't meet any new women
2. Go on an instant date and fuck her the same day you meet her (most of my lays have been this route thus far)
Most of the time when guys get a number, when they start out, it's like the girls just giving you a little "dog treat" out of pity, or to get you to fuck off, or because she liked that you were confident but doesn't want to fuck you so its easier to just give the # out and flake.
Don't take it personally just keep meeting new women the results will come when they come.
-Rob
Mr.Rob said:
I've been approaching for a year and some change. I just don't approach a whole lot it takes alot of me to approach. Since were the same with time in the game. How much do you approach, when did you get past the barrier of getting same day lays, and how do i stop getting pity numbers? Thanks bro.
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Money said:
I approach about 10 girls a week right now but that's cause I'm really busy. This summer I was approaching around 20+ girls a week.
You stop getting pity numbers by stepping it up and getting more "man to woman" instead of "friend to friend". Meaning she knows what you're about (sex).
Also I still get pity #s occasionally, and I still get flakes but there starting to be less and less.
If your not talking to 10+ girls a week then I'd say that's problem numero uno #1 in my uneducated/non expert opinion.
I wouldn't say I had a barrier of same day lays but a barrier to getting a date (day 2) out of a phone number and then having sex. I just broke that barrier last sunday.
questions, comments, concerns welcome
-Rob