"How to get laid in college" by Hector, what can a virgin senior do?

[fsc]

My mind has always been this way towards things, I think more about them than I should. It's almost like the way I was raised to think, I am just a very analytical kind of guy. I take data, analyze it, and draw conclusions from it.

I'm an Asian studying computer science bro. I'm like 3 classes away from a minor in math, like 3 classes away from a minor in physics, and like 4 away from double-majoring in electrical engineering. So I think I can call myself pretty analytical. But just because your mind has been a certain way doesn't mean you can't reprogram it or that it's gonna stay that way. And it sure as hell won't reprogram itself if you keep thinking the same poisonous crap day after day.

For example, in this situation I see that you are in CA and I know that CA has a lot of latino guys but also a lot of blonde women. Now I should see quite a few latino men with blonde women yet by what you see it is most common to see black men (the smallest population group) with blondes. That makes me see the world in a certain way and in turn that effects how I see myself because I have been mistaken for latino before by latinos.

LOL bro I'm gonna punch you.

After having grown up in the dixie where I was confronted for talking to the kind of women I loved and one time even beaten up for it

That sucks. I guess shit like that may happen where you live. It just comes with the territory I guess. I'd just be more careful from now on and try to prevent bad memories like that from interfering with your progress of creating good memories with hot blondes.

I can't do a thing about my predicament.

I'm gonna punch you in the face for this too. Such a beta male talk.

I also want to thank you for your effort in trying to help me, never have I had people care this much about me.

I love helping people out. I'm glad I helped.

maybe one day we are at a point to where a guy with brown skin and middle eastern facial features who has tight fundamentals and is a quality guy can get the kind of women he desires (hot white girls). I'll be working hard to make myself the best looking and as social as I can be so when that day comes, I am ready.

What if I told you that day is today? Maaaaaaybe not where you live, but like I said, my Arab buddy has been doing pretty well with women here. You can probably be successful where you are too. All you need is a better mindset and improved game.

 

[fsc]

Don't mean to make my comment too racist but I had to share this with you, the thing about most black guys is that they don't have these massive egos that a lot of arabian guys I have been around have. I have also seen that most black guys have this sort of cool factor to them not in the sense of stereotypes but that they aren't heavily judgmental towards everyone. With a lot of black guys I have also found that they will make it clear and move fast with a girl (as Chase says) and aren't too picky about her history. I know a lot of white guys who will not get into a relationship with a girl who has been with a black guy before but I hardly know any black guy who will reject a black girl that has been with a white guy.

If a girl is hot, most black guys will make it clear they like her and try to get with her. It has nothing to do with stereotypes, the thing is that most black guys aren't uber picky and they lack these crazy made up standards that guys of other races have. Most black guys like girls that look good and are down to fuck, it's that simple. Also, black guys don't have these weird preference such as a girl's hair being too dark or too blonde, it's just strictly "she's hot, lets fuck!".

Now with that said, I have seen a lot more latinos with white girls than black guys with white girls especially in my stays in CA so I don't quite know what fsc is getting at there. White girls love latinos and hook up with them regularly, it is so common that most white men don't even care if a Mario Lopez or a Cristiano Ronaldo plows some crazy attractive blonde because White women and Latinos fuck each other a lot. I can't find the statistics for it but White and Latino is the most common interracial relationship there is in the US.

PS: I am a white guy and I have talked to a lot of white girls so I am just going by what they tell me on race. White girls love latinos, if you can pass for a latino I recommend you do so right now.

The thing is, I just never really had my eyes consciously open to try to spot a certain race guy with a certain race girl you know? Because I never really cared too much about who was boning who. Even when I had blondes on a pedestal when I started out, my mentality was "I need to take them off the pedestal and get me a couple of them" rather than "Let's observe the world and see who gets the white girls".

