So I met this wonderful girl on facebook that I would call my perfect 10. We live in the same neighbourhood, she has a boyfriend but I would like to make her mine but I dont know what to do. We get along well, she likes my tattoos and she also wants to get one. So next week am going to get another tattoo to finish up my quater sleeve on my arm and she wants to go with me at the tattoo parlour. If she manages to get the money this week for her tattoo, we'll probably get our tattoos on the same day (how romantic? Bullshit? Lol). Her BF looks like a nice average guy (plain, no tattoos, no fashion) and am the opposite of her BF (tattoos, good fashion style, pierced ears etc) I look like the edgy bad boy type while her BF looks like a nice guy average type. Any suggestions on how I can get this girl? I'v never gone after a girl with a BF before, I usually give up. But this girl is so Hot I have to give it a try atleast. I think If I keep letting girls with BF's go I'll never get my dream girl,
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Lol.
My first answer is there's other fish in the sea.
My other answer is to go for her like you would another girl, just make sure you're honest with yourself and make sure when you're getting the tattoo that you and her know it's a date. That's gonna come from how you're interacting with her. From what you describe about yourself, I'd go with cocky-funny asshole type behavior. You want to show her you don't give a fuck that she has a boyfriend.
P.S., you're guaranteed to find another girl that blows her out of the water. Stealing guy's girlfriends is a really situational thing for me as it's blown up in my face in the past. I try and avoid it. If you do forge ahead, make sure this is coming from, "this is better for me and her" not, "I want to steal this bitch boy's girlfriend for shits and giggles". It's really not something I try and help out with in detail because it's usually coming from a bad mentality. I know when I did things like this I was in a shitty place mentally.
Do what you have to do to grow, however, good luck man!
Jake.
My first answer is there's other fish in the sea.
My other answer is to go for her like you would another girl, just make sure you're honest with yourself and make sure when you're getting the tattoo that you and her know it's a date. That's gonna come from how you're interacting with her. From what you describe about yourself, I'd go with cocky-funny asshole type behavior. You want to show her you don't give a fuck that she has a boyfriend.
P.S., you're guaranteed to find another girl that blows her out of the water. Stealing guy's girlfriends is a really situational thing for me as it's blown up in my face in the past. I try and avoid it. If you do forge ahead, make sure this is coming from, "this is better for me and her" not, "I want to steal this bitch boy's girlfriend for shits and giggles". It's really not something I try and help out with in detail because it's usually coming from a bad mentality. I know when I did things like this I was in a shitty place mentally.
Do what you have to do to grow, however, good luck man!
Jake.
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Hey Cassy,
So she has a boyfriend. Either the relationship is healthy and on going. In this case she feels she belongs to him, it's going uphill and not worth it to pursue. Or, the relationship is coming towards a natural end. In this case, she is still hanging on to him out of habit, until a fresh opportunity comes up. In this case, it's your job to be her opportunity.
There would be a third case, namely she actually doesn't have a boyfriend but testing your motivation around her by inventing one.
So I would just ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend and proceed. When you're with her, build some sexual tension and try isolating her, then escalate. If you feel unusual resistance, then it's likely the first case, and better to move on to a more available target.
Cheers,
Seppuku
So she has a boyfriend. Either the relationship is healthy and on going. In this case she feels she belongs to him, it's going uphill and not worth it to pursue. Or, the relationship is coming towards a natural end. In this case, she is still hanging on to him out of habit, until a fresh opportunity comes up. In this case, it's your job to be her opportunity.
There would be a third case, namely she actually doesn't have a boyfriend but testing your motivation around her by inventing one.
So I would just ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend and proceed. When you're with her, build some sexual tension and try isolating her, then escalate. If you feel unusual resistance, then it's likely the first case, and better to move on to a more available target.
Cheers,
Seppuku
