How to get the girl back

[thebrazilianguy]

Hi, guys! I really need some help with a girl i want to get back. Here goes the story:

We were on the same class at high school, she started giving me positive signs, we began to talk, went out a few times, made out and all(no sex). I fell in love with her, and told her so, to which she told me she felt the same way, and that her parents wanted to meet me. This happened about three weeks ago. The classes ended and she got a job, so we had no time together and got to talk very little because i was at work and so was she. I began to perceive she was losing interest, and immediately tried to set up a meeting, but she was busy. We scheduled it for this saturday.

My plan was to tell her i wanted to end things because it was not going well, and with this, make her realize she was losing me and start turning things around. Thing is: my ex and i are friends and i talked about this girl with her(don't judge me). My ex tried to kill herself this new year, but first decided to do a "good deed" and told the girl i'm with that i liked her a lot, but was afraid of her not liking me back. My ex also asked the girl if she liked me as a possible boyfriend. Needless to say, the girl got really scared, but said nothing to me. I was in a bad state, both mentally and phisically, got desperate and asked her: "we're over, are we not?" to which she responded "i'll be honest, yes". I asked why and she told me she wanted to be alone. I asked if we were still gonna meet this saturday so i could say what i wanted to say in the first place, and she told me yes, if i wanted to.

So that is my story. Is there any way i could turn this around? I'm experienced enough to know the best path would be to forget her and move on, but i just don't wanna do that. Hope someone can help me, thanks in advance.
Greetings from Brazil!

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Sup dude!

Ya not gonna turn this one round meeting her this saturday to tell her ya leaving her cause its not working yah? Shes already left! Getting desperate and asking for confirmation if its over isnt attractive and if ya werent done before ya were with that. Respect = LOST. Harsh? yah? True? Yah!

Again asking if she is still good to meet ya looks kinda needy and unless ya got something very very bold where ya can win her over and resurrect it ya got no chance dude. Not just yet. Read the article on how ta get ya girl back, basically ya gotta cut ties yah? Go no contact and let her wait, chasing and begging isnt gonna work for ya yah?

The only way this works otherwise is if she wanted further commitment from ya, but then ya got to be smooth when ya meet. If ya still gonna meet her as not to cancel plans do it but keep ya distance. Dont encourage her bad behaviour! she needs to know that shes loosing ya and if she wants ya she aint putting ya in the friend zone ya hear?! Feel her out and watch how she responds but ultimately dont care!! Ya got to be aloof and make her wonder does he still like me? Does he still want me? She'll test ya but don't break! Again think about what ya gonna say cause ya cant tell her its over, thats obvious! Best of luck dude!