I mean, my eyes will occasionally spot an Asian dude with a girl of another race because I'm Asian, my eyes will spot black guys with white girls because of porn =p, and the only reason why my eyes have spotted Indian guys with white girls was because another user here brought up a similar racial issue with Indian guys and blondes before. But with all other interracial couplings I'm just fairly blind. I honestly can't say I've seen many Latino-white pairs because I've never consciously looked for one. I'll let you know when I see one though.

PS: I also hang out and day game with black guys, so that might add to the reason why I see black-white pairings more frequently. And when I'm out, I'm waaay more focused on spotting a single girl or a group of girls than a couple.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I have family in the Northeast (USA) and I go there quite a lot, have practically fallen in love with the place and gotten familiar with it. Many of the hot blondes you see in NYC are either married to or have been with a Latino guy before and I am talking more along the lines of Mario Lopez, Cristiano Ronaldo, or Jay Hernandez. Now to put things in perspective, these are girls who are spending summers in the Hamptons and come from families that are rich and well off. Now I am a white male with well above average looks and even I have issues getting the kind of girls that these Cristiano Ronaldo lookalikes are landing and these girls are hot and come from privilege.

The biggest mistake on this thread is thinking latinos are in any way similar to arabs or indians, it's not the same thing at all. I have spent time around latinos and arabs, the two do not look alike to me at all. The point I am trying to make is that white girls absolutely love latinos, statistics have shown that they go for them the most when they go interracial, rarely have I talked to a girl who was white and was completely closed off to dating a latino. Let me just put it this way, latino men have absolutely no problems getting white girls or girls of any race for that matter. I haven't spent too much time in Los Angeles (have in other parts of CA though) so I wouldn't be surprised if you rarely saw latinos going interracial there but for other parts of CA I can say that it is true.

 

[Inferno]

could you study abroad,
get out of the country
and go somewhere like spain or london, and talk to girls there
Maybe the culture change could help you shift para-dimes and pull hoes in foreign countries.
Then come to america and try to step your american game up.

 

[ray_zorse]

Haha I've already suggested that, it's pointless man, what will be will be... only solution is for OP to read the site and get approaching, but no-one can do that for OP...

I can't help thinking of the articles that explain how females lead by emotion e.g. "I have work tomorrow" -> translation "I don't feel like hanging out with you now"... here it's OP not wanting to approach (or not wanting to fix his inner game) and coming up with post-facto justifications to logically "explain" this emotion.

The way to handle these kinds of situations is to ignore the top layer of logical bullshit, and address the underlying emotion. I'll illustrate this with an example from this week

I met my mistress (whom I refer to as Sam #1) to attend a Christmas party at a local bar, which we bought tickets for last month. She sat outside with me in the middle part of the night explaining that our relationship wasn't working for her and she was breaking up with me, with a fair bit of logical bullshit about improving her marriage, being upset there are rumours about us, etc... translation "I feel that I am not important to you and that you are not paying me enough attention, so I'm going to try to cause a drama so that you can demonstrate you care about me by buying into the drama and discussing all this bullshit ad infinitum"... I said sure, whatever works for her... then for the next hour or so I was at pains to outline to her that she is extremely important to me (and she is)... and that I would like to see her improve her marriage and whatnot, but that I'd be around to support her provided it was compatible with my routine and my life goals (this has never changed).

So, at the end of the night, gave her some plausible deniability that we are going to get food before taking her home, despite her protests of going home to hubby as it was late... I find it totally ludicrous that a woman in her 40s would require plausible deniability but plausible deniability works and should always be used... even if it was pretty transparent, by the time she agreed and we had hailed a taxi I asked her if they have vegetarian wraps at McDonalds that she could eat and she said "whatever" so I simply took her home and fucked her.

Anyway the details aren't important but the key point was addressing her emotion of feeling I didn't care about her and she wasn't important to me. That's all it took. With OP I wouldn't buy into all the detailed dramas, the underlying emotion is very simple.

cheers, Ray