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My strong points in the past have consisted of being able to interact with strangers and meet new people with ease. My problem has been sometimes committing my time into joining a group and maintaining a powerful social circle. I could never play the social circle game that well until as of late.
Now I have taken the time to write out what kind of girls I am into and so far I have realized that the kinds of girls I love look mostly like this:
http://cdn.fansided.com/wp-content/blog ... y-duke.jpg
The All American kind of look, most likely loves football, will probably be found at a college football game, was probably raised a Christian, and is your typical fun loving kind of girl. Well overtime I have started to see my results increase too. Lately I have decided to try and make myself a part of the world these girls are in but that has resulted in some bad results.
Now the kind of girls like the one shown in the pic can be found in my area but they run in circles that are very cliquish and hard to break into. Some of them are a part of the "redneck" crowd which as a Korean guy I have a tough time breaking into. Others are part of the Greek Life crowd and I am too far along now to join a fraternity so not much luck there. It seems like I can talk to these girls with ease but I cannot make myself a part of their world or their clique. Fortunately college is ending sometime soon and I will get the chance to travel and maybe expand my options with these girls (heard Florida is more laid back) but my worry has been trying to get these girls while having a hard time breaking into their world.
Has anyone had experience with this, if so then what did you do? Also does anyone have knowledge of that particular social world?
Now I have taken the time to write out what kind of girls I am into and so far I have realized that the kinds of girls I love look mostly like this:
http://cdn.fansided.com/wp-content/blog ... y-duke.jpg
The All American kind of look, most likely loves football, will probably be found at a college football game, was probably raised a Christian, and is your typical fun loving kind of girl. Well overtime I have started to see my results increase too. Lately I have decided to try and make myself a part of the world these girls are in but that has resulted in some bad results.
Now the kind of girls like the one shown in the pic can be found in my area but they run in circles that are very cliquish and hard to break into. Some of them are a part of the "redneck" crowd which as a Korean guy I have a tough time breaking into. Others are part of the Greek Life crowd and I am too far along now to join a fraternity so not much luck there. It seems like I can talk to these girls with ease but I cannot make myself a part of their world or their clique. Fortunately college is ending sometime soon and I will get the chance to travel and maybe expand my options with these girls (heard Florida is more laid back) but my worry has been trying to get these girls while having a hard time breaking into their world.
Has anyone had experience with this, if so then what did you do? Also does anyone have knowledge of that particular social world?
