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- Feb 5, 2014
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So she broke up with me last September. Nothing bad happened it was the distance that drove us apart. She graduated and I am still in high school and we weren't able to see each other as much as we use to. Since we broke up I've talked to other girls put some to bed, but I still have very strong feelings for my ex also I didn't have sex with her (even though we dated for a year) so that's something I want to accomplish. But She got a new boyfriend like november last year and now they are they have been having troubles. I've been there for her and I'm afraid I've put myself in the "best friend zone" by being there for her and offering her moral support and stuff. A couple of day ago I talked to her about how I really felt about her, which I believe was a bad idea. I also told her I didn't want to talk to her until she was ready to try our relationship out again (fyi im going to the college she is going to). From then I saw an effort from her to maintain the line of communication because she's usually not that expressive and doesn't show any sign of chasing whatsoever. Since I told her I didn't want to talk to her we have still been talking. The hard thing about reestablishing attraction is that there is no rapport to establish we know each other extremely well, once in a while we have really good playful conversations in which I can sense some attraction from her. Other times she's curt and I feel like she's talking to me just to have something to do. I'm not how to talk to her without being blatantly sexual or forward but still promote myself in that respect.
