How to handle a social event with multiple girls you have been talking to?

[Ex Procastinator]

Ill be having an even which a couple of girls i have got chasing going to. I was just wondering how do you handle this situation cause iv have been in similar scenarios where i have just ended with nothing cause i was just damage controlling to much.


Should i just go in out come independant and just not care and damage control later?

Thanks

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Ex Pro,

This is a perfect opportunity. Having multiple girls that you already have interest from in the same place gives you social momentum. Girls want guys who have other girls. Just don't do damage control. If one walks let her walk. If you do damage control you come off as needy. That is why you lost out before. If they get into an argument just walk away and start socializing with other girls there. If two girls are fighting over you there will be others that become interested in you because of the social momentum. Note I am assuming you haven't made a boyfriend commitment to either of these girls. If you didn't let them know you aren't interested in a relationship you could have trouble. If so you need to fix that first or you will have a fight on your hands. Playing and having a girlfriend doesn't usually work. There are a couple guys here that pull it off but it is tough. You have to know what you are doing at the beginning.

BDSC

 

[Ex Procastinator]

Sounds like a plan