How to go about fixing issues that you caused.

[Garmin]

Hi Gents,

Its definitely been a while, and I would like to first thank everyone for all their posts and advice, my life has truly been transformed and I feel like I am becoming the man that I know I have always been. That being said, through the process, I have made a lot of mistakes, hurt a lot of people, and lost a great deal of fantastic friends and women. I was wondering if anybody experienced similar things where through the process you made mistakes that you know you had to make to learn and it caused others a great deal of pain, and how you handled the situation, I could say I'm sorry and all that but in the end, those are just words, and I have already done that. What else can I do?

These are people that are not vampire or any of that, but genuine loving human beings that I hurt, and I would like to have them in my life. Looking forward to what everyone's experiences have been. Because as I have learned no matter how great of a man you become, you will make mistakes, and hurt those you care about, it is thus your responsibility as this great man to understand how to fix it, so that it does not happen again. Thanks all.


Garmin

 

[EdenSerpent]

There are only two things that matter in the end, and those are pleasure and pain. If you've tried to give pleasure to someone special, but gave pain instead, think of that heartache as a connection regardless. The only people you'll matter to at the end of the day are those who you've affected in these two ways. Now does this mean become a heartless monster? No. Murder? Hell no. You should always aim to provide pleasure into the lives of people you meet, especially those you respect. But inevitably you hurt some feelings along the way. Be unapologetic. If reconnecting is your goal, know that you can't repair a burnt bridge from only one side, you'll fall. Reach out with the intention of giving pleasure. Converse and try to meet. Don't give voice to any wrongdoing on your part! If they are being short with you, be a man and point it out. If they bring it up, offer them the chance to make it up to them by starting again. If you get nowhere, that is a person not worthy of your respect, time, or energy. You can happily leave them to ruminate on what you've left them with, and know that you'll live on in that memory. The only thing you should ever regret is to not have left any impact at all.