How to Get girls at college parties and making female friends...

[Joniman]

Hey everyone

So basically here is my problem when it comes to getting girls in college.

I live in a suite with 9 people, 3 of which are very good looking (no homo) and party a lot and really like me as a friend and want me to go out with them most of the time, which I do, so I have a social life and go out.

Anyways, the problem is how do I get girls at frat parties? Basically I show up with my 3 other friends, which are cool, and sometimes with 3 other girls if they are down to go to a frat party. These girls all have boyfriends and are just very good friends. I would rate them a 8, 8, and a 6.5.

So here are my problems

1) After I go to the frat party, how do I get girls there? I read the 10000 word college guide by HPRJ and the party article by colt, but I don't think direct approach works good at a frat party. How would I go about approaching a random girl that I find hot? I read that I should talk to everyone, but how do I do that? I do drink liquor and get buzzed before.

- Normally, I go with the mindset of having fun and getting girls, but after a while of not knowing what to do, I get shit faced with my three friends.

2) I didn't make a lot of female friends the first month of school, how do I make more female friends that I can take to parties and some to get laid with. I can't join most clubs till next semester. So how do I go about building female friendships with girls esp at parties, since that is where I meet most new male friends.

3) Conversation topics at a frat party with a random girl? When do I lead her and isolate her?

4) I think I am pretty solid looking In terms of facial looks, I am slightly skinny and 5'9. How much do you think looks matter when it comes to getting girls at frat parties? I would rate myself a 7 now and a 9 if I get muscular which I am gradually getting to.

5) How do I get hot girls at frat parties and also general hot dime pieces that don't party that much?

Thank you very much and a thorough response is much appreciated

 

[Fuck This]

For me dancing was always the best way to semi isolate and initiate kino. Some basic Swing backround is pretty applicable, and by leading on the dance floor you demonstrate you are a leader and she should follow. I've had girls tell me it was extremely sexy when I took them by the hand and guided them through the moves. It is a perfect example of compliance.

Use the female friends as dance partners early in the night to make yourself noticed.

Drink but stay in control. Too many guys get blackout drunk and miss the last hours of the party. No girl ever said she slept with a guy because he couldn't hold his liquor....

Don't have high expectations. Today girls have to worry about getting roofied, and Date Rape by guys who don't have game. Understand that especially sorority girls will have a "Safe Sister" making sure that her friends aren't in danger. SNL's can happen but are the exception not the rule. Work on a two date system where you make a good impression at the party and lock in a followup date for the next day.

The exception to this is if there is a girl from one of your classes who you have already developed a level of comfort with. Many times the party and social lubricant of alcohol will be enough to push her ASD off the ledge and hit the sheets.

If you do have a receptive female, don't mack on her and grope her in the middle of the party. Use some discretion. It will save your reputation and hers. Better people Say "hmm Rocky was talking with that hot girl and disappeared the rest of the night" than "Did you see Rocky playing tonsil hockey with that slut from Alpha Phi?"


PS:
Quit obsessing about your looks. Work out because it improves your health and fitness. The confidence you will exude because you are doing it for how it makes you feel is 10x more attractive than the mass and definition you will gain from it. There is no mathematical formula that x % body fat + y pounds of muscle = an increase in numerical looks value....