So I live at home because it saves me lots of money for college (upwards of 7K a year) so don't try to convince me to move out before I graduate. However this can definitely make it difficult for seduction since most articles and information around here and most locations (especially online game) is centered around how to get her back to your place not how to go to hers. I know there are a couple articles on GC about this topic and I have read them but I am hoping for some individual methods for times in your lives where you've needed to find a way to take a girl to her place and how you accomplished it?
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@Alaric dude! I'm still doing it now, my main place is my car failing that I get creative. This is something you handle while planning logistics you ask where they're from and get the living arrangements. It's always harder to do this as you don't have control of the logistics and this always affects results. (Read my FU report in field reports, bad logistics meant I failed) you need to get yourself a reason to get to hers for plausible deniability, failing this if the logistics are bad get creative.
I'm not sure if this is day game, night game or from a date all of which need slightly different calibration. If you've planned a date it means you need to plan close to her location if it's an option (which gives you less control) or to find good date locations you can get creative. A secluded area where you can walk, a park, somewhere with toilets. You need to plan. You'll have to consider a lot of times you may need day 2s.
What's available? Your logistics are different than mine dude
I'm not sure if this is day game, night game or from a date all of which need slightly different calibration. If you've planned a date it means you need to plan close to her location if it's an option (which gives you less control) or to find good date locations you can get creative. A secluded area where you can walk, a park, somewhere with toilets. You need to plan. You'll have to consider a lot of times you may need day 2s.
What's available? Your logistics are different than mine dude
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Here's a somewhat similar ongoing situation of mine..
A week ago in another town which is 2h from me I met a chick at groceries, talked a bit and grabbed her number to have a few drinks sometime.
Texted her yesterday continuing with the fluffy banter we had going on - she's a bit of wiseass so there's plenty of that going on.
Yesterday
Me and her: Bla bla bla
Me: Up for a drink tomorrow?
She: Man in town?
Me: Will be tomorrow yeah
Me and her: some more wise-ass fluff
She: Where and when?
Me: Around seven in the center. I'll text you the place tomorrow
She: I have a class and won't be ready by seven. 8 or a bit before yes.
Me: Eight will be just fine.
More fluff
Today
Me: Hey! Which direction are you coming from tonight?
She: From Blueberry Heights :| That's why it takes me a while to go home after my class and go back to the center
Me: Ok, let's simplify things a bit and meet at Blueberry or West End. Plus I get to explore some new hoods!
She: Ok that would be really cool! There are a few cool places at West End
So, this is how I sussed out where she lives and just happened to have a golden opportunity to suggest meeting closer to her place. The challenge is that I'm meeting her around eight and I need to decide by nine thirty at the latest if I'm going to stay overnight in this town. Last transport back is ten thirty. A bit of a challenge
Any suggestions how to proceed in this case more than welcome!
And a somewhat theoretical question, when I plan to get her to agree to going to her place, should I be more agressive when it comes to amping the sexual tension and physical escalation vis. casually getting her to come to my place?
A week ago in another town which is 2h from me I met a chick at groceries, talked a bit and grabbed her number to have a few drinks sometime.
Texted her yesterday continuing with the fluffy banter we had going on - she's a bit of wiseass so there's plenty of that going on.
Yesterday
Me and her: Bla bla bla
Me: Up for a drink tomorrow?
She: Man in town?
Me: Will be tomorrow yeah
Me and her: some more wise-ass fluff
She: Where and when?
Me: Around seven in the center. I'll text you the place tomorrow
She: I have a class and won't be ready by seven. 8 or a bit before yes.
Me: Eight will be just fine.
More fluff
Today
Me: Hey! Which direction are you coming from tonight?
She: From Blueberry Heights :| That's why it takes me a while to go home after my class and go back to the center
Me: Ok, let's simplify things a bit and meet at Blueberry or West End. Plus I get to explore some new hoods!
She: Ok that would be really cool! There are a few cool places at West End
So, this is how I sussed out where she lives and just happened to have a golden opportunity to suggest meeting closer to her place. The challenge is that I'm meeting her around eight and I need to decide by nine thirty at the latest if I'm going to stay overnight in this town. Last transport back is ten thirty. A bit of a challenge
Any suggestions how to proceed in this case more than welcome!
And a somewhat theoretical question, when I plan to get her to agree to going to her place, should I be more agressive when it comes to amping the sexual tension and physical escalation vis. casually getting her to come to my place?
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@Alaric Get creative with it as her place might be her parents, room mates,or whatever. I always scout around for roof top views nice and private shag her from behind so both can enjoy the view. I always liked a water view at a lake or river, the park in a secluded area, the possibilities are endless. Make sure to bring the sanitary wipes for after. Pack the refreshments also a picnic in the park can be especially seductive add the water view and she just might take you.
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man i did a post on this can't find on my blog or sedfast, maybe i wrote it in mpua forum, who knows, but basically at a high point on the texting when she is exited, you do a soft close, then you say "invite me over"... This has to be at a high point of the interaction when she is invested and exited...
Found it in sedfast: https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/general/10005-invite-me-over
Found it in sedfast: https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/general/10005-invite-me-over
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In a driving situation if you pick her up at her place, you need to return her there. It is only natural. Perhaps you are feeling a little tired before you drive home or you left your jacket there...Or she promised to show you her collection of Hello Kitty key fobs....
If you do enough comfort for her to not think you are a potential serial killer or stalker she will allow you to pick her up from her place.
If you do enough comfort for her to not think you are a potential serial killer or stalker she will allow you to pick her up from her place.